We hadnt been in contact for years, we now chat most days, I really like her, but not sure how to proceed ?
Q. hey...i came out of a 3 yr relationship on the 22nd july and im only 19, all thats ok now im trying to move on and just partying away!... but ive recently been talking to a girl i no,but havent been in contact with her for years until about 3 we...
A. 25 August 2006: cheers guys, she's coming over for abit 2moro night i think to just chill in the hot tub for abit, but what do i do? do i make a move?...do i just chat to her?..arrgghhhh lol...help... (read in full...)
Together 5 years, been split for 8 months but we still have sex!
Q. My ex and I have been split up now for about 8 months. We were together for five years and have known each other for 9 years. It was a pretty bad break up. He called one day, and of course I asked how high when he told me to jump. I'm having a ...
A. 22 August 2006: hi...i just came out of a 3 year relationship & im only 19, so u can imagine that it was tough...
but if u want to get over him then you guys have gotta stop having sex, if i did that i would asume we were back together, all i did was go out as m... (read in full...)
I can't stand to be Just Friends with my ex. It's doing my head in. So how do I tell her?
Q. OK so here's the situation: I realized I need some space from my ex who broke up with me but promised there's a definite chance for us in the future. I've been trying for 2 months now, but it's just way too stressful being around her now and I ...
A. 21 August 2006: Mate im 19 and my x broke up with me about 5 weeks ago now and we went out last sat cos she wanted 2 talk to me about us...i asked her what she wants from me, she said " to be civil and try and be friends"... it just doesnt happen though mate, cos... (read in full...)
How do you build trust in a relationship?
Q. hiya i am just wondering how i can build trust with my boyfriend because no matter how much i want to i just cant trust him he hasnt done anything to make me not trust him. its because my parents left me when i was younger and i think this might ...
A. 21 August 2006: hi...i came out of a 3 year relationship last month & im only 19, in this there was a lack of trust (but we had lyed to each other at the start of it), but we realised that we needed to do something to sort this out...so we just sat down 2gether one ... (read in full...)
Is cheating ok so long as he doesn't find out?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 yrs, he is 27, I am 22. Three months ago I slept with some one else, so I split up with him, but didnt tell him why and he still doesnt know. We got back together three weeks ago, in the meantime, I ...
A. 21 August 2006: blimey...lol...u need to stop cheating on, jesus, its the worst thing u could ever possibly do.
u need to think about what you want, weather u want to seriously be with him, or weather you want to have the single life and keep seeing the other bl... (read in full...)
After 3 years she just ended it.. Im in bits... im really in a mess please help.
Q. Hi...im feeling very very messed up at the moment, im 19 and i have been with my partner (who is the same age) for nearlly 3years, yesterday (22nd July 2006) i got a phone call which i have been expecting because she hasn't been herself anymore, and ...
A. 20 August 2006: Thanx guys...one last thing though... I bumped into her 2 weeks ago on a thursday night in a club in mk, felt weird but nice to see her @ the same time! She then says that she still loves and misses me and so we start kissing for like 1/2 hour. ... (read in full...)
After 3 years she just ended it.. Im in bits... im really in a mess please help.
Q. Hi...im feeling very very messed up at the moment, im 19 and i have been with my partner (who is the same age) for nearlly 3years, yesterday (22nd July 2006) i got a phone call which i have been expecting because she hasn't been herself anymore, and ...
A. 24 July 2006: Thanx 4 the replys guys...
But last night i was in hospital cos i was quite ill and her cousin took me cos im quite good mates with him, when i was there he txt her telling her...then she called him and sounded really woried and concerne... (read in full...)
After 3 years she just ended it.. Im in bits... im really in a mess please help.
Q. Hi...im feeling very very messed up at the moment, im 19 and i have been with my partner (who is the same age) for nearlly 3years, yesterday (22nd July 2006) i got a phone call which i have been expecting because she hasn't been herself anymore, and ...
A. 24 July 2006: thanxs for the replys guys, i was in hospital last night with her cousin because ive been pretty ill. her cousin txt her to tell her and she rang him and sounded really concerned on the phone and wanted to no when i come out whats wrong...so i txt ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 23 February 2006: Well i guess so mate yea, but im not going to contact her im just going to wait for her to contact me. It just seems that everytime she goes out with her 2 stupid wanna be friends things change overnight. Their not even proper friends, all they thi... (read in full...)
Me and my bf dont talk anymore although he insists he loves me!!
Q. Basically I have been with my bf for 3 months, but recently we haven't been talking much. I always talk to him online as well and he goes silent then and then after a while says he's tired or he's got to go. At college he seems distracted and look...
A. 23 February 2006: Ummm, time to take a deep breath i think...To me it sounds like your boyfriend might be gettin bored with how things are going. Try and invite him out somewhere or even just find a nice park to walk around with him and when the atmosphere is right ... (read in full...)
