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I've become a jealous freak!

Q.   I'm in a relationship of over a year, which has been one of the best things that have happened to me. He's my lover, my best friend, my partner. Together we have a blast- whether we're stuck at home making dinner, or out floating down a river in a ...

A.   14 January 2011: Jealousy is a human emotion, I'd be more frightened if I didn't have those feelings. Really you want to defend whats yours. I am the jealous type i used to say I wasn't because I was ashamed but i take full credit for it now. Its ok! just don't let ... (read in full...)

I always said I'd leave a cheater, but now that its happening to me I'm torn!

Q.   I have been dating my girlfriend for about two years now and we have been living together for about one year. We share a lap top and I came across her facebook page the other day where she had forgotten to log out. I have never gone through her ...

A.   14 January 2011: Honestly get out of this relationship, she only feels bad because she got caught! if she really felt bad she would have told you from the get go of their relationship, she knew she messed up and now she is scared of losing that security. ... (read in full...)

My marriage proposal sucked! Should I let him do it again?

Q.   SO I’m engaged but my proposal Sucked!!! he didn’t even decorate there was no romantic music and he knows that I love flowers and he didn’t even give me one!!! He used a beat up candle that was already used and I didn’t even get to dress up nor ...

A.   14 January 2011: I agree with dirtball! ... (read in full...)

How do you know that the person you love is your soul mate?

Q.   I know this is gonna sound stupid but it something that has been Worrying me for sometime now,I,ve been dating different gys in my Life but seem not to have an answer.I want 2 knw that how Do u tell that the person u in love with is your soul m...

A.   14 January 2011: I don't believe in soul mates or even the "one" only because you can be in love with a couple of different people throughout your whole lifetime. I do believe that you can be in love with someone though, how i knew? It just came sitting there ... (read in full...)

How do I figure out if he likes me?

Q.   There is this guy that i really like but i am not sure if he likes me.He recently sent me a text saying I am the one but he has never expressed any interest on me before that and before he sent the text we used to talk a lot(almost endless hours ...

A.   14 January 2011: Just ask him, I mean no harm in doing that, just waiting around afraid to ask is being stubborn. If he tells you No then thats good then you know not to waste time but if he says yes then thats great and run with it!... (read in full...)

Should I leave him alone or hang around?

Q.   I also have been seeing this guy we talked on and off for about 2 years now! maybe even more than that we got intimate at one point but NEVER went all the way he used to live in LA and i lived in NY we stayed in touch with one another but once he ...

A.   14 January 2011: Please leave him alone its not fair to his girlfriend, for you to come in and just do her wrong. Feelings come and go and you should move on as he did, don't get caught up with this guy honestly, because if he is doing this with her he is going to ... (read in full...)

He's asking me what I want in the bedroom and I don't know what to say!

Q.   -I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. -We are very private so none of our friends know about us. -I lost my virginity to him, therefore am not very experienced in the bedroom -We are both of legal age (me 18, him 20) So we wer...

A.   14 January 2011: Just have fun with it! and i mean that in the kinkiest way handcuffs, lotions, lingerie. I used to be so shy and never wanted to do anything exotic and one day I just decided to come home put some lingerie on and role play. like i said just have fun... (read in full...)

Will losing my virginity hurt me?

Q.   Hi. I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks who I met online. He's really nice and everything, and I want to sleep with him. The thing is, I'm a virgin, but havnt told him. All I want to know is will it hurt? I do masturbate which I hope helps me...

A.   15 October 2010: Really let him know, cuz guys can be rough at times, just tell him to take him slow, and control the way things go... (read in full...)

I feel that I deserve better, but despite the way she treats me, I don't want to lose her.

Q.   ok, so i've been friends with this girl for almost a year now, and at first, we got along really well to the point where i wanted to ask her out. I never did ask her out and i never asked her to prom even though i really wanted to. Now, i feel like ...

A.   18 July 2010: More than likely you would get hurt in the long run. Don't take a chance on a girl that treats you bad from the beginning... (read in full...)

Should I pursue guy 1, guy 2... or just become a nun?

Q.   Hullo, Its my first time on this site but I really need some advice. I am kinda torn between two guys and I was hoping that everyone here could help me? Guy one is a close friend, my first crush and my only boyfriend and I have been his only gi...

A.   18 July 2010: Pursue Guy 1. He seems more your level and believe me the older guy is only pursuing you for sex, obviously.... (read in full...)

My best friend's bf kissed me plus, what should I do now??

