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Do I cut his cell phone off or let him keep paying for it?
Q. when me and my ex boyfriend were together-i added him a cell phone line to my account.we broke up 2 months later.he pays his part of the bill on time every month still like he sussposed to. the thing is i just found out that he cheated on me with ...
A. 28 February 2007: He cheated on you ALOT....i say just cut the cell phone off. go and cancel that number. He is not deserving of you being nice to him as he obviously was not nice to you. Like the other aunts said, you could very well be up crap creek with out a ... (read in full...)
He keeps oggling women with big breasts, jerks off then says he has a low sex drive!!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have lived together for over a year and he has oggled women with big breasts on more than one occasion surreptitiously(in front of me). He tells me size doesn't matter, yet he never touches my breasts. He plays peep-eye with other ...
A. 19 February 2007: I know the feeling. I get so frustrated when a guy takes my victorias secret catalogs and uses them to jerk off....especially when i am home...shoot if i am there use me....i like to have sex. I don't understand men alot. I am the type that is ... (read in full...)
Is the lube on a condom enough lubricant for anal intercourse?
Q. Is the lube on a condom enough lubricant for anal intercourse? My boyfriend and I have used one before, and it was okay. That was my first time, and I knew it would hurt like hell anyway. This last time, the second time, we had vaginal intercourse ...
A. 15 February 2007: Well my experience with anal sex and lube, is that i have to have enough lube or it wont happen. Also I make the guy go slow. Fast hurts too much. i can deal with slow. as far as using lube with a condom, most lubes are ok. Double check on the ... (read in full...)
Is my boy too young to start puberty??
Q. When do boys start puberty? The reason i ask is because my 7 year old son has started getting pubic hair not under his arms! I thought this was a bit too young but anyone who can help would be much appreciated. Thankyou...
A. 13 February 2007: Im not a doctor either, however i do know that early onset puberty can stunt their growth. He may not get taller than about 5'4. i just learned about this in my anatomy class. Its a hormonal issue. Go talk to a doctor about it. It can be slowed with ... (read in full...)
Things were fine, then she broke up and wouldn't say why.... Why!?
Q. me and my ex were doing good and had many future plans, then at the click of the fingers she broke up with me. i asked her why and she wouldnt answer me truthfully. what should i do?...
A. 7 February 2007: I agree with all the aunts as well, however what exactly did she say? are sure she was lying? you would have to give us a little more info. other than that, i agree just let her go, you deserve someone else that isnt lying to you.... (read in full...)
When I lost my viginity I bled a little. But now every time I have sex I bleed a lot afterwards. Is this normal?
Q. when i lost my virginity i bled a tiny bit, but since then i have had sex about 7 times (quite reguarly, like 2-3times a week) but i have bled more after each time. im not talking like a dot of blood, but alot - alot more than when i lost my ...
A. 2 February 2007: I agree with Lex. go see a doctor. i never bled when i lost my virginity or their after, the only bleeding i get is when i have sex just before my period ( a day or two) it triggers my period to come a little early. see adoctor to make sure all is ... (read in full...)
I've had unprotected sex and I'm certain that I'm pregnant. But the tests say I'm not! Huh??
Q. Everytime my boyfriend and I had sex last month, it was unprotected and he did ejaculate inside of me everytime. Now I'm 3 almost 4 days late. I'm almost positive that I'm pregnant. I hava already taken 2 pregnancy tests which both came out ...
A. 2 February 2007: thats a good question. after about 4 days the pregnancy hormone should be detectable. did you take your tests in the morning? the hormone level is higher in the morning. try taking another test when you are aweek late. take it in the morning. and ... (read in full...)
How do I steer clear of lust and find love?
Q. How do I steer clear of lust and find love? Every relationship I have had has never felt real- mostly becuase I would find my self head over heels for someone and he guy would pretend all along that he "cared" and then I would figure it out and It ...
A. 2 February 2007: When you "lust" for someone, what exactly are you looking for? I find lust to be someone who likes another for their looks. I dated one of those lustful guys. He cheated. My theory on dating for lust, is that it doesnt get you anything but ... (read in full...)
