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Am I allowed to masterbate, even when I have a boyfriend?

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Question - (11 August 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *bcdefghij writes:

I feel horny all the time but i have a boyfriend am i supposed to use him for my sexual pleasure? Or do people in relationships masterbate too? Im only 15 btw

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A male reader, Salad Fingers United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2008):

Salad Fingers agony auntOf course people still masterbate when they have partners, even people who have been married for years. Obviously waiting for the sex or whatever rather than masterbating will proberly equal better sex, but temptation is far too easy to give in with this sort of thing.

i lost my virginity when i was 14 so i cant tell you your too young, but considering your only 15, make sure you know what your doing, safe sex is good sex!

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A female reader, -Red- Ireland +, writes (11 August 2008):

-Red- agony auntHunni, it's your body. You can masterbate any time you like. It's natural. I don't feel it has anything to do with your bf. Your a little young to be using your bf for your sexual pleasure so he wont feel inadequate in any way

:D

xoxox

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A female reader, *Brittany* United States +, writes (11 August 2008):

Yes u can masterbate. its normal for teenagers ur age to be horny alot of the time. if ur boyfriend really loves u, he wuldnt mind if u masterbated. he might actually think its sexy :p

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008):

Most guys like it when their girl can't get enough sex. You should talk to him about it, and let him know how horny you are. Even if you wear him out, he would enjoy watching you masterbate while he recovers himself.

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A female reader, Angela.B United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2008):

Angela.B agony auntThere is no right or wrong answer to this - everyone is different.

Some people find their desire for masturbation vanishes when with a partner, other people find it is still there. Some people hate the thought of their partner masturbating, while others find it a huge turn on to watch them do it!

In other words, whatever seems right for you is the right answer.

Of course, at 15 years old you really shouldn't be having sex with your boyfriend anyway... Ok, lecture over!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2008):

You can do what ever you like in a relationship.

Better to masturbate at home than to do stuff with your boyfriend, and go too far and end up pregnant.

Do stuff with your boyfriend but keep it limited. You know what you are ready for and what you will risk if you start having sex now.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2008):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntHave a balance of both.

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