Q.   My bestfriend and I were supposed to hangout. It was gonna be her and her boyfriend me and my friend Brent. Her boyfriend was driving us. Both Brent and my bff had to cancel to do something else so me and her bf decided to just go hang at the mall ...

A.   15 July 2010: You're wrong! Thats your friends boyfriend you had no right. You're not being a very good friend by hiding that from her! You should let her know what you did and let her decide if she can forgive and move on. And why would you as her best friend ... (read in full...)

She says if I hang out with my friend she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. How do I take care of this?

Q.   my girlfriend of a year and a few months is trying to tell me that if i hang out with my friend (that she doesn't like because he doesn't like her) she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. how do i take care of this...

A.   15 July 2010: Your welcome. ... (read in full...)

B/f a complete stranger now! Is he cheating on me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a few days. Before we went out I had just gotten out of a nasty relationship about 1 1/2 months before, maybe a bit longer. He used to text me every night 'I love you sweet dreams!" and cute ...

A.   15 July 2010: You guys most likely grew apart it happens, to the best and worst of us. I gave my ex my heart and pretty much my life and like you we were pretty much lovey dovey and about 3 years later he realized he would rather be single than to date me. Later ... (read in full...)

He's in the army and I'll wait for him but I don't know if I can trust him

Q.   My question is about the army. I don't really know that much about it and the guy that I'm with loves it he has been in it for a long time and recently got deployed. It has been hard enough not talkin to him for weeks but idk if I can trust him. ...

A.   15 July 2010: I think your too young to be doting on a relationship that is long distance. Girls your age get caught up too quickly on what love is and i think you should do some growing up before you settle to quickly... (read in full...)

Do my scars discomfort her?

Q.   Hello people, I have a problem here, or maybe I'm paranoid. Either way, I know this gal, She's 21, and I'm 27. Oh and I should make it clear that I have a number of scars on my body and 2 on my face because when I was in Afghanistan in duty an ...

A.   15 July 2010: I think things like that take time to get used to, she probably said no because she doesnt wanna make you feel bad. Maybe take ur shirt off a little more = ) LOL... (read in full...)

She says if I hang out with my friend she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. How do I take care of this?

Q.   my girlfriend of a year and a few months is trying to tell me that if i hang out with my friend (that she doesn't like because he doesn't like her) she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. how do i take care of this...

A.   15 July 2010: Sorry to say this but bros BEFORE hoes. A girlfriend shouldnt make you choose her over your friend thats immature. It sounds like she is diva and used to getting her way. Let her do what she wants if she is going to act like that... (read in full...)

Why does my hubby want me to lick, finger, and penetrate his arse. Does this mean he is gay or bi?

Q.   "OP Own Title" Why does my husband want me to play with his butt so much? He always wants me to touch it, finger it, even lick it. He is often putting it in my face during 69. I don't particularly like it, but do it sometimes when I am drunk or ...

A.   15 July 2010: Medically the mens "G SPOT" is actually rectal. So You can only imagine how pleasureable that is for him. I find that normal... (read in full...)

My friends don't like the new me, but I do!

Q.   I've changed! Suposibly I've gotten prettier, I lost some weight, I've gotten taller, i don't talk as much, I'm not as loud and alot more. But my friends don't like it. They don't like the new me. They miss the old me. But I like the new me not the ...

A.   15 July 2010: I agree. Continue to be you and branch out a little more, find people who like the new you compared to who you used to be. Sometimes when people grow up they grow apart.... (read in full...)

He never tells me something is wrong until we start fighting!

Q.   Okayy so me and this kid have been going out for about two months. And yesterday for example, we were talking all day and he was acting totally fine. And then that night i asked him how his game went...and he said that they won and so on. After that ...

A.   15 July 2010: Guys seem so complicated! My fiance is the same way and I was too for the longest time but i took it upon myself to make sure that I took time to talk to him and figure out whats wrong. Guys can be egotistical so im guessing when you brought up the ... (read in full...)

Why is he sending another woman text messages saying "hey beautiful"

Q.   i have been living with my boyfriend for a year and lately he has been distant. Not ass affectionate and attentive as before. I just felt like something was off so i checked his text messages (up until now i have never felt a need to) and saw ...

A.   15 July 2010: I would let him know what you seen and why you did what you did. I would also let him know how much it upsets you to see how much he appreciates another woman more than you. Because 2 things can happen he can apologize and you can forgive him or He ... (read in full...)

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