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writes:My boyfriend and I have lived together for over a year and he has oggled women with big breasts on more than one occasion surreptitiously(in front of me). He tells me size doesn't matter, yet he never touches my breasts. He plays peep-eye with other women in front of me. He tells me he has a low sex drive yet I have caught him jerking off, right after he tells me he has no sex drive. What should I do? Leave him? Then when I tell him he has left me frustrated, he says I am addicted to sex. He got a big boner over a women on the beach and was so horny he jerked off in the washroom at the restaurant, yet later that night he said he had no sex drive. Am I just being a fool? If he is willing to leave me high and dry and horny with no relief while he jerks off, he may as well be having an affair. Sometimes I think he is pushing me to have an affair. Could this be the case? I am no fool, these things have happened.Untouchable
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reader, cherri sparkle  +, writes (20 February 2007):
heyfirst of all i dont think cheating is the answer you will only regret it and feel guilty in the end over something which is not your fault!! your husband is obviously sexually insensitive seems to me that he may have gone off full intercourse alltogether it does happen from time to time but if your saying he will even dothis on front of you and let you know what he has done knowing how frustrated you areits best you just leave this man is highly selfish and it will hurt but years of frustration will kill you faster
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 This guy is in his 50's and he's jerkin' his gerkin in restaurant washrooms after seeing big breasted women? Sounds kind of creepy. Check that. Make that real creepy.
I'd seek my pleasure elsewhere if I were you.
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reader, kenny +, writes (19 February 2007):
 There is something that does not sound right with this guy. For a start he does not show you any sort of loving, no sex, he dosen't even seem to want to even touch you. Then when tell him you are unsatisfyed he say you are addicted to sex.
Then he oggles woman, then masturbates in washrooms at beaches and resturants.
Im sorry but i think this guy i a jerk, and is playing you for a fool. I say ditch him and find a guy that gives you the love and affection that you so rightly deserve.
Good luck x
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reader, appygal81 +, writes (19 February 2007):
 I know the feeling. I get so frustrated when a guy takes my victorias secret catalogs and uses them to jerk off....especially when i am home...shoot if i am there use me....i like to have sex. I don't understand men alot. I am the type that is willing to put out, 24/7 but yet they still cheat...i dont do anything wrong. On the other hand i think you need to confront him about this and let him know what its doing to you. If he tries to use the "low sex drive" routine, tell him he better change his habits as you know that he obviously does not have a low sex drive. If you are still having problems, leave him and find someone that will.
*I just had another small thought, what if he is wanting you to be more aggressive with him? I mean as far as him wanting to know how much you want him....maybe he is just playing a game. If this is the case, then try doing more things such as dressing sexy and teasing him....but dont let him have it....you do know that two can play at that game!
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