My bf is never bothered about meeting!!
Q. My bf never organises anything and is never bothered. If i ask him if he wants to meet up he just replies something along the lines of 'if u want' and when i ask where he wants to go it's a reply like 'wherever i don't mind' help! is it normal?...
A. 23 February 2006: It depends how long you have been together i started to get that like that but the only way around it is to do different things that you havent done yet...both be spontenousand suprise each other...Just add that little extra bit of excitment into ... (read in full...)
When i masterbate there is a pain at the end of my penis!!
Q. Hello I know this is kinda gross but some guys will undrstand me here, I'm a teenager, and I masturbate quite often, sometimes after I have done this, I get pain at the end of my penis. I can't ask anyone about this, just too embarassing, I know the...
A. 23 February 2006: Well the first question is have you had sex? if you have and didnt use a condom then its worth getting yourself checked out at the health clinic. The other option is to try and stop for a few days (i no its hard mate im a bloke lol), but if you s... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 23 February 2006: Thanks dazz...1 more thing mate...
She came to work yesterday with her dad to get her passport picture done and everything was ok when i saw her and her dad. She rang me when i finished work and asked what i was doing, i said nothing and she said... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 22 February 2006: Cheers buddy! Yea cant really see her doing that to me either but i guess i'll find out after Tuesday / wednesday next week hey!
I just want to reasure her that it will never happen again and if anything this has brought us closer and stronger... (read in full...)
How do we get the trust back?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together since last March. In October he cheated on me with a girl he knew from university who is in love with him. I found out but I believe he never liked her and he has proved this and he has not contacted her since. ...
A. 22 February 2006: I'm in the same situation as you with trying to gain the trust back because u lyed to my fiancee. The only thing that you can do is give it time. There's no other way to do, just give it time...... (read in full...)
How do I get her back?
Q. My g/f and I split up 9 moths ago but have been seeing each other as friends every few weeks. However, just as i thought she was showing signs of considering getting back with me I blew it by getting heavy, serious,clingy, heart on sleeve etc. Now ...
A. 22 February 2006: Ummm, its abit of a tricky question mate. But thats one of the worse things to do - pressuring, gettin heavy etc. to be honest with u mate sitting here a computer screen and seeing what you've written. You said that she hasnt been in contact ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 22 February 2006: There's one bit i forgot to tell you Dazz and that is we went to Spain together and with her mum and dad for new year. Her dad paid for the lot because he's kinda loaded (the house cars etc). And i still owe her dad £100 for the holiday and cant ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 22 February 2006: Thanks for the reply's people especially `Dazzerg`. U've got it spot on with her mum influencing her cos i no she has she told me on the phone. She said to me the other day that she wants me to get over her and doesnt want me fighting for a l... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 22 February 2006: Thanks for the reply's people especially `Dazzerg`. U've got it spot on with her mum influencing her cos i no she has she told me on the phone. She said to me the other day that she wants me to get over her and doesnt want me fighting for a l... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 22 February 2006: Thanks for the reply's people especially `Dazzerg`. U've got it spot on with her mum influencing her cos i no she has she told me on the phone. She said to me the other day that she wants me to get over her and doesnt want me fighting for a l... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 22 February 2006: Thanks for the reply's people especially `Dazzerg`. U've got it spot on with her mum influencing her cos i no she has she told me on the phone. She said to me the other day that she wants me to get over her and doesnt want me fighting for a l... (read in full...)
I'm feeling suicidal...I can't imagine life without her. Please help
Q. Hi my girlfriend split up with me last week, on the friday. Basically because i fibbed to her twice about where i was staying when visiting my friend at uni, also because i went to see my best friend at uni 3 weekends in a row. I'd do anything in ...
A. 22 February 2006: Thanks people for your reply's. Especially `Dazzerg`. I've taken in what you said and i am starting to understand it abit easier now i think. But last night (21st Feb 06) we were talking just by txting and somehow we got on the conversa... (read in full...)
After my friend split up with his ex i started to have feelings for her. Now my friend is single again and flirting with his ex. What do i do?
Q. About a year ago, my friend's girlfriend left him. I didnt fancy her at the time, but a few months later I started to notice her. I decided to leave it for a few more months, so everyone could forget about her relationship with my friend. We've ...
A. 21 February 2006: Mate be very very carefull. The chances are of her liking you more than a friend are very slim. She's still going to have strong feelings for her x (your mate), but if you try and advance on her it wont be good. She'll either blow you off ins... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a break but it is killing me. Is this the end of the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend of three and a half years decided that he needed to "take a break from the relationship". We still talk on a daily basis. He as even came to my house for us to see each other. He's been at my house three times this past week. When we ...
