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This is doing my head in, I want him back, but I don't know how.

Q.   i started seein an ex a couple of months ago. We were gettin on really well althogh he made it clear from the start that he didnt want anything heavy and committed, as he had just come out of a relationship. But naturally as time passed, I wanted ...

A.   11 August 2008: See, this is exactly the same way as i was, i'm sorry to be comparing the two of us and everything but each time he would leave me i would spend months trying to move on from him and just as i would get to a stage where i felt like i could he would ... (read in full...)

A follow up question about boyfriends who text their Ex...

Q.   Hello, I posted a question a few days ago about my boyfriend receiving texts from his ex while I was at his house and me feeling really sick and scared because I've been cheated on before in past relationships... well now he's going over to her ...

A.   11 August 2008: You have to remember that not every guy is the same. Not every man is out to hurt you and is going to cheat on you, this one clearly isn't else he would be very secretive about the fact he's going to his exes and she's been contacting him. Take his ... (read in full...)

This is doing my head in, I want him back, but I don't know how.

Q.   i started seein an ex a couple of months ago. We were gettin on really well althogh he made it clear from the start that he didnt want anything heavy and committed, as he had just come out of a relationship. But naturally as time passed, I wanted ...

A.   11 August 2008: i was in this situation for 18 months with an ex of mine, we were on and off for that long and it got us nowhere because it clearly wasn't meant to be. I kept hanging on, and wanting to try again and again to make it work because i really wanted me ... (read in full...)

I've fallen hard for my ex, but he has a new girlfriend.

Q.   Hi. i really like this lad and i am falling really hard for him. i used to be with him but i had to end it because a lot was goin on at the time and i felt meen on him if i didnt see him and things. i still really liked him but then about a month ...

A.   10 August 2008: unless you tell him the way you feel your never going to solve this situation! i know it seems as though its the hardest thing in the world, but he's your friend and he's also just a human being like anybody else. What's the worst that can happen ... (read in full...)

I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14

Q.   So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...

A.   8 August 2008: shorter hair helps, it always makes a woman appear maturer than she actually is, trust me its proven! dress mature too, wear heels to help with your height and wear nice dresses and pencil skirts. The older you dress, the older you look. Just be ... (read in full...)

What should I do?! Am I a lesbian or not?!

Q.   hi i am 13 years old and i get really really horny alot and i think i mihgt like girls but i like guys to idk if its wrong?but i have a older sister who is 16 and ive seen her naked and shes hott! and i like girl a little but idk if i should tell ...

A.   8 August 2008: firstly you shouldn't find your sister attractive but you are obviously just confused about the way your feeling. Maybe you should watch a little porn, both lesbian and heterosexual and see which you are more attracted to. If the women turn you on ... (read in full...)

There is an age difference between me and the boy I like, does it matter?

Q.   I'm 15 almost Sixteen. He's just turned 17. He's starting his senior year. I'm starting my Softmore. I like him... alot ... and he seems to like me. but I think the age and grade diffrence may be in the way. do guys really care about that ??? ...

A.   8 August 2008: boys dont mind too much if im honest. i'm 18 and i'm dating a 23 year old at the moment, it doesn't affect us in anyway at all. The best thing is he is actually more immature than i am! So don't worry about it, it'll be fine :) ... (read in full...)

I know it's said that size is not important but how you use "it", so can you give me a pointer or two of what this actually means?

Q.   I am 20 years old and i am a VIRGIN!!! I know pathetic right. Well anyways I have met this girl and we have been seeing each other for almost 6 monthes and she is starting to pressure me about sex. Everytime we start to do it I get scared and freeze ...

A.   8 August 2008: every woman is into a different thing but i personally prefer it smaller as i find it doesn't hurt as much and its easier in foreplay! This whole thing about women loving big penises is a load of nonsense, all of my friends and i find it easier with ... (read in full...)

Is that idea a lie? Does that only happen in movies?

Q.   Im really worried. I am 15. And all my friends are having sex and bragging about it. I am still a virgin. I really love this girl, so I asked her out. But she said no becuase i was a virgin. She recommended that i go to a prozzie, but i like the ...

A.   8 August 2008: you know what? i lost my virginity younger than i imagined and to the wrong guy and i'm not a person to have regrets, but that is something that i really wish i'd not have done. As perfect as the night seemed at the time, and we did the whole ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?

Q.   I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...

A.   8 August 2008: this frustrates me quite badly. i was almost 15 when i lost my virginity to an 18 year old man who took me for granted, and totally used me. I can never say that i have been as hurt in all my life, and it took me months and months to get over it. I ... (read in full...)

