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writes:can anyone please help the pain to ease. I have broke up with someone i adore. I may have been a bit needy recently with heart problems. we see each other at the weekend and lately we have been what i would say quiet with each other, i do get jealous of his roaming eye and i dont believe it has helped my heart problems. I think the world of him and maybe its because i met him at a vulnerable time in my life when my marriage of 20 years broke up, i have come to depend on him too much, he is very outgoing, a hairdresser! we had a row because he booked a trip away (again) with his brother and sister in our time and there was really no need for him to have booked it then when he has a week off work in two weeks. yes i know its all down to my jealousy, we have a row over it and now we have broke up, he is stubborn and can be quite condescending but i love him. my heart is breaking
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reader, catsanddogs315 +, writes (20 September 2009):
You poor thing, abroken heart is no fun at all.
I too was and probrably still are a jealous person. I have sought help, and i now realise i cannot change anyone or make them want me.
I have put myself in your shoes and know how it would make you feel about him booking time away.
The only advice i can give to you is to write down how you feel, in a card and post it to him. In a conversation words get forgotton or even not said. But in a card someone can keep referring to it and read it over and over.
Meanwhile, try to surround yourself with friends, but don't keep on about him to them all the time. They will know what to do to cheer you up.
I know it is the last thing you want to hear but, time does heal a heart. Who knows, if your card is touching enough, he may want to chat about it. If you admit to him you know you are like this, and maybe ask for his help to change it may strike at something with him.
Good luck hun.
You are never alone.X
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