A. 21 February 2006: I wouldnt say its a end to your relationship, i felt like that with my now x, because we were having a bad time? So ask your self how have the last 2 months been. To me it just sounds like he needs abit of space to himself. Maybe he feels crowded... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says my penis hurts her during sex. Can you help?
Q. My girlfriend has trouble with my penis hurting her vagina during intercourse. she says it feels like its pulling the skin. can you help?...
A. 21 February 2006: I had this same problem a couple of times with mine mate (not being big headed but she said i was to big), so i learnt the best thing to do is go down on her (give her oral sex) for at least 10-15minutes, thats probably the best way to get her wet. ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my husband having online texts with an old gf, everyday?
Q. my husband spends hours several nights a week having MSN conversations with an old girlfriend, they also TXT each other most days. I'm not happy but he says I have nothing to worry about. Should I be worried ...
A. 21 February 2006: If you found out from snooping then you have every reason to be angry and annoyed. If you found out from him, then to be fair you still have ever reason to be angry and annoyed. If my (just turned x fiance) was doing that i wouldnt be to ha... (read in full...)
Don't understand why my girlfriend is suddenly so withdrawn and depressed!
Q. My g/f of 2yrs has become very withdrawn from our relationship. She never looks happy, never smiles, she looks depressed and never wants to do anything together. This has been happening over the last couple of weeks. I ask her what's wrong and she ...
A. 21 February 2006: Maybe a good idea is to speak to her parents about it! U say she's had signs of depression in the past so maybe speaking to her GP? I went like this with my fiance of 2 and a half years for about 1 month, and she eneded up splitting up wit... (read in full...)
How true is it that a man knows instinctively when he meets the woman he's going to marry?
Q. I really need some advice. I've been wondering, is it true a guy knows almost instantly when he meets his future wife? I've heard many stories from guys I know who have said they knew...and I was wondering how true people think this is....
A. 21 February 2006: Id have to agree with you mate. I met my girlfriend/fiance 2 and a half years ago when we were both 16. We've broke up now unfortunutly were both 18 basically 19. We got engaged last year becasue i knew she was the one i wanted to spend the rest of ... (read in full...)
My bf has been cruel..so I cheated on him. Now I feel horrible! Help
Q. Please help, I am a horrible person. My boyfriend has been quite cruel verbally/ mentaly for the past couple of months, but I love him dearly. But I went out and slept with one of my freinds. Its tearing me up inside. What should I do. I know I ...
A. 21 February 2006: My advice for you on this one is to sit him down and talk to him and just ask him why he's being like this, and wait for his answers then just tell him to stop acting like he his. I've just come out of a 2 and a half year relationship and sometimes ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't let go of the idea of my ex, and it's driving us apart!
Q. I'm a simple, average girl who has my Mr. Right, but now my relationship with him fell apart because of my ex. He kept insulting me about my past whenever he saw my ex, but the thing is, he knows that I love him so much and he knows that I hate my ...
A. 21 February 2006: Kinda a hard question but i think in the early stages of my (x relationship) i did the same. But the circumstances were very different i think cos of what he did to her (thats why he ended up in hospital twice). But my best advice from a blokes ... (read in full...)
While my boyfriend's in hospital, I'm bending over backwards to see him... and he's joking that the nurses fancy him!
Q. I dont know what to do. My boyfriend is in hospital having a operation. I have been to see him every night so far and stayed with him all weekend. This is very tiring as I work from 9-5 every day and the hospital he is in is 1.5 hours away. I...
A. 21 February 2006: Easyest question on here i think. Basically all you have to do is say to him look im not coiming to see you for a while because your acting like an ungratful w**ker, and then he'll realise of s**t what have i done and come crwling back. I've just ... (read in full...)
On Valentine's Day she told me she just wanted me as a friend and now she's avoiding me!
Q. Please can people answer my question? I'm 16 and right now I feel really down because I got this girl who is the same age as me some things for V day and she said to me it really meant a lot to her but she would rather talk to me as a friend. ...
A. 21 February 2006: Rrrr mate, i feel for you buddy i've been there. I'm only 18 and was engaged. But she just split from me. I think all you need to do is give it some time, espcially give time for yourself to think, actually is this really what i want, and if she's ... (read in full...)
We were going to have a break, but we met a week later and things led to sex. Are we back together or what?
Q. Hey everyone this is my first time ever posting on this board so I'm a little nervous, but need advice. A little over a week ago my fiancee and I decided to take a break - well actually he decided he needed time. He said he was definitely coming b...
A. 21 February 2006: I no exactly how you feel, becasue my fiance broke up with me on the friday, then on the monday tuesday and wednesday night i stayed at her's. I felt really messed around with. But the only advice i can give to you is that you just need to ask... (read in full...)
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