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30-35,
*pendy
writes:What does this mean? has he moved on? is he not interested? My ex boyfriend and I got in contact and I told him I missed him and he told me he missed me too. He asked me to come visit him on the weekend. Spend some time together, he'll cook and we can go out.He rang me on sunday night and we had a long chat just like when we were together.I tired ringing him on monday morning and his phone has been on voicemail since. Has he got a girlfriend? Has he moved on? I've tried ringing him twice already and I don't want to ring again cos I don't want to seem desperate.Thanks..x
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reader, KittieS +, writes (14 September 2011):
 Hello Spendy,
It so often happens during break-ups, you get caught into the memory of what was good not what was wrong, and its easy to slip back into chatting (even when things are really tough and you break up, you still have things in common)Shame we dont know a little more about the why you broke up or how long...
Not sure if you are looking to get back with this guy, but if you are wanting too then you need to do a few things.
1. send him a text saying "hi, it was nice to speak to you the other day, hope your ok tried to get in touch but guess your busy
2. DONT send anything else, no X no hugs, just brief to the point.
3. if he contacts you, leave it... dont respond, if he calls, answer if you feel like it but keep it brief, let him think about what your up too, let him wonder what you are doing, let him chase you. dont agree to meet him, your busy, your sassy, your having fun - even if you have nothing to do YOU ARE BUSY!
4. when you have had time to think, asses your self, decide if this is what you really want then have a very casual meeting over coffee or a quick drink
Men like to chase, chasing him is going to make him run in the opposite direction. let him chase you, and im not suggesting "playing" games, im suggesting you need to actually find out in your heart in your head if you actually want to be with this man, and if you do - the above will help you get him back :)
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reader, butterfliesarefree +, writes (14 September 2011):
Just give him time to take in what's happened so far. You haven't said why you broke up but it could be he's afraid of history repeating itself if. Maybe send him a friendly text but other than that I'd just give him some space
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