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I live in the north of Ireland. I am the eldest of four children(with another on the way) I am in my mid teens, but i will not tell my age as it seems to get in the way of the fact that i can give really good advice and to hell with being modest, that's just honesty.
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I really don't want to be a lesbian!
Q. im nearly 18 and im so confused about my sexuality! im defo straight cause i loveee boyss! but lately i hav been having feelings for girls in the same way! :| i think i fancy girls too! i really dont want to be a lesbian! but i cant help my feelings ...
A. 25 February 2010: Hunny it seems that hardly anyone on here knows what this means. There is no "just" straight or gay. You sound like you are bisexual.... (read in full...)
If his wife was taking care of him, he wouldn't have to lean on his female students. He isn't 'traditionally' attractive but should I flirt with him?
Q. A few months ago, I couldn't help but fall for my much older principal. Sure he isn't TRADITIONALLY attractive, but looks aren't everything. He has a big.....let's just call it a 'beaver'. I just know it. He also has a really cool voice, kind of ...
A. 14 September 2008: umm i'm not sure if this is actually a serious question or not but umm...no.lol i dont see where in any of that you mentioned that the man's wife didn't take care of him, that he didn't love her dearly or that he leaned on anyone never mind his ... (read in full...)
What exactly is sexual tension and what's so good about it?
Q. Hi. Seems like a silly question but what exactly is 'Sexual tension'? If I meet a guy I really like I usually struggle to keep my composure and can't hold down a conversation. So basically the conversation is all kind of stilted and goes no-where. ...
A. 21 August 2008: yes i think you're just shy or embarrassed that you'll say the wrong thing.
sexual tension is like a spark of electricity surging through the room when you're together. I suppose in a way it is hard to explin, so the best way i can is to say that... (read in full...)
How do I get my life back when these men stole it from me?
Q. Im struggling. Im 18 and a sxual assult victum. Was raped at 6 and touched up by mumz ex at 13 i have been a mess since. I just want my life back. These men stole it from me and they dont get jail time or nufin how is that justice? How can i look a ...
A. 17 August 2008: I am no expert with this type of thing so i think you would get better advice from a helpline, but i will do my best. My mother was raped by her brother at the age of around 13 and she didnt report him to the police and has to look him in the eye ... (read in full...)
Do I go out with my exboyfriend to get over my feelings for my best female friend?
Q. Hey, About 3 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend after we had sex for the first time. We were (and still are) 15, and I felt it was too much too young. I also had another worry, as I was completely in love with my best female friend. She know...
A. 13 August 2008: I doubt that by going out with someone else you can forget who you really love, but life sucks hunni and if this girl doesn't feel the same way about you, i think it's best if you do try your do best to move on. You never know. You're very young ... (read in full...)
Are porn watchers just peeping toms?
Q. Are porn watchers no more than peeping toms. Watch couples copulate whilst masterbating? What do you think?...
A. 13 August 2008: The difference is that a peeping tom watches people while those people are unaware of him/her. They have no consent to watch, while the people in porn vids know that when they are being videoed that the movie will be seen and/or distributed
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An already hot & heavy relationship, yet still a kinky twist!?
Q. Alright, this is mainly a question for the ladies but the men are more than welcome to answer as well. My girlfriend and I have pretty good little thing going, ...especially when it comes to the sex. I'll just put it this way, ITS HOT!!! We're ...
A. 11 August 2008: T.C.O.B=Taking Care Of Business?? not too sure.
Hunni. Us girls don't like to admit these things. Sure we'll admit them to other women because we're all the same, but not to men. Not ones we'll ever have to see again anyways so don't take tha... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to masterbate, even when I have a boyfriend?
Q. I feel horny all the time but i have a boyfriend am i supposed to use him for my sexual pleasure? Or do people in relationships masterbate too? Im only 15 btw...
A. 11 August 2008: Hunni, it's your body. You can masterbate any time you like. It's natural. I don't feel it has anything to do with your bf. Your a little young to be using your bf for your sexual pleasure so he wont feel inadequate in any way
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My boyfriend is too critcal of me, but not of his ex... how can I fix this?
Q. my boyfriend has become increasingly critical of the things i do, no matter which way i do something he finds a way to critisise it, however he panders round his ex (mother of his child) and this really grates. The critisism is starting to bring me ...
A. 11 August 2008: Have you mentioned anything to him?
You cannot let this go on. I have seen this sort of thing ruin people. Never mind his Criticism ruining the relationship, it will eventually ruin you if you let it continue.
Hmm was it his ex that finished... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with my ex, so how do I get him back full time?
Q. I was with my boyfriend for 2 years and was absolutely head over heels in love with him. then a few weeks ago he decided he was too young to be in a serious relationship. We had a very nasty break up, but now are trying to be friends. the thing is, ...
