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writes:I was with my boyfriend for 2 years and was absolutely head over heels in love with him. then a few weeks ago he decided he was too young to be in a serious relationship. We had a very nasty break up, but now are trying to be friends. the thing is, he moved on to another girl just days after we broke up. but then we started having sex again... I'm like 'the other woman', but still desperately want to get back with him. Can you think of anyway i can manage to get him back?
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reader, -Red- +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Hunni, honest 100% here? you can't assume that you will get him back. As cupidguy has pointed out, your ex left you and then went onto another girl. Hell, he's getting what alot of guys want-two girls and to him you don't seem to have a problem with it but im quite sure the other girl would if she found out.
Chica, you deserve way better than this. I wonder how he would feel if you went and got yourself another guy? Then again, he would still be getting free sex. Talk you him about it, lay down your options and then make a decision.
Good luck!!
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reader, lottie91  +, writes (11 August 2008):
You need to stop letting him have what he wants, let him know that as long as he's with another girl there will be no more sex between the two of you. If he really loves you he will realise it's you that he wants and go back to you, if not then as harsh as it sounds it's time to move on and find someone who truly loves you rather than someone who will mess you around like he seems to be doing.
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