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Archived questions from: 20 September, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Surely I deserve an apology???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so I found suggestive texts between him and her, flirting, goading, and daring one another, sexually explicit inuendoes that really hurt my feelings. Previously asked him to stop her sending innapropriate 'rude' jokes to him, but he chose to...

He makes me feel so insecure... do I stay with him? What do I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hi my name is Preeti (24) dating a guy (28) for one and a half years. My boyfriend has a really close friend who's a girl and I just feel like I'm no one in his life.... I'm very insecure about him but I love him and he loves me too but I feel he's ...

My husband is jealous and controlling. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - First off my husband is and has always been the jealous and controling type right down to hitting me and making sure I'm isolated with no female friends unless he's with me and can oversee everything and even then he gets jealous. For the first ...

The thought of losing him makes me shudder. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - When i was younger there was a boy i was always close to, we grew up together and was always best mates, we went out when i was like 10 (he was 4yrs older) but our parents stopped us. A few yrs later when i was 14 we went out again, but it was hard ...

How do you break up with a habitual cheater for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I'm in desperate need of advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a 1 and a half year old son, and live together in a home that we own jointly. He has cheated on me countless times (I've caught him at least 25 tim...

Is snooping ever a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have just come through a very difficult time. I dearly want to believe he has changed like he says he has but he has lied to me a lot and the trust has gone. I know it will take time to get this back and im prepared to work at it ...

What is the solution for a dramatic relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me two months ago after a relationship of 2 years. She is Canadian studying in Frankfurt, I am Austrian living in Luxembourg. We had a long distance relationship, seeing each other every weekend. When we met, she gave...

I want to change my jealous insecure & untrusting ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - I have been with this girl for about 3 months now. In my previous relationships sometime my actions have got in the way, and pushed my last girlfriend away. I cant decide wether it is a trust, insecurity, jelousy or control issue. The best way for ...

At Uni with a jealous possessive bf calling me, all the time! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Right, this might be a bit long but i have two really big problems. I'm currently in university in Cardiff (my first year)and my boyfriend is in Swansea in his second year. Now i love him to pieces and couldnt imagine living my life without him...

How do I ease the pain of heartache after breaking it off with a guy, I adore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - can anyone please help the pain to ease. I have broke up with someone i adore. I may have been a bit needy recently with heart problems. we see each other at the weekend and lately we have been what i would say quiet with each other, i do get ...

He doesn't trust me or take me seriousl

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20 September 2009 (F) - i hav a relation wid my boyfriend from last one year .He loves me lot n i also but the problm is he dont trust me every time i did knowingly those things which hurts him n broke trust n now he is breaking up the relation bcs he donttrust me n dont ...

Am I blowing this out of proportion? I really want to get a divorce because I feel like this is going to be a never ending pattern

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - OK well i have been married for two years in october and total time together will be 3yrs. My husband is a solider and we got married before he went to iraq. After seven month when he got a 2 week break everything was fine and loving but he used my ...

Why do I want my abusive bf to be happy and successful....even "after" he came at me with a knife??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I'm having a really hard time because my boyfriend was arrested yesterday for domestic violence. Yes, there's a big long history, but yesterday was really bad because he came at me with a knife which he was then going to turn on himself (this is ...