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I am a 32yr old female and I live in Tennessee with my husband. I dont have special qualifying to help people but I have always been the one in my family that people come talk to. Me and my husband love to sing. I have 2 step children. I am open to talk to anyone about their problems,just ask. I am deeply in love with my husband.

Does anyone have advice on 'kitchen sex'?

Q.   My lover and I have been exploring different places to have sex. He wants to try the kitchen. What info/advice do you have for kitchen sex? What are some fun things that can be done as part of kitchen sex? What positions work well? {Moderator not...

A.   26 August 2008: I have had sex in kitchen and it is interesting. You can sit on counter top while he ponds you that way. Try using ice cubes to spice it up , trust me on that one. Let your imagination run wild and enjoy it.... (read in full...)

I need some suggestions on a threesome!

Q.   i want to do something wild and crazy w/ my husband. i want to have sex with another women while he watches and then have him join in. any suggestions on this ,he is deeply in love w/ me and would do anything for me, but is this going to far. HELP ...

A.   6 November 2007: Thanks to all the replys I got, and I didnt go through with it and I am glad I didnt, I can find other things to do to get wild and crazy w/ my husband. Love to all.... (read in full...)

I'm unable to sustain an erection, is there something wrong with me?

Q.   Hi for the past year my wife has been telling me i don't get as hard as i use to. If she talks dirty it seems to do the trick, but not for long. Several times i haven't been able to finish off which she says is ok but i am not sure. Recent...

A.   1 November 2007: My husband is the same way, we have amazing sex but as far as him "getting off" during intercourse is out of the question. He has been to the Dr. and they said it could be the medication he takes for anxiety. He said it has been going on for about 4 ... (read in full...)

I need some suggestions on a threesome!

Q.   i want to do something wild and crazy w/ my husband. i want to have sex with another women while he watches and then have him join in. any suggestions on this ,he is deeply in love w/ me and would do anything for me, but is this going to far. HELP ...

A.   24 October 2007: Thank you for the suggestions i appreciate all i get. ... (read in full...)

Need some assurance that my time will come

Q.   Hi Everyone, I am an 18 year old male living NE Philadelphia and I have a few questions coming across my mind. Recently I moved to a completely new city and somewhat started a new life. I started making friends around my neighborhood and...

A.   23 October 2007: You're time will come. It seems to me as if you are a shy guy , try to go out to a club and mingle with some girls. You are only 18yrs old you have plenty of time to find the one. If ya want to chat email me ... (read in full...)

How many times do working couples have sex when they're married?

Q.   How many times can couple have sex when they're married? Assuming both are working and they meet in the house at night only after job....

A.   8 October 2007: It all depends on the couples. If the only time you can have sex is at night after work then i say do it even if its a quickie. Fortuntly me and my husband work in the same office and same hours, so we average sex about 5-6 days a week. Each couple ... (read in full...)

I need someone to tell me I'm not a slut for having sex at 11. And how do I tell my mum about the pregnancy?

Q.   When i was 11 i had sex for the first time and got pregnant i just need someone to tell me im not a slut, am i ?? i am 11 and pregnant how do i tell my mum and what do i do??...

A.   8 October 2007: Darlin at age 11 you really need to go ahead and tell your mom. I was once in your shoes and trust me tell her and she will be angry but she will understand when the shock wears off. Please e-mail and lets talk, cause you do need to talk to someone. ... (read in full...)

My gf is insecure about how she looks. How can I help her get over this?

Q.   Hi me and my gf have recently started having sex. W ehave been together over a yr and have been friends since infant school. It just she loves the sex,as do i. but she doesn't like the fact of doing it because shes taking her clothes off. She ...

A.   8 October 2007: The thing you need to do is everyday tell her how beatiful she is and assure her that you are happy with her. Tell her that if she feels better she can get naked and light candles and the room will be dim and maybe that will break the ice a little ... (read in full...)

How do I help my girl get over her Father's death, and convince her that she's not going to lose me as well?

Q.   Ok i really need some advice. My wife and i have been married for 7 years and together since we were 16,friends before that! So i've been there through pretty much all of her life,through the ups and downs etc. Her dad died about a week ago, the ...

