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*heerwhore23
writes:Okay so since about my sophomore year I guess you could call me and this guy "friends with benefits". Everyone knew that we always had a thing even though we would date other people and stuff..he would always cheat on his gf with me which I known is horrible but whatever Idk how to explain it like I had feelings for him but then again I didn't at all..we were simply just friends with benifits...anyways this went on until he graduated and I thought that finally I'd be done with him..he came home and I didn't see him or talk to him once. But when he came home this time we saw eachother..well since him and my brother are bestfriends..but he came to a party with us and we ended up having sex..idk what to do to end this like idk maybe I do like him or something idk but something needs to change..what should I do!? Reply to this Question
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (1 January 2012):
 If you want it to end, just don't have sex with him. This isn't a situation where you need to break up, or have a serious talk. If he wanted more from you than sex, you'd know. If you wanted a relationship with him, you'd know. You seem pretty indecisive, and I'd caution you against casual sex as the walkin dude did. Unless you're sure of what you want, and where you stand, FWB are usually a bad idea, and end messy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2012): Tell him you either want a relationship or to be just friends but you won't sleep with him unless he's willing to commit to you. You're way too young to be having casual sex anyway.
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reader, butterfliesarefree  +, writes (1 January 2012):
Either decide you want to be with him properly or tell him you won't be having sex with him again. Quite simple really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2012): It depends if you want a relationship with this guy, you need to tell him the you no longer want to have sex outside an official relationship, so unless he wants to be in a relationship with you this situation has to end.
If you don't want to be in a relationship with him, then simply tell him that this situation is not working for you and you cannot have sex with him in future. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2012): Try saying 'NO'.
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