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You dont know you love some untill you love someone else :)

im currently back into a longterm relationship which has ended a hundred times but i cant keep away ! Ive also just had a baby girl who is my ultimate world 3

I eventually realised the mistakes i had made and i look into things before jumping ahead of the race. i also look at things from a new point of view and ive had my fair share of ups and downs in relationships

I hope everyone finds my advice helpfull !

He has a G/f. But he flirts with me. Could he like me as more than a platonic friend?

Q.   I have a very good guy friend. He's got all the typical qualities someone would look for in a guy--funny, sweet, smart, attractive. Whenever I'm around him, all i can think about is that if he kissed me right then I'd kiss him back and that's how ...

A.   20 July 2011: hunny if your thinking of him this way you must like him. i suggest you flirt with him a little see how he takes it if he flirts back tell him how your feeling when your around him, whats the worst that can happen. Good luck and i hope everyth... (read in full...)

I'm 14, he's 21. Can we take this relationship any further?

Q.   so i met this guy on the spot (a dating site on the ipod touch) and we've been talking,video chatting, and texting for 2 months now. well, 2 weeks after we started talking, he told me that he was 21 and in the airforce. the problem is, im 14. he ...

A.   29 June 2011: I dont think you should take things any further sweetie :| you's live too far away and he is older (alot older) If you ever met up he might force you into doing things that are illegal and if you got into a serious relationship you could get really ... (read in full...)

He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!

Q.   Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...

A.   29 June 2011: I agree that he wants his cake and too eat it too :| He's in a posisiton most 'unfaithful' men would love too me in, he's in a relationship with someone and meeting up with you and in a way your letting it happen. i think if you do meet up with... (read in full...)

How do I get with him?

Q.   A few months ago i met this guy, and we became friends straight away, i knew straight away that i liked him as more than a friend but he was going out with someone at the time. But a few weeks after meeting him he split up with his girfriend. It h...

A.   29 June 2011: If he's flirting with you it must mean he wants too be with you or have fun with you in some sort of way. By him asking for a kiss this means he likes you and he wants too take things further. If he asks again go for it dont hessitate. If you do act ... (read in full...)

How to tell if a girl likes you?

Q.   Hi just a long story short. And question is How can you tell if a girl is interested in you? or likes you? Not to sound conceited, but I think I'm really cute and my female friends says the same thing. I been told by many people at times that th...

A.   15 June 2011: You wont know if she likes you untill you jump in with both feet and ask her out on a date ! Whats the worst that can happen ? she says no ! Well your not going to leave any worse off than you were are you ?. By the sounds of things she think... (read in full...)

I'm a girl with a guy best friend and he now has a girlfriend

Q.   Dear Cupid, My best friend and I are really close. We tell each other our fears, secrets, hopes, likes, and dislikes. We even share with each other the unnecessary. We text/talk from the moment we wake up to the time we fall asleep. We can hold sev...

A.   15 June 2011: this is exactly what happened to me only i was and still am in love with my best friend only thing is we dont talk any more we havent for a year because he had a baby and moved on and pushed me out his life ! He knew i liked him and he always to... (read in full...)

Will my stretchmarks put him off me?

Q.   My long-term boyfriend and I are so in love. We are truly made for each other and we're planning to sleep together for the first time. There's just one problem, I've lost a lot of weight as I was extremely overweight a few years ago, and now I have ...

A.   15 June 2011: ok im over weight too and its a problem that i used too worry about all the time ! I got drunk and had sex with my partner for the first time and we hardly knew each other at the time, now he was never put off by my fatty wobby bits and marks al... (read in full...)

Still living with my ex, and have met someone new. Should I have sex with him? Will I regret it?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend of 6 years have split up but we are currently still living together as I dont want to chuck him out as we have a son, he is moving out in the next month. I love him with all my heart but, It wasnt working as he has anger issues ...

A.   15 June 2011: You'll not know untill your there, if things just happen without you thinking about it you wont regret it. If you dont want too have sex with him you will be worried and stressed about it so dont have sex with him. It all depends on the night an... (read in full...)

Can I have a lasting relationship with this girl?

Q.   Is it possible to have a lasting relationship with a lady who is one year younger than you. My situation is, I met this girl about 5-6 months ago we get along well and have healthy relationship upto now. I made it clear that I really love her and I ...

A.   15 June 2011: If she says she loves you and wants too be with you for a lifetime, there is nothing too worry about and age is only a number, It shouldn't matter if she was 20 years younger or older if you'r in love nothing will come between that ! If you love... (read in full...)

I don't want him to know I'm a virgin. How do I fake being Good in Bed and experienced, the first time?

Q.   So I really like this guy and he really likes me but he doesnt know I'm a virgin and I'm not planning on telling him. I've told him that I haven't slept with anyone for over a year but have said I have had one sexual partner. There is no way I am ...

