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writes: hi, can anyone give me some advice please? should i meet a guy iv been chatting to from an online dating site? weve been chatting for a while, he seems ok to me and iv seen pictures of him but he seems really keen to meet up, he's not really asked much about my personal life (general question about family, work, etc)he just chats about kinky stuff and try's to have a laugh, is this normal as i know thats what most men are generally like in real life anyway!? (no offence to the good guys out there)sould i meet him or is he just wanting one thing and one thing only?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): He is just intrested in one thing only. However, as he is from the online world and you have only seen pictures he may not be who he says he is so be very careful who you talk to. If you wish get to know him alot better if you want to meet up with him in the end.
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reader, betty backstabber +, writes (8 August 2008):
He is clearly only wanting one thing and one thing alone, but the thing is at least he is honest about it. I mean would you prefer a man to talk to you online about your life and have you tell him lots of details about it but then when you meet he has no interest in you as a person he just wants you in bed. At least you know exactly what your getting. If sex is all you want then go meet him but be careful, if your wanting something more don't expect it from this guy sweetie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): There is no doubt...is only wants one thing. When men are interested in a woman they talk about life.
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reader, Shipwreckd +, writes (7 August 2008):
Get to know him better. Never EVER meet somone from the online world without knowing them for a while. You have to be very cautious these days. What you see is not always what you get. He prolly just wants to have a fling with you and that's it. If that's what you want, just make sure to take proper precautions. If that's not what you want either push to get to know each other better or drop him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): he just wants one thing. If he was interested in a relationship he would ask you about your family, friends, job, - he would be interested in details about your life.
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