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I don't know if I am bi or just curious...?

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Question - (9 September 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Am I Bisexual?

I constantly stare at girls.. at their boobs and asses you know

and of course I think of them sexually but I cannot see myself with a girl that I would really love. I can only see myself loving a guy although I am CONSTANTLY wondering what it would be like to kiss a girl, to touch a girl sexually. Would it feel weird? I don't know what I should do, I mean I don't know if I am bi or just curious.

I really really really like girls and I tend to be a horny person so does this have to do with it? Ugh I don't know if I want anything more than a hook up or sexual interaction with a girl..... please help

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A female reader, lovehate United Kingdom +, writes (6 October 2007):

lovehate agony auntIt is purely curiousity. Do not panic. It is usual for young teens to be curious about sex. You are just fascinated about the different sexes and what they are like sexually. You will soon come out of it, it is only temporary. It is usual for young girls to admire other girls. You are horny as you are probably going through pubity (?) It's all that sexual tention, you've got to get it out on something.

Its an amzing new experience with lots of ups and downs. Don't be worried, just get on with life.

I am 15 so if you want any advice bell me xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007):

i think you're are still very young and you being horny all the time is normal because of the hole puberty thing...believe me been there. I had this same problem but then I realized yo i like guys and I've been with this amazing wonderful bf for a long time and now we are getting married and being with a girl would totally be like whack to me...but its i guess a part of growing up and if you really want it or not...

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A female reader, BlueEyedAngel United States +, writes (11 September 2007):

BlueEyedAngel agony auntyou are normal and those thoughts are normal also. if you continue to have these feelings maybe try fulfilling them and see what hapens. good luck girl

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (10 September 2007):

rcn agony auntYou're normal. It's Ok to have an attraction to a female, being a female. Women are the beautiful sex. Art work, and statues have been symboled around the female body for centuries. Being a curious girl is part of growing up. Girls generally wonder about women because they know "girls know girls". They know what they like and many times are more sensual than males are.

Yes being horny all the time does have something to do with it. It could also end up biting you in the rear if you have issues with controlling your urges.

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A female reader, crazyone United States +, writes (10 September 2007):

crazyone agony auntWhy don't you try to get a girlfriend and see how it goes. If you'd rather be with a guy and stop having those feeling then maybe your curious....

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