A.   8 October 2007: I lost my dad when i was 21 and it took me a while to get on with my life normally. I was his baby girl and i felt like since he passed away everybody close to me was gonna leave me astray, be patient with her. It will get better with her i ... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend might be gay. Should I suggest a threesome?

Q.   hi am just staying over my boyfriends. we are both 21, been together for a year now. i diacovered he is checking out gay porn and gay sites to meet gay men and have sex. i didn't mean to pry but it was there! i thought we had a pretty spicy se...

A.   8 October 2007: Ok start off by suggesting a thresome with a guy and see how he reacts. If he is all up for it then casually work your way to the question about the web site. Tell him it is ok to tell you anything he wants to talk about , but you defintly need to ... (read in full...)

Is it my duty to satisfy him?

Q.   I still have feeling for my son father, they are not as strong as when we first broke up, but I do still have feelings and him keeping in constant contact does not help my "getting over him process". He is in a new relationship, I am in one also...

A.   8 October 2007: It is not your job to keep him satisfied no more. If you are in a relationship and are happy you need to stop having phone sex with him and tell him not to call you no more if all he is wanting is to have phone sex. He sounds like he is just ... (read in full...)

My wife would rather fall asleep in front of the TV than have sex. She's lost interest in it. What can I do to revive our sex life?

Q.   After 35 years of marraige my wife and I no longer have sex . She falls asleep in front of the tv and I amuse myself at the computer We had a normal ex life till about 8 years ago I noticed I was the only one initiating sex. Then she became m...

A.   8 October 2007: the first thing i would try is to surprise her one night with a bubble bath and candles, slow music and really show her that she still feels special in every way. cook her her favorite dinner and eat by candle light and play a little bit by Kenny ... (read in full...)

I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before.

Q.   I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before. What should I do? Should I be naked or I have no idea what to do. ...

A.   8 October 2007: the main thing to do is not be nervous. stay calm and dont constantly stare at his penis. look into his eyes and watch is face expression and that will tell you alot. use a little baby oil and he will love it . also while you do it take slow long ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?

Q.   Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes...

A.   8 October 2007: i couldnt imagine my husband making another girl moan and vice versa. you really need to stop and think about the outcome before you just jump in and have a threesome. yes i have fantazied about it a time or to and then the more i thought about it ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for your finace to masturbate when you are not with him?

Q.   Is it normal for your fiance' to masterbate when you are not with him?...

A.   18 September 2007: yes it is dont worry it is perfectly normal. just because he does that does that dont mean he dont find you attractive. me and my husband have a very good relationship and sex life but there are times when he will masturbate by himself same with ... (read in full...)

Does porn bother you?

Q.   Hi everyone I would just like to ask for several minutes of your time to ask for your opinion on the folllowing. It MAY affect women more than men (as already confirmed. How do you all feel about your partner (male/or female, again it may...

A.   17 September 2007: Me and my husband watch porn together and it is a very big turn on , but if i wasnt home and he watched it that would be fine cause when he is gone and i feel the need to releive myself i do .... (read in full...)

What is it called when a girl uses a sex toy on a guy??

Q.   what is it called when a girl uses a dildo on a guy to shag them? me and my gf saw it during a porn vid we watched together and are extremely interested in trying it. If any1 has any experiences of this please can you give us sum tips to prep...

A.   17 September 2007: Me and my husband tried it and he said it was actually a turn on by all means he is not bi he is straight he was just fulfilling a fantasy i had. i say go for it and enjoy !!!!! Tell her to be easy and go slow... (read in full...)

My boyfriend lost his rag with me and now wont speak to me or contact me. What should I do?

Q.   Ok, I am 50 and my b/f is 55. We have been dating for 5 months. We have a great relationship. He tells me he loves me and shows it to me in many ways. He will do anything for me. He has a son (24) with some medical concerns who lives out of state. ...

A.   17 September 2007: You dont need to put up with bull crap like that, if he had any feelings at all he would want you there with him to have support and help him deal with the hard times he has. Girlfriend I say go and dont look back you deserve better, take it from ... (read in full...)

My belly-button peircing is painful and red. Any advice?

Q.   In June (2007) I got my belly-button pierced. It is now September and it's still red around the piercing and is still sore if I bump it accidentally (which I do all too often). It's not bleeding, or oozing, but every couple of days there's a little ...

