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We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?

Q.   hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...

A.   5 January 2009: It is not possible for you to get pregnant from kissing. I'm sure you already knew that as you've mentioned that you're virgin and all. Anyway, you really should talk to your parents about seeing a doctor. And again, you're not pregnant, so you c... (read in full...)

I'm in love but not with my husband. Do I follow my heart?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've tried to deal with this situation alone but, it's getting the best of me. I got into a relationship in 2006, everything was wonderful, it was like he was made just for me, so we got married in 2007, had our 1st child in 2008. B...

A.   15 September 2008: You say you don't love your husband anymore because there's been a variable in all of this that you've been instigating. In my opinion, the affection you're feeling for your ex seems more like puppy love, which tends to make people do irrational ... (read in full...)

While I am in a long term relationship, I am aggrieved that my sex buddy is getting attached to me and not respecting our deal!

Q.   i got involved with a guy on a purly physical bases, we where both very attracted to each other and i was in a long term relationship that i have no intention of leaving. i know its not ideal but we both were in tune and understanding of the ...

A.   15 September 2008: Regardless of whatever agreement you two may have, one developing feelings for the other is a common thing in these types of relationships. Think about it, you've been sleeping together for a year. On top of that, you're encouraging it by ... (read in full...)

I want us to last but we argue alot and he seems to still want to be with his wife.

Q.   I am confused.ive been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. He is still married but seperated and has kids.I love him but we have alot of money problems and we argue alot. I also think he still gets together with his wife and im not sure i can ...

A.   14 September 2008: You obviously have strong feelings for this man. However, you have to consider the possibility that this relationship is not be meant to be. The red flags are there: he's considering getting back with his wife, you're having money issues with him ... (read in full...)

Should I forgive my ex for ruining my relationship?

Q.   About a month ago, I started talking with my ex-girlfriend again. We drifted apart due to living in different cities and her dealings with her ex-husband and her children. Since our breakup, I started dating my current girlfriend. Unfortunately, ...

A.   13 September 2008: Hi oldersister. To clarify, and to expunge your notion of how I consider myself to be on some type of moral highground, my ex asked for fogiveness. Honestly, I didn't know why she was asking seeing as how she had already apologized. But now that ... (read in full...)

What are the signs of a player?

Q.   Would like to know how you can tell if a guy is playing you. What are some of the signs that he might be doing this?...

A.   12 March 2008: This is a rather broad question. It all depends on what he's doing to raise your suspicions. A few signs that might seem familiar: * He tends to be very secretive * He hasn't introduced you to any of his friends or family * He doesn't always a... (read in full...)

I jokingly said he was gay and he lost his erection instantly. Any advice??

Q.   Last weekend when my boyfriend and I were having sex we were talking and joking, and out of the blue I asked him 'for how long have you been gay" and he lost the erection instantly. We usually have no problem in this area. Also that weekend ...

A.   12 March 2008: Well, asking a man during sex if he's gay hits pretty hard and is pretty much a turn-off. Kind of like if he were to say another woman's name other than yours during sex. You may want to apologize to him, if you havn't already, and explain ... (read in full...)

His phone porn clips make me want to give my number to other men!

Q.   Please help, i'm not sure if i'm acting the right way. well my bf is 'obsessed' with porn videos or that's what i think. Because he has a whole lot of porn clips on his phone. about 2 months ago I told him to delete these things on his phone and ...

A.   12 March 2008: If he truly values your relationship, he wouldn't keep that kind of trash on his phone, especially when he knows you're aware of it. The whole "I'm a man" excuse is weak and immature. Also, I wouldn't give out my number to other guys just to show ... (read in full...)

She prefers anal sex, completely rejecting vaginal intercourse. It makes me feel dirty but I accept this because I love her. What should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend only wants anal sex and I really don't feel comfortable with this. I am a strict Christian I do not believe that this kind of sex is either appropriate or godly. I only go along with it because I love her but it makes me feel very ...

