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What are the signs of a player?

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Question - (12 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Would like to know how you can tell if a guy is playing you. What are some of the signs that he might be doing this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008):

He spends less time with you.

He watches more porn/watches porn.

Goes out more often, generally with guys, to the pub or clubbing, for instance.

He gets drunk more often than normal.

You see him checking out girls/more often than normal.

He suddenly starts commenting on boobs, or other parts of the female anatomy.

He smiles more at other women or is willing to help that 'damsel in distress'.

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A male reader, Bronze United States +, writes (12 March 2008):

This is a rather broad question. It all depends on what he's doing to raise your suspicions. A few signs that might seem familiar:

* He tends to be very secretive

* He hasn't introduced you to any of his friends or family

* He doesn't always answer the phone when he's around you

* He's gets defensive easily

* He's not into public displays of affection

The list goes on. But without any specific examples of what you're seeing, it's hard to determine what he's up to.

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A female reader, giordana United Kingdom +, writes (12 March 2008):

Well some of the thing to look out for would be:

Not answering your phone calls/texts - he may be busy, but if it happens very often be wary.

Not answering his phone when someone calls and you are with him - the top scenario, just reversed. He doesn't want you to hear who is calling him.

Locks on his phone - he may just be a private person but locks on your images and messages normally means there things he doesn't want you to see.

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