She's so hot and cold with me! What should I do now?
Q. ok i really need help with this... there's this girl i've known since 2010 and she's so up and down w/ me :( recently, we were texting a lot and expressed to one another how much we love each other. she would be soo affectionate towards me ...
A. 17 April 2012: been there and had a guy do that to me. its not worth it, it will only happen again and again get out and find a girl whos really into you.
think about it this way - would you ignore someone you loved sooooo much? thought not.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure how to end this FWB relationship?
Q. Okay so since about my sophomore year I guess you could call me and this guy "friends with benefits". Everyone knew that we always had a thing even though we would date other people and stuff..he would always cheat on his gf with me which I known is ...
A. 1 January 2012: Either decide you want to be with him properly or tell him you won't be having sex with him again. Quite simple really.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to love one child more than your other?
Q. This might be a very "rough" question.. But, let's say you have 2 children. Would it be normal to love one more then the other? Or, let's say you were put in a situation where only one of your children would live, and you had to choose which one ...
A. 31 December 2011: I have two children and, although I love them bother the same I don't always LIKE them the same.
My youngest is very naughty and a complete handful whereas my oldest is very good natured and always does as she's told howver they are both my child... (read in full...)
Should I walk away from this relationship for my partners sake?
Q. Ok so I have asked for help here before and you aunts have been so sweet to me. This is an actual relationship question. Basically as some of you know I'm trasnsgender. Born into a male body but defiantly female inside. I do have trouble finding ...
A. 26 December 2011: I would give her space but just let her know that you are there for her - even just as friends (for now maybe) don't pressure her into anything... (read in full...)
I left in the middle of the night after sex, now he never wants to hear from me!
Q. Hey everyone, about a month ago I started seeing this guy and he was an absolute sweetheart to me and things were going well... Anyway, last night we went on a date and we planned that I would stay at his house for the night. We had sex multiple...
A. 26 September 2011: He's hurt.
If you have a email address email him how you felt or even send a letter and then wait til he's ready for contact again, if he ever is
He might think you saw it as a one night stand and he may find it hard to trust you now... (read in full...)
I applied the 'no contact' rule, but last night I caved in and texted him
Q. Recently I wrote about the affair that I had ended I've been working really hard on keeping busy etc but last night I broke 'no contact' and text him. What should I do if he replies? Should I just ignore it and carry on with NC? I've tried d...
A. 25 September 2011: Thank you for all the replies I really appreciate the time you all took to reply.
I am just going to have to try and be stronger on thurs I was dying to text but got past it and let it go
I don't want to come across as needy and pathetic to ... (read in full...)
I applied the 'no contact' rule, but last night I caved in and texted him
Q. Recently I wrote about the affair that I had ended I've been working really hard on keeping busy etc but last night I broke 'no contact' and text him. What should I do if he replies? Should I just ignore it and carry on with NC? I've tried d...
A. 24 September 2011: Aww gurl you're amazing maybe one day ill send you a message with the full story its too much and too personal to post here x... (read in full...)
I applied the 'no contact' rule, but last night I caved in and texted him
Q. Recently I wrote about the affair that I had ended I've been working really hard on keeping busy etc but last night I broke 'no contact' and text him. What should I do if he replies? Should I just ignore it and carry on with NC? I've tried d...
A. 24 September 2011: You're amazing seriously girl I decided to do no contact more because I need to get perspective. I am not a needy person I'm usually very Strong but he has such a hold on me. And he knows it. When we meet he treats me like gold and then just starts ... (read in full...)
I applied the 'no contact' rule, but last night I caved in and texted him
Q. Recently I wrote about the affair that I had ended I've been working really hard on keeping busy etc but last night I broke 'no contact' and text him. What should I do if he replies? Should I just ignore it and carry on with NC? I've tried d...
A. 24 September 2011: You are such a amazing person I really need your advice I've even book marked this page now so I can re read it when I feel I need to
I've tried the time limit thing but I always make excuses for him it was his bday yesterday too
I just have t... (read in full...)
I applied the 'no contact' rule, but last night I caved in and texted him
Q. Recently I wrote about the affair that I had ended I've been working really hard on keeping busy etc but last night I broke 'no contact' and text him. What should I do if he replies? Should I just ignore it and carry on with NC? I've tried d...
A. 24 September 2011: Thank you for your quick response I'd love to wait for him - I know that if I wait long enough he'll make contact but with him he can go 5+ weeks without making contact and I hate that so much he makes me feel like I mean nothing to him and after ... (read in full...)
I like to watch her masturbate, is this normal?
Q. [note: please do not write questions in all caps] I like to watch my wife masturbate and she likes to watch me. I'm very small in size, maybe 6 inches hard. She tells me it doesn't matter. It bothers me and I just hope she's truthful. I perf...
A. 23 September 2011: Yes you're normal and 6 inches isn't small its normal and trust me when I say bigger isn't always better... (read in full...)
My married ex's birthday is coming up, how do I wish her a Happy Birthday?
Q. Dear Cupid, I had an affair with a married woman. It had been almost a year since we broke up. I didn't answer her call and reply her mail. I'm still single and I couldn't find a girlfriend may be cuz of my busy work. To be honest, sometime I...
A. 23 September 2011: Don't do anything you broke up remember?... (read in full...)
Should I tell him exactly what I think? Or just completely ignore him! Hes hurt me so much! Please help!
Q. Im after some good honest opinions as im going out of my mind with frustration. I was seeing this guy for 9 months but he treats me like crap. No matter what he does though i still wanna be with him. Im in love with him. He always blows hot and cold ...