A.   5 March 2008: I'm sorry, but you say that you're a strict Christian and find anal sex to be inappropriate and ungodly, yet you're having sex out of wedlock? I hope you see where I'm going with this. If anal sex isn't your thing, then that's fine. Continue ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend of two years, but he's clingy and I am thinking of someone else...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years, and i have just began to notice how clingy he is and controlling. I love him a lot and want to be with him forever, but I really just want time to be single and enjoy life since im only 18. I ...

A.   4 March 2008: You say you love him and want to be with him forever, but you also say you want to enjoy being single and that you're interested in someone else. Honestly, it sounds like you've already made up your mind. The fact that you've mentioned he's clingy ... (read in full...)

My fiancee got another woman pregnant. Help!

Q.   I left my fiancee 4 months ago (very hard to do). We were together for 6 yrs. I found out he cheated and she is now pregnant. He never told me all this, I found out on my own. He kept lying behind my back. First he said he was just friends with her ...

A.   3 March 2008: The pregnant mistress seems to be more of "the last straw" in a bigger problem with your ex and his family. It obviously doesn't sound like you were happy with them or how the relationship was going, and his behavior after the fact doesn't seem ... (read in full...)

With or without a condom....which way is less painful??

Q.   My girlfriend said that it hurt's her less with a condom but i have also heard that it hurt's more with a condom. What do you think? Any tip's will help becouse i want to hurt her as little as i can....

A.   24 December 2007: As they say, "A nighttime of passion can cause you a lifetime of pain." So yes, the condom will hurt less, in a certain sense. ;)... (read in full...)

He denies we're an item. What should I do?

Q.   Help.My boyfriend says he loves me but i can't see it. He's denying our relationship in his work and don't want others to know that we're together....What shall i do? I love him so much....

A.   24 December 2007: He's either not into you or he's married, hence why he's denying that he's in a relationship with you. I'd say end the relationship. You don't need that kind of rejection.... (read in full...)

Should I answer the phone and tell her why I don't want to have anything to do with her?

Q.   I recently ended my relationship with my now ex of 2 years due to the ridiculous amount of problems that we faced. She was extremely demanding and always threatened to end our relationship if she didn't get her way. She would endlessly compla...

A.   10 October 2007: Thanks for the advice everyone. I got to talking with her on the phone. We were both very calm and discussed our problems. Apparently, she has moved on and found someone else. We exchanged apologies for everything, and I think we're going to try ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 dating a guy who's 22. Do you think that's wrong?

Q.   I'm sixteen and i just started dating a 22 year ol that i met at a concert.. Our relationship is purely innocent. The idea of sex hasnt even came up. He is really respectful and we connect and a different level than age. I really and truly in my ...

A.   9 October 2007: If the proposition of sex does ever come up, you guys need to do your research. The age of consent is different in every state. As for how society views it, well, he's old enough to drink, you're not old enough to vote. I don't think society ... (read in full...)

Why would he go back to her?

Q.   i hate life. well me and my ex supposedly got back together, he claimed he missed me blah blah blah. well we werent 100% together but we were thinking about it. he went back to his other girlfriend. this shocks me cause last night he called he ugly ...

A.   9 October 2007: He's a guy, plain and simple. He's at an age where he's been set loose in the candy store and wants to dip his finger in all the different flavors before he commits to one flavor. I'm not saying all young guys are like that. Some actually have ... (read in full...)

We were happy until I found out about my fiance's secret affair with my mother.

Q.   I just found out that my fiancee who I have been with for 8 years and have a 3 month old son with had an affair with my mother. She told me a couple of days ago, she said that it happened about 2 years ago. A month before he proposed to me actually...

A.   9 October 2007: As others have expressed, I can't figure out why your mother would dump this on your lap considering that it happened so long ago and so soon after having a baby. I'm giving your mother the benefit of the doubt and assuming she wanted to come ... (read in full...)

My Husband has rented pornos - should I be worried?

Q.   I just found out my husband has rented several porns that imply that the actresses are teens even though they are not. They are depicted as teens and the title includes the word teen in them. Should I be worried?...

A.   9 October 2007: If renting the films is not something that the two of you don't do as a couple or he didn't consult with you prior to renting the films, then you might want to make him aware that you know about the films. Also, is it the fact of the pornos ... (read in full...)

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