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How do I get my life back when these men stole it from me?

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Question - (16 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im struggling. Im 18 and a sxual assult victum. Was raped at 6 and touched up by mumz ex at 13 i have been a mess since. I just want my life back. These men stole it from me and they dont get jail time or nufin how is that justice? How can i look a policeman in the eyes now with out wanting to rip his head off and shove it in his heelllooo

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (17 August 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi, one of the aunts compiled a whole list of crisis numbers in Australia, and I've put together this list for you, as I don't know where in Australia you are. I hope that one of them will work for you and you'll be referred to a center that can help you work through this trauma. Life can and will be better for you; reach out and ask for that help.

Take care.

xxx

CANBERRA

Rape Crisis Centre - 1800 424 017

Rape Crisis Centre - 02 6247 2525

NEW SOUTH WALES

Rape Crisis Centre – 02 9819 6565 or TTY 02 9181 4349

Sexual Assault Counselling – 02 9926 7580

NORTHERN TERRITORY

Sexual Assault Referral Services Alice Springs - 08 8951 5880

Sexual Assault Referral Services Alice Springs after hrs - 08 8951 7777

Sexual Assault Referral Services Darwin - 08 8922 7156 (24 HOURS)

Sexual Assault Referral Services Katherine - 08 8971 0777

Sexual Assault Referral Services Katherine After hrs - 08 8973 9211

Sexual Assault Referral Services Tenant Creek - 08 8962 1715

Sexual Assault Referral Services Tenant Creek after hrs - 08 8962 4399

QUEENSLAND

Statewide Sexual Assault Helpline - 1800 010 120

SOUTH AUSTRALIA

Rape & Sexual assault Service - 08 8226 8787

TASMANIA

Sexual Assault Support - 03 6231 1811

VICTORIA

Sexual Assault – 03 9344 2210 or 1800 806 292

WESTERN AUSTRALIA

Sexual Assault Resource Centre - 08 9340 1828 or 1800 199 888

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

Ooh, this is terrible, and I am sorry that you had to endure all this pain. Unfortunately I cannot help you, since I am no psichologist. The best thing you can do for yourself, is to find professional help as soon as possible.

Good luck!

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A female reader, chloe71z United States +, writes (17 August 2008):

chloe71z agony auntI couldn't have said it better myself. You do need to talk to someone about what happened, Go to counsling or something. I will deffinetly keep you in my prayers if you like.

Take care and God Bless

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A female reader, -Red- Ireland +, writes (17 August 2008):

-Red- agony auntI am no expert with this type of thing so i think you would get better advice from a helpline, but i will do my best. My mother was raped by her brother at the age of around 13 and she didnt report him to the police and has to look him in the eye every other day. I think you need to talk to people about this. The best person would be your mum or another family member. No need to be embarrassed or ashamed. It is those men who should feel that way. Don't let them steal your life from you. Make the most of it and be determined to do so. You've been through so much and should be so proud of yourself.

Find something to do that makes you happy and stick to it.

Good luck chica and with lots of respect from me!

xoxox

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