I fancy the sister of my friend's wife. How can I show her that I'm interested?
Q. I really fancy my best friends wifes sister not sure how she feels. I am 38 and she is 34, I was married for 10yrs and didn't really know her since seperating i have grown a close friendship wiv her. I have been out with her as mates a few times ...
A. 2 February 2007: I say go for it, Just ask her out. Ask her out on a date with just the two of you. the worst thing she could say is no. there is nothing wrong with dating your best friends wife's sister. In fact he might actually like the idea! As far as your ... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't want to talk much to me and I like contacting her at least 2 times per day. What should I do?
Q. ok, so me and my girlfriend are back together, thanks to all those who answered. the idea of a break instead of a break up worked out better for her. but now i have another problem. this has been going on for about 3 weeks. she never wants to talk ...
A. 30 January 2007: I agree with CD. My ex boyfriend used to call me alot like that, and when we got together we had nothing to talk about. I found it to be quite annoying and almost possesive feeling. I found myself repeating stories i had told him before, over and ... (read in full...)
I miss him but my family and friends say not to go back. Should I listen to them?
Q. Hi, I need help with my love life. Ive been with my boyfriend for over 4 years but it was very on and off relationship with us always arguing. We moved in together last year and not been getting along so i decided to finish it last week. I tho...
A. 30 January 2007: well look at it this way, you say it was an on again off again relationship. If it keeps failing, why do you keep going back? Do you like the feeling of a failing relationship? i never believed in second chances. I say if it didnt work out the first ... (read in full...)
I have a fairly healthy diet but for some reason I have put on weight. Why?
Q. I have recently put on weight and surpassed a point on the scales i have never been at before. But I am unsure as to why I have put on weight. I have not changed my eating habbits and I eat fairly healthily without starving myself which i know ...
A. 22 January 2007: Have you ben doing anything new? I am meaning work or extra projects, doing things of that sort? sometimes added projects add stress to your life and stress will make you gain weight as well. try to take a day out of your life to do what makes u ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and when I orgasm a lot of semen (too much) comes out.This never used to happen before. What's going on?
Q. hey, well me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months (im 15 shes 14). We lost our virginities to each other a couple of weeks ago. The problem was that i came really quickly, i had this problem at the beginning of the relationship when she ...
A. 19 January 2007: hmmm well my Bf has a lot of precum, the more i play with it the more oozes out (it is however not white). He has more somedays than others...it varies. i find it to be beneficial, not a mood killer, its a natural lubricant, and it makes things ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready for motherhood! Should I have an abortion or keep this baby?
Q. Hey there! I am about less than 2 months pregnant. I am devastated. I'm only 17 and this was obviously very unplanned. I wish I could turn back time and change the fact that I had unprotected sex. I'm stuck in the middle wondering if I should have ...
A. 18 January 2007: Blondie1984 does have a tiny point, but i see alot of cases and things where a kid is given up for adoption, and they wonder why...sometimes they hold grudges sometimes they do not. My ex-Bf resented his mother as he was the oldest of 4 boys and she ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and when I orgasm a lot of semen (too much) comes out.This never used to happen before. What's going on?
Q. hey, well me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months (im 15 shes 14). We lost our virginities to each other a couple of weeks ago. The problem was that i came really quickly, i had this problem at the beginning of the relationship when she ...
A. 18 January 2007: First and foremost, what you are doing IS NOT ILLEGAL, yes you may be under age, but you are both under the age of 18. Now for the semen part of your question, yes it is normal for a younger person to produce more semen. as for it lasting a very ... (read in full...)
He dumps me, refuses to see me and now...wants back in my life! Any thoughts?
Q. About 5 months ago, I began seeing this guy. We really clicked but looking back, our "relationship" basically amounted to week-end hookups with very little communication in between. I wanted more, but never said anything - just tried to go with ...
A. 18 January 2007: personally it sounds as though he is really afraid to commmit. ask him, and see if thats the deal...if he feels he is getting too close to you he will back away just as suddenly as he came into your life...if you cant handle that, u need to let him ... (read in full...)
