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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Am I giving him the wrong idea when we kiss and things? How do I tell him I want a serious commitment before I give him my v-card? How do I know he's the right one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - I want to lose my virginity, but I'm afraid. I love this guy but we're not together, ive known him for some years and we recently decided to start talking a few months ago. I knew from years ago that he was the one I wanted to lose it too, but I wa...

Is it normal to be scared of losing your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I don't really know why i'm scared of loosing my virginity. Is it normal for someone to be scared of loosing their virginity?. Or is it just me actin in accordance to my body's tone? I just need advice. Any comment will be appreciated. Thanks....

Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

29 September 2013 (M) - hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've b...

Did I lose out by not dating or having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

24 September 2013 (M) - I am 27 years old virgin boy from India currently I live in Melbourne.In my Home country it is pretty common(no sex before marriage). I feel that I lost a big part of my life with out sex or relationships.Remaining virgin even after20 or 25 is ...

My body issues are holding me back from losing my virginity.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (M) - Hi all, I'm in a bit of a difficult spot. I want to lose my virginity with my girlfriend but I also have intimacy issues (I am embarrassed about the way my chest looks) which is making this hard. She has mentioned making love before, but I so...

I want to lose my virginity but neither have a good place for it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - I am about 17 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I feel like i am ready to have sex with him but i haven't discussed it with him. I feel scared that if he says no that things will become uncomfortable between us and ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a 2 minths now and we had sex for the first time last weekend, (I lost my virginity to him, he has slept with girls before) and a few days later we got onto the subject of different places to have sex, he mentioned a ...

I've gotten involved with my friend and he loves me but I don't want a relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - I recently left a physically abusive relationship, so I am not dating until I get myself together. In the meantime I did have sex with one of my closest friends, it felt absolutely right and I came which my ex boyfriend rarely made me cum (I...

Was he put off? How can I relax into this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - I am still a virgin at the age of 20 which I want to change. The reason is because I was with a guy from the age of 16 until recently, and he had erection problems. In short we had a complex relationship which was not really normal. I have re...

Is it normal after first time sex to hurt when you urinate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - Last night I lost my virginity to my Boyfriend. I'm not in love but I felt ready and it felt right we didn't plan for it to happen, it just did. The thing is it didn't hurt as much and I didn't bleed and it lasted for an hour until he came. We then ...

How to tell a guy that you want a committed relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - I went to a party with a friend, where I was able to meet this guy. We spoke a bit at the party but we didn't flirt. Throughout the entire night, I was attempting to set him up with my friend by trying to initiate in conversation and get them ...

I feel sort of pressured into having sex. Should I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

9 September 2013 (F) - So, I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and we've arranged to have sex, but I'm not too sure we should just yet since I am still a virgin, I've told him that I don't think I'm ready and he's fine with that, but I sorta feel pressured ...

Virginity and losing it..how do you know when you are ready?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I'm 19 and a 2nd year varsity student... I've been in a relationship with this guy for over 2 years now... He loves me and treats me like a queen. We are both virgins and we are considering having sex. I would just like some sort of guidance as 2 ...

My girlfriend acts more sexual than she is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 September 2013 (M) - One of my girlfriend's friends is the type of person that likes to sleep around a lot. Every weekend she usually hooks up with someone. When I hear my girlfriend talk to her about it, my gf always seems so happy/proud of her and that it is a normal ...

What should I prepare for when visting an escort for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

6 September 2013 (M) - I'm 27 years old and a virgin, and I always thought about waiting for the right girl that I liked or was into me, however I just grew impatient. I'm shy, I don't feel comfortable in myself so I feel that I'm not any girls type and not attractive to ...

Losing virginity to a large guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

3 September 2013 (F) - I am a virgin female in her early-mid 20's. I was not necessarily waiting for marriage, but I was waiting for the right, long term relationship that could lead to marriage. I'd like to think I've found him. My boyfriend, who is not a virgin, wa...

What can I do to publicly turn him on to the point where he just can't stand it anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) - Okay, my boyfriend is the sweetest guy ever. I so glad that I found him when I did.. Every girl in my town wants him, he makes music, art and he makes everyone around him feel amazing! He's leaving for University in three days and we are going to a ...