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Need some assurance that my time will come

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Question - (23 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *rewFafalios writes:

Hi Everyone, I am an 18 year old male living NE Philadelphia and I have a few questions coming across my mind.

Recently I moved to a completely new city and somewhat started a new life. I started making friends around my neighborhood and i am starting to hang out with them more and more.

The problem is while I am hanging out with my friends although I am one of the oldest I feel like one of the youngest. Mainly because they all are mature in the in the sense that they have have or have had relationships in the past.

Now this is going to sound kinda weird but I will say it anyway. I have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl before. A lot of questions are surfacing my mind right now.

Why have a Never kissed a girl? Am I just not attractive? Or weird? Or have no "game"? Or just a mean person?

Why have I not kissed a girl and I am so old? Will I ever experience it? Or will I be the 70 year old virgin? When will it happen? With who? Will it even happen?

How can I be sure it will happen? I think I am a normal guy in every other prespective, why Haven't I ever kisssed a girl?

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A male reader, DrewFafalios United States +, writes (25 October 2007):

DrewFafalios is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks, for the answers.

alot of times people just say dont worry but atleast you guys told me how it might happen. thanks

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony auntdear Drue.

You have all the time in the world, there are loads of woman out there waiting for you, as my friend 'blue eyed angel' has said get yourself out and about were the girls are, clubs,dances, or volunteer for some project in your neighbourhood believe me that is a great way of making friends and enjoy yourself, try not to be too eager, be laid back and be yourself, you will be amazed how many new friends you will make. good luck

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A female reader, BlueEyedAngel United States +, writes (23 October 2007):

BlueEyedAngel agony auntYou're time will come. It seems to me as if you are a shy guy , try to go out to a club and mingle with some girls. You are only 18yrs old you have plenty of time to find the one. If ya want to chat email me

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