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writes:this may sound like a silly question but i really want to have sex with my boyfriend.we have been going out now for 13 months got with him on my 13th birthday im now 14 he is 16 and i feel like i am ready but im scared. he is a virgin and i am a virgin and he has neveer pressured me or nagged at me but can you get it wrong?? i mean sex. what if he doesnt know what to do. (its too embarrasin to ask a friend) is there anyway he could damage me or is it simple. does it really hurt. whats it like. sorry if im askin too much but can anyone help please!!x Reply to this Question
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reader, missin her  +, writes (13 April 2007):
 umm i dont think u should because i started when i was 14 wit ma girl and now we cant seem to stop but its fun learning new things but u should use protection and take those pregnancy pills and make sure ure boy aint one of those guys that would tell everyone cause that can sometimes lead to problems
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reader, maria14r +, writes (12 April 2007):
the first time is always hard n scary and sometimes it hurts. you cant get sex wrong but you have to know where to put it in. you dont want to put it in the wrong one. be careful and use protectioin. you dont want to have a baby rite now
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): i think you should deffenetly wait, 14 is offaly young, im 16 and even im holding off, your first time should be specail becuase you cant go back you will always remember it, kind of like how you remember the first time you tied your shoes or rode a bike without training wheels. make sure this is the right person, make sure to be "safe", you dont want to have regrets later in life becuase of a mistake you made when you were a kid.
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reader, beanie0216 +, writes (12 April 2007):
 You have to be absolutly positive this is the man you want to share a great experience with. 14 is very young although I lost my virginity when I was 14 as well. It's great that both of you are virgins and you've been together for a long time. That means you should trust each other, and know each other well. The first time, you can only base it on how much you know about sex. Your boyfriend may not know what to do, but it's ok because everyone learns. It does hurt the first time for some people. It's kind of uncomfortable, because it's a feeling you've never felt before. It get's a little nerve wrecking, but after the first couple of times, it's a great experience. Make sure you are careful and make sure you use protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): I think you should wait until you feel entirely comfortable with having sex when it would just kinda happen naturally.Dont force it.I dont take this from any moral view of your age but you are young yet, and its not so much physical issues, but you are at that awkward not a child/not yet an adult stage.If you do want to do it, let it just develop but be sensible to take all the nescessary precautions.
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