A. 11 August 2008: Hunni, honest 100% here? you can't assume that you will get him back. As cupidguy has pointed out, your ex left you and then went onto another girl. Hell, he's getting what alot of guys want-two girls and to him you don't seem to have a problem ... (read in full...)
There is an age difference between me and the boy I like, does it matter?
Q. I'm 15 almost Sixteen. He's just turned 17. He's starting his senior year. I'm starting my Softmore. I like him... alot ... and he seems to like me. but I think the age and grade diffrence may be in the way. do guys really care about that ??? ...
A. 8 August 2008: This sort of thing doesn't matter much where i come from. That age difference is nothing really, but i get what you mean about what the differences will mean during school. Take that to be your own time with peace away from him for a while-yes i ... (read in full...)
I constantly feel ugly and end up with other men to boost self-esteem
Q. hi i am a female aged 19. iv been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. we have a 3 month old baby. i have always been a bit insecure and have always been paranoid about how i look. since having a baby however things have just got worse. i hate ...
A. 7 August 2008: Everyone compares themself to everyone else. It's just the way people are in today's society. Let me tell you this now-never in my life have i met an ugly person. Everyone criticizes themselves, so you're not alone there. Hunni, you can go out ... (read in full...)
Would he be excited by ANY girl telling him they liked him, or just me?
Q. would a guy be really excited if a girl said she like him and if he had not dated in a while i think. Let say his name is zach and I admitted I like him. He was really happy and all that. would he act the same with another girl?...
A. 2 August 2008: It depends. I mean, don't go fooling yourself. If any pretty girl told a guy that she liked him of course he is going to be happy about it. He's hardly going to be disdraught, you know?
Turn the situation around so that it was a guy telling you ... (read in full...)
How do i tell my mate im dating the guy she fancies?
Q. i have liked this guy on and off for months, and we started going out yesterday, but my best mate fancies him, how do i tell her???...
A. 30 July 2008: Try to make a good case for yourself. Explain that you like him just as much as she does. If she wasn't dating him then he's pretty much fair play in my book lol.
Good luck :D
xoxox... (read in full...)
I trust her but I can't help but worry what could happens when she ges away to college. Any advice for me?
Q. I am worried about my gf going to college. We have been dating for a little over a year and she and i both want to make it work while she is gone. She keeps reassuring me everything is going to be fine and has never lied or cheated, or given me a ...
A. 30 July 2008: Ok hun don't go asking her again for 2 reasons: The first is the simple fact that it's making her mad, but she also must feel terrible thinking that you don't trust her.
To be quite honest she wont have much time to do anything other than work in c... (read in full...)
My fiance has lost his interest in sex, should I be worried?
Q. My soon to be husband hasn't had sex with me in 2 weeks. Prior to that it had been 10 days before we engaged in sex. He says he isn't in the mood ever, and that he is too tired. This worries me , because we are a young couple about to marry. How ...
A. 26 July 2008: Do something a little spontanious. You could make a whole lot of fun out of this. Start tempting him more(without acting as if you meant to) simple things like leaning over in a provocative manner to pick something up, leaning up to get smething ... (read in full...)
Gf told me I'm not the best sex she's had, what should I do?
Q. hey ppl out there ive been in a relationship for a year and some months and i used to ask my gf if i was the best at sex she used to tell me yes and i was the first person to make her to cum alot and when having sex now i ask her again recently who ...
A. 26 July 2008: The easiest way to give a girl what she wants in bed is to ask, hunni. Ask her what she wants you to do to her and i bet in no time you'll have her at your mercy lol :D good luck xoxox... (read in full...)
I want a relationship, not meaningless sex! I'm confused.
Q. hi im confused. theres a lad i like but all he seems to want is sexual stuff... he says he wouldnt do anything with me drunk because id wud be taking advantage and he said he wouldnt wanna do that. But he says he doesn't fancy me and he said ...
A. 26 July 2008: Do not be used by anyone darlin'
The way you describe him, i don't particularly care for the guy. Don't take less than you can get chick and i can gaurentee that you can get a hell of a whole lot more than what he's willing to give you.
goo... (read in full...)
Should I have my facial birthmark removed or could I learn to live with it?
Q. i have a problem with my self image i have a birthmark on my face and it does get me down sometimes when people will stare. i have the choice to get it removed by laser which i would want to do but at the same time i dont want to turn my back on ...
A. 26 July 2008: My cousin was in the exact same position as you are now and she was thinking the exact same thing(about weither she wanted to leave that part of her behind, weither it would change who she was or not.) I remember she was always self consciou... (read in full...)
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