More than anything, I want a baby! How can I persuade my bf to give me one?
Q. Right before i even say this i know your going to start going on about how young i am and how i should live my life but i dont want that i want advice, NOT a lecture thanks xxx I want a baby, I've thought about it alot and have decided that i w...
A. 18 January 2007: i agree with Ponungalungb, you need to put a little more thought in to this. i know you dont want a lecture and all that but i have a daughter who is 3 that i absolutely love, but i am only 25 and i feel that i could have waited longer to have a ... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of my bf b/c he's a bit overweight and not incredibly attractive. But he's a lovely guy!
Q. i have just started dating a guy who i really like.my friends make fun of him though because he is a little overweight and not the most attractive guy.these comments that my friends are saying really hurt me because he is such a lovely guy and they ...
A. 18 January 2007: Hey girl,
i just say that "if your friends jumped off a clif and told you to jump too, would you do it" no i am sure anyone in their right mind would not. Stick to your guns, and do what makes YOU happy and not what everyone else wants to amke them... (read in full...)
My brother and I was a new sibling! Is it wrong to ask our mum or dad to make one?
Q. hey all, heres my question. i really want a baby brother or sis. i have one bro whos 12, and its only me and him, im 15....... i think dat a baby sis/bro would be really awesome but i dont think my dad would be to into the idea, my mother loves kids ...
A. 17 January 2007: I guess to be honest with you, it wouldnt hurt to put the bug in their ear. Let them know that you would love to have another sibling, and that you would help out with it and such. then let them decide, after that its all in their hands. I wouldnt ... (read in full...)
How can I be less shy and more confident around girls... ?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know how can a boy who is shy get more comfortable around girls without going red and speak clearly, as it am shy and not confident around girls and plus the fact that every girl and sometime the boys say im ugly and ...
A. 16 January 2007: When i was younger, i was a very shy girl. in the first grade i hid in the coat closet for the first week of school, thats how shy i was. It took me quite awhile to come out of my shell. I was probably 13 or so. Showing my horse is what made me ... (read in full...)
I told him I loved him. So how do I find out how he feels about me?
Q. I have been dating my Bf ( he is 37, i am 25) for about 5 months now. I was enjoying it being a slow moving relationship. I absolutley love the guy. The problem is, is that I dont know how he feels about me. I told him I loved him, but also told him ...
A. 16 January 2007: well i took the advice from the one respondent. I did not bring it up at all. I could just tell being in his arms and how it felt. Thats all that matters, we enjoy each others company. I dont want to ruin what we have by pressuring the relatiosnhip. ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready for motherhood! Should I have an abortion or keep this baby?
Q. Hey there! I am about less than 2 months pregnant. I am devastated. I'm only 17 and this was obviously very unplanned. I wish I could turn back time and change the fact that I had unprotected sex. I'm stuck in the middle wondering if I should have ...
A. 15 January 2007: OK...i just had an abortion myself, i am just finishing an abortion myself...i have been dating my Bf for about 5 months and he wasnt ready and neither was I...( i do have a daughter who is 3) i think it was the best choice for my situation at this ... (read in full...)
Mom Caught me with sisters hubby!
Q. my mom saw me with my sisters hubby this happened by surprising me 4 brunch. she saw me with a mouthful. she said she wouldn't tell but expects he and i to do the right thing. he wants 2 tell her but we only did it once and only head. so?...
A. 15 January 2007: I think that the mom is right, either you or the hubby needs to tell your sister. you two were involved in the act of betrayl so i think it would be bes if she heard it from you before she heard it from someone else. Your sister will feel horrible ... (read in full...)
Will she run away if I tell her my feelings?
Q. I met this girl about 4 months ago and we went out about 3-4 times before I recently moved into my own place. Everytime we went out, we both had a great time and I know for sure, and I'm fairly sure that its mutual, their is a definite connection ...
A. 15 January 2007: I think you need to be very upfront and honest with her. Let her know how you feel. I mean you have met some of her family already. Some women are different, but like most i would want to hear how u felt....its important to know how you are feeling. ... (read in full...)
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