A.   13 September 2007: i had mine done about 5 yrs ago and mine done that and i went back to tattoo parlor were i had it done and they told me to clean it with antibacterial soap and during the day swab it with contact lense saline solution .. i did that and within a ... (read in full...)

Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?

Q.   What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do so...

A.   13 September 2007: it is time to make youself happy for a change. i say do whatever makes you happy and makes you feel good.... (read in full...)

I pulled away b/c I've never snogged anyone before! I was just nervous, but he dumped me.

Q.   Im 14 next week and i've had quite a few boyfriends. theres this one boy ive been out with 7 times, the last time we went out he dumped me. I think its because one time when we were camping with a group of friends we were left alone in the tent and ...

A.   13 September 2007: you did the right thing by not doing it until you are ready 100 % . you are still young and live your life as a teen and dont worry about it make the first time be with someone you really love and want to spend your life with. dont rush it the ... (read in full...)

I think going on holiday with a load of lads is a single thing to do, should I be worried?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend about 3 years and a half and he now wants to go on holiday with a load of lads from work. i dont feel comfortable with this and have told him so but he keeps saying im controlling him but im not. i'm just paranoid that ...

A.   13 September 2007: yes you should be worried. if he has not asked you to go with him he is up to something. if my boyfriend went away with a bunch of ladys from work and didnt ask me to go i would defintly tell him to stay gone.you dont need someone you cant trust ... (read in full...)

My bf wants to get married, but I'm unsure, since he snogged his bf's gf two years ago and said it was tempting to do more.

Q.   My fiance snogged his bf's gf over two years ago, at that time i was on antidepressants from having my 3rd ectopic pregnancy. I dont know if i trust him or not, as far as i know it hasnt happened since, but he did admit to me that he was tempted ...

A.   13 September 2007: if you have the slightest doubt dont do it cause marriage is a sacred thing. i had doubts on my 1st marriage but done it anyway and it ended up in divorce. he was a drunk to and would always say i didnt do nothing, very hard to trust him. if you ... (read in full...)

Did I have an orgasm?

Q.   Did i have an orgasm?! How can you tell for sure if you did? :S . . He was fingering me and on top of me and kissing me and i went really hot and shaking a little and breathing very fast and couldn't stay still because it was like an unbearabl...

A.   11 September 2007: yes you did and it is normal for you not to know what your first Big O feels like. my first one i had to question whether or not it was.... (read in full...)

I saw my boyfriend's "Ohhhhhh" face and it was really gross...

Q.   I saw my boyfriend's O face and it was really gross.. I was on top and I had the blanket over me cuz it was really cold and I took it off just in time when my boyfriend was getting off, cuz he was making this awful face, I have never seen before. ...

A.   11 September 2007: block it from your mind and just remember it is you who made him have a orgasm love his face and everything about him we all make facial expressions and nothing we can do about it... (read in full...)

I don't know if I am bi or just curious...?

Q.   Am I Bisexual? I constantly stare at girls.. at their boobs and asses you know and of course I think of them sexually but I cannot see myself with a girl that I would really love. I can only see myself loving a guy although I am CONSTANTLY wonde...

A.   11 September 2007: you are normal and those thoughts are normal also. if you continue to have these feelings maybe try fulfilling them and see what hapens. good luck girl... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my cousin! Is there anything I can mix with water that will turn her on???

Q.   actually i love my cousin sister and i want to have sex with her, she is married, she has two children her age is around 30yrs, i stay with her in her house,her husband will be out for business tour, please tell me how can i attract her for sex, is ...

A.   11 September 2007: the only thing i can say is buddy you need to see a phsycologist and get your freakin mind examined.first of all you dont mess with family and second you dont drug a women for sex, get some help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

I feel he doesn't like the quietness of our love-making (we have to be quiet because he lives with his parents), so he feels compelled to say something.

Q.   I have a problem I want to address with my boyfriend about our love-making. We are in a serious relationship, and he is a wonderful lover in so many ways. However, when we are doing sexual things to each other he might mention things that I ...

A.   11 September 2007: i agree with the other answer whisper in his ear and just enjoy each other. maybe suggest to go to a nice motel or resort for a night and really enjoy each others love making... (read in full...)

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