A.   10 June 2011: He will know your not a virgin !! If he has been with a few people he will realise that you have never had sex before cos trust me the first times not all that enjoyable as you'r nervous and worried. tell him the truth theres no point in lying to... (read in full...)

Opinions on young teens fooling around.

Q.   Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...

A.   10 June 2011: ok i respect how you feel and i am only 18 i know how you feel i personally waited untill i was 16 but girls your age will be doing all sorts of things. I think it is fantastic that you have been together two years and you have looked for advice on ... (read in full...)

How often do you give your boyfriend oral sex?

Q.   Hi, just wondering how often all you ladies (or gay guys too!) give your boyfriend oral sex? (or guys, how often does your gf give you a bj?) I was talking to a girlfriend about this and she said she gives her boyfriend blow jobs every day whereas ...

A.   10 June 2011: when i started with my last partner, i never gave him a blowjob as i had never done it but then i started to enjoy it a bit more and perhaps did it once or twice a week. i think it depends on where you are in your relationship like you tend to go at ... (read in full...)

Is this normal?

Q.   Im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m me and my boyfriend were fooling around last night, im a virgin and im about as innocent as they get...meaning before last night i hadnt even had a guy finger me or anything. The furtherest id ever been before...

A.   10 June 2011: yes this is very normal it does take time too get used too it but you feel like you need too pee because your enjoying it ! dont worry you probably wont pee yourself ! Dont worry and let loose :) Good luck and all the best xx... (read in full...)

I've been sleeping with my ex, who has a boyfriend and I need some serious help!

Q.   My ex girlfriend hit me up and I have been sleeping with my ex for the past 3 months. The funny part of this is that she's had a boyfriend for 6 months prior (now 9 months; who she hasn't slept with at all for the past 3 months) At this moment, s...

A.   10 June 2011: It's her place too tell him ! Think about it this way - you might be in love with her and you've only been sleeping with her cos you love her but this other guy isnt going too think like this ! your 'someone who's just been banging his bird' he w... (read in full...)

He went to a concert with a girl he used to have a crush on, and then lied about it! If she is just a friend, why would he lie?

Q.   First of all thank you for your advise. I've dated my bf for 2 years and he proposed. Due to work I ended up traveling abroad for work for 6 months. Meanwhile there were 3 huge concerts on our hometown, he went to all of them and told me he was g...

A.   10 June 2011: Do what your heart tells you ! When you cannot trust someone, you cant have a relationship ! Even if you build on your relationship at the back of your mind he is always going to be a lier ! Have you told him you dont mind him have a friend wh... (read in full...)

Confused about a crush!

Q.   Ok so ive had this crush all throught the school year, and he added me as a friend on fb. I was so thrilled, but the happiness didnt last long! i noticed that he was looking at me one day! his cousins are rude and mean to me. Should i like him ...

A.   10 June 2011: Do you know this question really appeals too me as i cant give a proper answer. i know how your feeling when i was at school i had a huge crush on a boy and we became best friends, i got on with alot of his friends but they did tease me for being ... (read in full...)

Does he like me? I'm not so sure.

Q.   OK, So ive been friends with this guy for a couple of months now and we've been chilling out a lot. Recently we haven't but then I asked my best friend to hang out and she was hanging out with him so I went to chill with the both of them. I was ...

A.   10 June 2011: Ok men of a certain age act like this all the time. And they do say hitting is the first sign of love (obviously not hitting as in serious - just playfullness) i think he does like you and he's probably looking out for signs too see if you like him ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is avoiding me, what should I do now?

Q.   dear all , i need you help here ,,, my story like Romeo and Juliet. Im 30 and my girlfriend is 24 and we have been together for neary 4 years. she live in Indonesia and i live in another country, we deal to married but because the rules of the...

A.   10 June 2011: It sound too me like she doesnt want too marry at all, if she is avoiding you it is for a reason, i suggest you sms or phone her and demand an answer ! You shouldn't be kept in the dark as she may be finding it difficult that you's live far from ... (read in full...)

I can't get over his sexual past and I'm still worired that he wasnt telling me truth

Q.   Hello, the problem has been making me quite uncomfortable with my bf. We met online back in dec 2010 and met IRL by end of April 2011. The thing is that we had unprotected sex ( he didn't really penetrated in me) but I read that it's high risk ...

A.   10 June 2011: I do think you need to be paronoid as it is a very serious thing, but dont beat yourself up about it we all make silly mistakes ! (ive had more than my fair share) Most men will never admit there sexual history too a woman, its just the way men ... (read in full...)

Holiday together or separately, your thoughts please?

Q.   OK. So my bf and I have taken two weeks off annual leave in the summer, August. He is fiercely independent and I always go for these types so I must like it. I couldn’t bear a guy who was needy. Anyway, we recently spent two whole weekends ...

A.   10 June 2011: i think it would be a fantastic idea for you's to go away seperatly, there is nothing stopping you's spending a few days together before he goes and after he comes back. Space is the key to a growing relationship ! if you's spend too much time tog... (read in full...)

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