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female
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36-40,
*cared of losing the man i love
writes:Hi, i've only been wth my boyfriend 4 months but i really love him and he tells me he loves me, but i can't sem 2 trust him. I really want to as he is now talking about ending things which i do not want, and i wanna change. Every man i've been ith in the past has cheated on me and i am very insucure so i just wanna know how can i change and not lose the man i love?
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reader, maria14r  +, writes (13 April 2007):
every man that i was with cheated on me but this is what i did when i met my boyfreind which never cheated on me. i was also insecure and i thought that he would cheat on me. when he tells you that he loves you make sure that he's looking into your eyes cuz men seem to lie when they look away. dont ask too many dum questions cuz then they feel u dont trust them.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (12 April 2007):
 he doesnt sound very committed, if he really was he`d show you how much you can trust him by being there for you, not wanting to end things. i wouldnt wanna trust a man that wanted to end things when times got tough. you really need to think hard about this one and whether or not it will be worth it in the long run, only you know what this mans like.
hope this helps x
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reader, beanie0216 +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Tell him this. Tell him exactly how you feel and that your past boyfriends didn't treat you good. Tell him you are a little nervous because that's what your used to. Tell him that you love him and you want things to work out. You just have to be a little calmer with things. Try to be with him a little more to get to know each other better, and by that I'm sure you'l know if he's really the man you love or not. Good Luck. Any questions. Email me. :o)
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