A. 21 September 2011: I'm in a similar situation. I sent the text and he didn't even reply - that hurt so much don't do it just delete his number and forget him... (read in full...)
Sent a girl a dirty pic. Things are weird. Now what?
Q. I am sort of new top this online dating thing. I met this girl online and we hit it off real well. We started chatting via I'm and some of our chats got explicit. She sent me some photos of her bare legs (waist down) in the past. Last night, s...
A. 20 September 2011: She may be more embarrassed because of the messages she was sending you. Don't mention it again unless she does and just act as you normally would don't force the subject or she might start thinking that's all you want from her... (read in full...)
I think he should have told me at the beginning that he had bad credit and had been blacklisted!
Q. I started dating a man I met via internet 2 years ago. All seemed fine to start with. He told me once he has no credit cards because he doesn’t want any. Fair enough. He rented his flat, didn’t own property or have a mortgage. He bought a new ...
A. 20 September 2011: I don't understand what the big deal is here he was probably too embarrassed to tell you and its better in the long run that he's not buying tvs etc on credit anyway... (read in full...)
How to get over a affair as 'the other woman'
Q. I have decided to end my long-term affair. He is married and I am in a 10 year long term relationship. We have three children between us. I don't want to go into all the details (my last question described much of it) but I've decided I've had ...
A. 18 September 2011: I am serious about changing my life but I also have 2 children to consider and cannot just drop things b/c I feel like it I have to sort things out but I feel I owe it to my children to go about it in the right way... (read in full...)
I cheated on my wife. Should I tell her?
Q. I cheated on my wife 14 years ago. I didn't have an affair. It was just one day in a motel room with an ex-girlfriend. I felt terrible about it even as it was happening. My wife does suspect something may have happened. In fact, I think she susp...
A. 18 September 2011: Keep quiet especially after all this time all you will be doing is hurting her. If it had happened last night that isn't the advice I'd give but 14 years is a long time I don't think any woman could get over that... (read in full...)
Does this guy want more than a FWB relationship?
Q. Hi evryone I know there are a lot of these types of questions but I really need some good answers not sarcasm I met this man in march I really like him we see each other once or twice every two or three weeks cos he is always busy and so am I I ...
A. 17 September 2011: The only way finding out for sure is by asking him I'm going thru something similar myself right now and it feels awful are you ok with being fwb? Its very hard to have sex with someone without developing feelings for them... (read in full...)
How to get over a affair as 'the other woman'
Q. I have decided to end my long-term affair. He is married and I am in a 10 year long term relationship. We have three children between us. I don't want to go into all the details (my last question described much of it) but I've decided I've had ...
A. 17 September 2011: I believe you are right and maybe after christmas I will look at my options but as of now I just cannot get this man out of my head he has been in my life for years and have always thought of him as "the one" but he's getting on with his own life ... (read in full...)
How to get over a affair as 'the other woman'
Q. I have decided to end my long-term affair. He is married and I am in a 10 year long term relationship. We have three children between us. I don't want to go into all the details (my last question described much of it) but I've decided I've had ...
A. 17 September 2011: He is a good man but he has changed so much since we first got together mainly due to him smoking cannabis (not around the children) I want to be happy with him but his mood swings make him hard to handle I think I saw this other guy as my escape ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend I 'think' I might be pregnant?
Q. Do I tell my boyfriend I think I might be pregnant? I'm 19 in a few days, he's 18 and we've been in a stable, loving relationship for 2 and a half years. I am on the pill and we use condoms everytime we have sex. I have been experiencing a lot of ...
A. 14 September 2011: As said chances are it is just symptoms from your pill. But 2.5 years is a long term relationship and you should be able to discuss these things together afterall he's the reason you're in this situation... (read in full...)
Why is my ex boyfriend not picking up my calls?
Q. What does this mean? has he moved on? is he not interested? My ex boyfriend and I got in contact and I told him I missed him and he told me he missed me too. He asked me to come visit him on the weekend. Spend some time together, he'll cook and w...
A. 14 September 2011: Just give him time to take in what's happened so far. You haven't said why you broke up but it could be he's afraid of history repeating itself if. Maybe send him a friendly text but other than that I'd just give him some space... (read in full...)
I caught my fiancé's dad cheating
Q. Yesterday I caught my future father in law cheating, I know it would break my fiancé's heart if I told him, not to mention if his mother finds out, it will tear his family apart. I don't know what to do. I don't think I would ever say anything to ...
A. 13 September 2011: Don't tell your fiance instead speak to your father in law and tell him what you saw that will probably shock him into finishing his affair... (read in full...)
He says I'm perfect... for fun?!
Q. I'm at a major cross roads in my life and just don't know what to do for the best. Around 6 years ago I got in touch with my HS sweetheart we had dated a little but he got obsessed so I stopped contact just before we finished school. We m...
A. 11 September 2011: Thank you for your answers I guess in some ways you've all given me lots to think about. I am still with my partner but only for the kids - I cannot afford to live by myself and neither can my partner. We both know romantically our relationship... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I'm worth much to him.
Q. I cannot deal with the fact that my partner had a relationship before me. He was with a girl for two years, they lived together and he adored her. They broke up when she emotionally cheated on him. he said the relationship was unhealthy - they ...
A. 10 September 2011: If there isn't much "passion" then maybe he just isn't 'the one' for you. Whether you decide to stay with him or not you need to understand that whoever you're with will have a past, just like you do. Its what makes us who we are today. Maybe you ... (read in full...)
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