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Archived questions from: January, 2020 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I'm uncomfortable with boyfriend's friendship with this other girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1762 days ago

29 January 2020 (F) - I would appreciate some advice on this situation. My bf and I have been dating for several months, we started long distance bc of college a few months ago, but we aren't out of hs we met at cc. So we started out as friends and we are each other's ...

My step father is abusive but wants my mother to take him back.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1764 days ago

22 January 2020 (F) - My dad passed away in 2009 by suicide. I was 13 at the time my sister was 2.. In 2010 my mum met this guy -let's call him Jay. They dated for awhile until my mum fell pregnant and the family forced them to get married -she had a miscarriage. D...

I had an affair and my parents want me to return to my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1767 days ago

22 January 2020 (F) - Im guilty of having affair with another man while im still married. My marriage was a wrong choice from the beginning. There is so much red flags that i ignored because of my low self esteem. Im told i cant have better relationship with other man ...

I don't know how to be alone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1770 days ago

20 January 2020 (F) - I split up with my ex of 8years 7months ago but only stopped living with him 3months ago. Since splitting up I had a few casual dates that meant nothing and then met this guy I really liked him and I thought everything was going great but he just ...

My girlfriend appears to be stalking people I know.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1771 days ago

19 January 2020 (M) - I was using my girl’s laptop to finish off some work when I ended up closing my windows and having to open them up through my history upon clicking I realized that she had been pulling up instagrams for people on my Instagram. Upon clicking the ...

I'm battling to trust my boyfriend's word about strippers and lap dances.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1771 days ago

18 January 2020 (F) - My bf and I of 5 years recently had an argument about him being at strippers and getting a dance. It was brought up again last night and his reaction took me by surprise. He had asked what was wrong I said upset still and he said after a week he ...

I'm trying to put myself in my boyfriend's ex's shoes and wonder why she's behaving the way that she is, but I can't imagine why

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1772 days ago

17 January 2020 (F) - My boyfriend's ex is still in the picture but on the peripherals, and I'm finding it hard to understand why. I have tried, so I'm just going to put the facts, coupled with my thoughts, and would like anyone to give me their feedback on what they ...

Is he trying to or currently cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1770 days ago

17 January 2020 (F) - I am a little concerned as to whether my OH is in fact trying to or is currently cheating. Let me give you a bit of background. 6 years together. Engaged. Living together 2 and a half years, dog, cat, saving for house etc. He has cheated in the p...

My boyfriend treats me terribly, maybe I deserve it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1774 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, hoping someone can offer some advice.. I'm a 31 year old woman and I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's the same age. He's been living with me for six months, around the same time he lost his job. It wasn't something we ...

A man I had sex with keeps ghosting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1773 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - Hi all So I really like this man who split from wife last year and now lives on own - we have had one night which was amazing about a month ago but nothing since . I’ve decided if he isn’t contacting me then he isn’t interested so have left it...

Is it possible to have healthy relationships with family with mental issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1772 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - It has only been recently I’ve realized just how toxic my relationships are with my immediate family members. I’m having trouble knowing how to proceed with them now that I’ve had this realization. I’ve always been aware that our family is ...

Did my boyfriend cross a line or did I overreact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1773 days ago

15 January 2020 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I broke up with my boyfriend about 1 month ago we didn't talk for 2 weeks and he was already dating and talking to other girls (I saw him in the university with them), he came back to me again and told me that he wants me back. I ...

I think my boyfriend lies about what he does when out with his friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1776 days ago

13 January 2020 (F) - I suspect my bf is lying to me about his activities when out with his friends. We had a discussion before where he mentioned the sort of antics they get up to but he doesn't take part. I'm mostly concerned about his activities when they are going to ...

I hired a PI who tells me my wife has been cheating on me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1457 days ago

12 January 2020 (M) - I recently found out that my wife has been having an affair for the past two years with a single male friend of ours who we had a drunken threesome with two years ago..that threesome which i initiated wasnt so fullfilling for me, since i had ...

Should I confront him about his new sexual interests?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1758 days ago

12 January 2020 (F) - I have known my husband for 10 years. We have been married for 3 years and we first started dating 5 years ago. He hated the thought of anal. But i always said i wondered what it felt like. And when i asked him if he ever had anal sex with his exes, ...

I can't seem to get over that my partner cheated on me last year. How can l reconcile this and move forward with life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1763 days ago

10 January 2020 (F) - I found out my partner cheated when he was out of the country last year. But he continued to call me every evening, said the I love you's, and the I miss you's. He was still plugged into the relationship. I've struggled since to get over it. He has ...

My husband acted like he didn't care, so I left him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1784 days ago

4 January 2020 (F) - I am hurting deeply. My husband of 6 years has a barber and beauty salon on the same compound of his mother's home. I work 12pm-9pm and my parents helps with our three children. My husband usually leaves his place of work at a reasonable time to go ...

How do I approach my partner's blatant lies when she gets home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1784 days ago

4 January 2020 (M) - My partner and I have been in a relationship for a couple of years. Two weeks ago I had to have spinal surgery and I can’t get around at all (only can walk around house, not even allowed to lift washing or stand to make dinner) she has been great ...

My friend runs her mouth off and ruins everything.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1786 days ago

1 January 2020 (F) - Hello Aunt's and Uncle's this is about a friend and I'm going to use my real Aunt's and Uncle's names instead of the real names. Hopefully Amy or my parents won't get nosy and look at my phone! My (only) friends at school are: Amy, Laura, Matt, and ...

I'm in love with a boy who brought his girlfriend to my house to sleep.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1782 days ago

1 January 2020 (M) - Dear Aunties, Happy New year. I am a 36 yr old male. I have been with this 21 year old boy. We have a huge age difference. I have wanted this boy to be my boyfriend for a while now. He has been resistant to my advances and asked me to be patient...