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writes: I have a very good guy friend. He's got all the typical qualities someone would look for in a guy--funny, sweet, smart, attractive. Whenever I'm around him, all i can think about is that if he kissed me right then I'd kiss him back and that's how hot he is. However, whenever I'm not near him and I think about him, it feels kind of empty. Almost like I want to think these things again, but I can't. It's impossible.We have a platonic friendship almost as if we are a sort of brother/sister friendship relationship, but sometimes it seems like he's flirting with me a little bit. And if he kissed me I'd want to kiss him right back. I think I don't want to be in a relationship with him since he's such a good friend. Also he has a girlfriend, but I'm not really sure how they feel about each other because he said he was wondering if he made the right choice asking her out or her friendI can't seem to decide what my feelings are for him
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks everyone :). They changed my title...it was originally "what are my feelings for him". I'm kind of angry they changed it because I do not want to be in a relationship with him--he's one of my best friends. I don't even want to know if he likes me back. Honestly if we were ever together it would get way too complicated. But thank you anyway :)
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reader, Aunty Abzy +, writes (20 July 2011):
hunny if your thinking of him this way you must like him.
i suggest you flirt with him a little see how he takes it if he flirts back tell him how your feeling when your around him, whats the worst that can happen.
Good luck and i hope everything works out xx
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (20 July 2011):
Try to move on. He has a girlfriend and just because he's not sure he made the right choice doesn't mean he didn't. And if he's going to flirt with you while with her, what makes you think things will be different if you two get together? Move on and find someone who's available. If he really likes you, he'll break up with his girlfriend.
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