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writes:im going out with this boy for 2 months who i really like and he really likes me but i think i am still in love with my ex, he borke up with me just less than a year ago. my ex's m8 is telling me he still has lots of feelings for me....please help i dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): how did u feel when ur ex broke up with u? would u like this guy u really like and hu really likes u to feel the same way? i don't think so...
lets look at this "m8 of ur ex" in a different way... what proof do u have that he isnt using u... making a fool of u? maybe they r trying to pull a rude and nasty trick on u...whateva it is i dont think u shud fall for it honey... he cud even be jealous and tryin to break up ur new relationship...
i think u shud brush all this aside and go on with ur life... tell him to fly a kite with these newfound feelings for u!
-with best wishes to u and ur new bf
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reader, maria14r  +, writes (12 April 2007):
ok if your ex broke up with you them i dont think that you should get back with him. your boyfriend likes you rite? i think that you should give him a chance and if you dont see this going anywhere of your feelings tours him changes then leave him. now if you really like this guy then stay with him.
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reader, kenny +, writes (12 April 2007):
 If you still have feelings for your Ex then you have got to be upfront and honest with you current partner and tell him whats going on. If you don't you are effectively stringing him along and thats not fair on the guy.
So your Ex's mate is telling you he still has feelings for you. I would find ouf for sure before you make any rash decisions, this guy could be s**t stirring. Find out from the horses mouth, and if he does still like you, end things with your current boyfriend.
Good luck x
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reader, beanie0216 +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I would talk to your ex before believing what anyone says. Start talking to him again. I do feel bad for ur current bf though, it was kind of a rebound which no one really likes. But if your feelings and ur ex's feelings are that strong maybe you should be with him. Take it slow, and make sure you can trust him.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (12 April 2007):
 You have to be realistic about this. The reasons why you broke up in the first place, do they still exist? Will history repeat itself?I would talk to your ex and get a feeling for his intentions and see if he has learnt from the breakup. Don't discount your current boyfriend too easliy either, it sounds like things are going well and it has only been 2 months.Are you happier now, then your were with your ex? You need to weigh up the pros and cons and decide who and what you want, and quickly before you start to lead your current boyfriend along too much.Goodluck..
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