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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend said that it hurt's her less with a condom but i have also heard that it hurt's more with a condom. What do you think? Any tip's will help becouse i want to hurt her as little as i can.
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reader, Bronze +, writes (24 December 2007):
As they say, "A nighttime of passion can cause you a lifetime of pain." So yes, the condom will hurt less, in a certain sense. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007): If the condom is unlubricated, it may hurt more because the fluid the penis secretes prior to ejaculation adds slip. If it's lubricated, it may hurt less.
Either way, the fact that she says it hurts 'less' indicates there's some degree of pain either way. Simple solution: buy a bottle of lube (Astroglide and the like are commonly available in drugstores now, usually near the condoms) and apply liberally. Voila, less friction, less pain.
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reader, daletom +, writes (24 December 2007):
Hey "anonymous original poster" -
Like the first two answers imply, this question seems to have a pretty obvious answer, unless . . .
- You and this girl have not yet had sex
- One (or both) of you is a virgin and has never had sex with anybody.
Can you give a little more information, so we can better help you?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 December 2007):
 Sex shouldn't be painful, with or without a condom. If she complained about "pain", then perhaps you are too rough, or she has an allergy or something like that. But the most likely reason, I guess, is her not wanting to become pregnant. And I am fully with her in this regard. Do use a condom, always.
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reader, Dazed & Confused +, writes (23 December 2007):
Use a lot of lube! And if you want to try without a condom, make sure you both get tested fot STD's. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): If you want to hurt her as little as possible i suggest you just follow what she says, if she says it hurts her less with a condom then wear a condom. Theres no point going by what other people say because everyone is different. Just follow any feedback she gives you! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): It should hurt less, because the condom is lubricated to reduce friction.
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