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28 January 2009: That night I could not sleep, I had every emotion going through me. Emotions of fear,anxiety, and anticipation corralled into a single moment of the imminent birth of the child that I carried in my womb for these many countless months. I feared the ...
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New man, new house, New life??
Q. Cupid readers, this is my question. I am 21 living with my parents. My 3 year old also lives with us. She was raised with my mom and dad around every day! I am now in a relationship and we're getting married. This man is not her father, he was never ...
A. 2 June 2009: Thank you for your response. She and I talk about it daily and she has seen the new house. She loves spongebob and I asked her if she wanted to do a spongebob theme for the bedroom and she was sooo happy. I also told her she could have her very own ... (read in full...)
A guy I like is leaving for the military, should I go with him or move on?
Q. I need help. Ive fallen for this guy who doesnt want a relationship right now because hes leaving for the military and he doesnt want a long distance relationship and neither do i. But we both really like each other and make each other very happy. I ...
A. 7 May 2009: Me being a child of a man who served 24 yrs in a AF I can say, that involves alot of moving in short period of time. He could be transfered within 24 hrs! If you love him and he loves you and your both willing to go threw this, then go for it. But ... (read in full...)
Follow up: Can the wetness be caused from pregnancy.. so soon?
Q. i asked the question about me being very very wet down there. i had sex last thursday..BUT it was the first time in like 4 months. and i know i was not pregnant before thursday, cause i had gotten my period.. if the wetness was from being pregn...
A. 15 April 2009: Hey growing up I have always been a wet person, I thought I was not normal and made me very uncomfortable. The first time I got prego I did get even more wet. But also you may have an infection. You should look into maybe a yeast infection. Norm... (read in full...)
If it's platonic, why say that he loves me?
Q. I'll try to keep this brief and not include every detail of the past three years... I started seeing an older guy at the end of my master's degree. I got a job and moved away. Then when he graduated with his doctorate he moved to the same area...
A. 8 April 2009: Him being older he should know what that means. Just reinforce him about your feelings and if he tries any moves or anything kick him to the curb. You need to find a good man who is willing to wait for you and whom is respectful of your needs..... (read in full...)
I think he's gay and I want to break it off! How do I end this?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a month now and I have always suspected he was gay. Here's why: 1. He likes to get manicures and pedicures. 2. He knows nothing about cars or sports...I know way more than him. 3. He talks about how his male frie...
A. 24 March 2009: Well at first I was going to say he could be " Metro sexual" that means he has style and acts gay, but he's not. I have a friend that is metro and we had sex and he loves girls.. But your guy, yah kinda a weirdie.. Just tell him, he is not right for ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant from a 20 yo....will he go to jail ??
Q. im 15 years old and im pregnant from a 20 year old....will he go to jail ?? i mean when i have the baby i'm going to be past 16 ..could he still go to jail?...
A. 24 March 2009: Depends how your parents handle it. Yes he could get in trouble if they tell the police, my question! What does a 20 yr old want with a 15yr old.? Have you ever thought about that.. Thats weird honey, he needs an older girl 17 18 19 even. 15 that ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship with me but...
Q. I've been seeing this guy for over a year on and off. What I like about him the best that he is very reliable when he says he calls he does, when he says he comes he is on time. Someone that I can count on. Girls, this is rare as you know! He is ...
A. 22 March 2009: This is how I see it. He likes you and doesn't want to see you with another guy. But he also wants to go out and do his thing while your at the house wondering what he is doing! He is pulling you along, he thinks as long as you guys talk everyday ... (read in full...)
Penis curves to the right..is this normal?
Q. I am 22 years old and i am just wondering why when i have an erection my penis curves to the right. From the view of me looking down at it. i was just wondering is this normal and is there any way to fix it to be strait or is this just the way it is ...
A. 22 March 2009: Hey.. All dicks are different some have curve some dont. Some short some tall. SOme cut, some not. Your fine, its total normal. Believe it or not, thats good sometimes. You might be able to reach some spots a straigh penis couldn't. G spots are a ... (read in full...)
He's cheating on her with me and I don't know what to do.
Q. I have a best friend who I've been friends with since middle school. In our 9th grade year she started dating this guy who dated my sister in middle school. I didn't know him all so well. Eventually at the end of my 9th grade year me and my best ...
A. 9 February 2009: " doing things behind her back" meaning your doing more then what happened that night.. Thats pathetic. You should be ashamed of what you have done, and know your not a good friend. Dispite your feelings for this guy. He is taken and he is not ... (read in full...)
Please suggest something romantic yet a bit wild?
