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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Relationship of three years and finding sexual texting from other women,

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been with my b/f for 3 years, We have been living together for a little bit over a year. Recently (4 1/2 months ago) I found texts from women on his phone to him. One girl wrote " No I wont allow it! Do what you want to do but I...

Can't let go of the past, and keep starting fights over it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I'm living with a man for almost 4 years now and also engaged. I met him after he just broke off an 11 year relationship with another woman and I was his go to person (yes, sex too). I thought during that time I was the only one he was seeing. 5 ...

Do I tell her I saw her asleep, under the covers, with her shirtless (but with trousers on) ex on the top of the covers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - Just before I get started, I known this girl for 9 years, she always wanted me and I wanted her, we date 6 years ago, didnt last cause she was busy with school. Now we are dating again, and Im the first person she fell in love with and I love her...

Is his motive just for a booty call or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Since I broke up with my ex 4 months ago, we have been communicating every now and then. But our talk wasn't usually good, there was this blaming and starting a fight on my side. He tried to ignore me but somehow, he would communicate back in a ...

He doesn't trust people and takes it out on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Where do I draw the line? My boyfriend is constantly struggling with his ability to trust people, and unfortunately that is taken out a lot on me. I have never been unfaithful and I have never lied to him - so please do not comment that I a...

How can I trust a person without honesty?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - My BF and have been together for 7 months. I think he may be cheating. He still talks to his ex and doesn't see a problem with it. Some of the messages and calls between them have been very suggestive, I can feel that his ex is still loves him ...

What's wrong with my girlfriend's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - I've been in a terrific relationship for several months, and at this point hope to become engaged and eventually married to my girlfriend. One serious issue, at least for me, is her best friend. Her friend is married, 40, and has a baby. Both of ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about the rape? I'm scared I will lose him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Last year i was raped at a city bus stop. My mother and father both know about it, but my new boyfriend dosent. We just started going out 3 weeks ago and i dont no if i should tell him or not. "Rob" tells me everything and i want to to, but i just ...