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female
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41-50,
*adincali
writes:My soon to be husband hasn't had sex with me in 2 weeks. Prior to that it had been 10 days before we engaged in sex. He says he isn't in the mood ever, and that he is too tired. This worries me , because we are a young couple about to marry. How long should I have to wait for him to come around? should I be worried? He knows it really bothers me, but he doesn't seem to care.
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reader, bellasmommy +, writes (26 July 2008):
im not trying to say he is, BUT maybe he is trying to give you a hint.. OR he masterbates because its easier and less work.. but whatever it is i hope things get better.. Try wearing something sexy or try kissing him all over to get the mood right.
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reader, Ometeotl +, writes (26 July 2008):
 I hope he isn't on the Down low, no joke intended. Believe it or not there are some men who don't find sex that interesting. These men are usually sophisticated men, men with high demands of people, arrogant, clean, and career or job oriented. He might think sex is a waste of time or unclean. He might not like your performance. The best is to sift around his thoughts about sex. You are going to have to ask sooner or later. Try not to come onto him as desperate but well mannered. If he explains that he just doesn't like sex as much as you and you personally think that it has something to do with him then he might have erectile dysfunction and is embarrassed about it, or some other medical illness.
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reader, -Red-  +, writes (26 July 2008):
 Do something a little spontanious. You could make a whole lot of fun out of this. Start tempting him more(without acting as if you meant to) simple things like leaning over in a provocative manner to pick something up, leaning up to get smething from high up which wearing a skirt etc etc and see how long he lasts. Now this is what i would do.
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