Q. My boyfriend has an erection all the time, I mean ALL the time. All I have to do is kiss him and there it is! Lol. He says, that's a good thing. Plus, he has a very high sex drive. I do too. But sometimes we just can't have sex..you know re...
A. 9 February 2009: Make a nice candle lit dinner with flowers wear a beautiful black dress short with some skin showing.. After you guys eat, get the bath water running lite the candles. Give him a digital camera and ask him to take some pictures of you. Get on sexy ... (read in full...)
The famous "what if we break up" question! What did she mean?
Q. My girlfriend and I just had a nice evening then she asked me something that irritated me. She was wondering how long it would take for us to rebound and date again if we hypothetically broke up. For me, I am quite clear that it might take a whi...
A. 9 February 2009: That is a questions because she may be insecure and she feels you could get over her very fast. That is a hard question to answer when your put on the spot like that. Tell her you love her assuming your saying that. And that is not even on your ... (read in full...)
If I don't tell my mother I had sex, my boyfriend's mother will, what should I do?
Q. I don't know what to do. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who i love to bits but the last time i stayed with him we got caught having sex by his mum. To make matters worse i told his mum that i had told my mum about what i h...
A. 9 February 2009: Who do you think your mother would rather hear that from. You or another source.. Hearing bad news from another source is very umcomforting and your mother will know you were goin to keep a secret that big from her. You need to tell her. You need to ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend for not liking anal?
Q. Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend of almost one year for not liking anal? I told him that I didn't like it while we were doing it and he insisted that we continue because I was only lying that it hurt so that he would think I am ...
A. 9 February 2009: I dated a guy who wanted me to do that. I replied " I am a female I have a vag that's what sex if for. If you want anal go get a guy". A few weeks later, we broke up he went gay! Nice right.. Guys like to " try" things out.. But thats pushing it. I ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he ever text first, does he even like me?
Q. Ive met this guy recentley. long story cut short, i dont see him often, and we dont have any mutal friends. Ive been speaking to him online for like the past 3/4 weeks and ive spoke to him in real life 2 times. The last time we spoke we got on ...
A. 9 February 2009: Hi sweetie. So when I get into your situation I take his number out of my phone so I dont call or text him. I see if he texts me. If he doesn't I let him go.. I dated a guy like that, I told him I was tired of being the one to call him and text him ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I can go through with the abortion
Q. hi there i have just recently found out im 10 weeks pregnant and not too sure what to do. im booked in for an abortion on monday but dont think i can go through with it. im 20 and have only been with my boyfriend for 4months, hes 25 and has a good ...
A. 29 January 2009: I have been through the adoption process. If you need some advice or have any questions please feel free to write me.... (read in full...)
Sister wants me to take her to the adoption clinic as she's pregnant but I'm so against it! What do I do here?
Q. My sister (she's 14 and I'm 17) just told me that she's pregnant by her boyfreind (also 17) and wants me to take her to the adoption clinic so she doesn't have tell our parents. We have been really close and I'll always be there for her but I'm ...
A. 29 January 2009: I have had my child young, dropped out of school and got prego again. I have also went through the adoption process. If you need some help from first person and you have some questions, feel free to write me, I am very open about my story and ... (read in full...)
How do I find a good guy who cares instead of the bad boy who doesn't?
Q. I have always been the girl to get the wrong guys. I am through with getting hurt and I wanted some advise as to how to get the good guys who actually care about me and just not wanting sex. I have heard guys like it when girl play hard to get? Is ...
A. 28 January 2009: thank you guys.. =)
I am one of the mothers who puts her daughter first. I dont go to clubs nore do i hit bars. I dont do any teenage stuff, I am a mother and I play the part as best I can. I say If I can be out in the club I can be at home play... (read in full...)
Irrational fear about the male body?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we are very close and open with each other and get on really well. I'm a virgin and he's not, though he has been very understanding about my not being ready to have sex yet and has never ...
A. 28 January 2009: Giving a hand job is never really easy, bc he knows what he likes. You might squeeze to hard or not go fast enough. There is alot of concern there and it's understanding to feel how you do. Giving head the first time is also hard, because you dont ... (read in full...)
He thinks I cheated and now he won't talk to me, help!
Q. Heyy; i split up with my boyfriend a few weeks back; because he thinks i cheated on him. the story is i live quite far away from my school; so i have a different group of friends during the holidays to who i would hang around with at school. Well; ...
A. 28 January 2009: Well I can tell you if he isn't even giving you a chance to explain or here your side, he is not worth it. If he really cared for you and loved you in return he would have the heart to sit down and listen to you.
Being friends with him might not ... (read in full...)
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