I've fallen hard for my ex, but he has a new girlfriend.

Q.   Hi. i really like this lad and i am falling really hard for him. i used to be with him but i had to end it because a lot was goin on at the time and i felt meen on him if i didnt see him and things. i still really liked him but then about a month ...

A.   8 August 2008: the thing is, this girl that he's with doesn't sound too good anyway especially seen as she threatened you and made you two stop talking for a while when your such good friends. No good girlfriend will care who their boyfriend talks to, because they ... (read in full...)

I'm in a troubled relationship - please help.

Q.   i was seeing some guy and then we broke it off basically..seeing each other occassionally. but then i slept with another guy and he found out, going mad at me and saying he didnt sleep with another girl the whole time. i really don't understand why ...

A.   8 August 2008: It sounds as though when you broke it off he was still very much into you and he thought that even though you were separated you wouldn't be able to forget him and you would run back to him straight away. I don't know the ins and outs of why you ... (read in full...)

My girl has an odor down there, is it normal?

Q.   Hi, uhm, this a kind of embaressing question, or rather problem. When i lick her "you know what/where" it kinda smells, realy bad, its a kinda anticlimax and sometimes i cant stand it. I have seen porn videos with guys licking girls without ...

A.   8 August 2008: maybe she has some sort of infection. The girls vagina is constantly producing discharge which can sometimes start to smell a little, and obviously because we wee between the flaps even though we wipe it can still start to smell (lol this seems so ... (read in full...)

I don't feel butterflies like I used to - is there a problem?!

Q.   When I'm with my boyfriend I don't feel butterflies, and I've only felt them with my very first boyfriend but I've had four since him. Is something wrong with me?...

A.   8 August 2008: it depends how long you've been with him. you don't always have to feel butterflies towards somebody your in a relationship with, usually when they stop its because the feelings are growing stronger than that initial infatuation you have towards ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want me to talk to my mum! What do I do?

Q.   this is a very long story but ill give you the shortened version. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He moved in about 10 months ago with me and my two children. When we first met I told him alot of lies and he only found out ...

A.   8 August 2008: don't ever ever ever let your mum go ever! your mum is just about the closest person you will ever have in your life, if you have a good one at least as you do, and boyfriends will come and go all the time. What if you choose your boyfriend over ... (read in full...)

Should I meet a guy from an online dating site? He's not asked much about my life and is rather kinky.

Q.   hi, can anyone give me some advice please? should i meet a guy iv been chatting to from an online dating site? weve been chatting for a while, he seems ok to me and iv seen pictures of him but he seems really keen to meet up, he's not really asked ...

A.   8 August 2008: He is clearly only wanting one thing and one thing alone, but the thing is at least he is honest about it. I mean would you prefer a man to talk to you online about your life and have you tell him lots of details about it but then when you meet he ... (read in full...)

I would like my Dad to just STAY OUT of my love life unless I want to talk about it...

Q.   I'm going through my teenage years and sometimes i find it VERY hard to cope with all the "stuff" going on. I ave had trouble in the past with relatinships and i find it quite upsetting that i can't talk to my parents about it. I have tried but,b...

A.   8 August 2008: Put it this way, i doubt you would prefer it if your parents took no interest in your life at all and if they didn't care for you. When i was your age i was really lucky because my parents weren't over bearing with things like this, but they still ... (read in full...)

I'm having a hard time getting over my ex, what can I do?

Q.   Its been a solid 6 months since the last time I wrote here, and unfortunately, I still have the same problem. and yes, I see it as a problem. I am still not over my first love. I admit that its not as bad as it used to be anymore, yes. I find myse...

A.   8 August 2008: Your first love is always the hardest to move on from, but trust me it does get better in time. I was in a sorry state for months before i got over mine and even at times when i knew i should be really happy i still couldn't be because all i could ... (read in full...)

There is an age difference between me and the boy I like, does it matter?

Q.   I'm 15 almost Sixteen. He's just turned 17. He's starting his senior year. I'm starting my Softmore. I like him... alot ... and he seems to like me. but I think the age and grade diffrence may be in the way. do guys really care about that ??? ...

A.   8 August 2008: Boys really don't mind an age gap in most situations. The only time it will affect them is if there is a dramatic age gap and the girl is underage and you're having sex because then he could be deemed a 'pedophile' which i find absolute rubbish ... (read in full...)

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