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writes:my boyfriend has become increasingly critical of the things i do, no matter which way i do something he finds a way to critisise it, however he panders round his ex (mother of his child) and this really grates. The critisism is starting to bring me down, on top of him constantly squirming round her im starting to get really disheartened. we live together, and i dont want this to cause a major problem with us. how can i rectify it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you to everyone else, i have confronted it, his response was that he is scared with her that if he isnt constantly nice she wont let him see his son (can more than understand this)
and has said he has just been in a stroppy mood with himself over her and thus having a go at me constantly. thanks everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): This guy of yours is NOT yours. He should be home with the mother of HIS child helping HER, and not spending time with you. The decent thing for you to do is send him back to them where he belongs, girl!! That child deserves to have a father who is there for him/her. DO THE RIGHT THING!!
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reader, NoProblem +, writes (11 August 2008):
 The best thing i think you can do it confront him about it. If he denies it tell him hes does as he might not be aware of it. Tell him how it is making you feel.
And as for him not ding it to him ex the mother of the child it may be just to be civil because of the right of the child. If they argued it would not be fair on the child.
You just need to have a talk and it may work out.
Good luck
i look forward to a follow up
xxxx
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reader, -Red-  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Have you mentioned anything to him?
You cannot let this go on. I have seen this sort of thing ruin people. Never mind his Criticism ruining the relationship, it will eventually ruin you if you let it continue.
Hmm was it his ex that finished things with him? Because by the sounds of things, he is still in love with her.
lmao at unlce_Phil. Nice one.
All the good luck in the word chica
xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): Oh boy, there's a very simple solution to this one.
You dump the inconsiderate git and kick his arse out into the street whereupon he'll no doubt go running back to his perfect ex!!
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