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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I feel so guilty about leaving my abusive ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2597 days ago

30 September 2017 (F) - Hi, I previously asked for advice regarding a relationship I was in for 3 years with a guy I lived with who was controlling and violent. It went on for a number of years and last December I cheated on him with a guy who had been keen on me for a wh...

My boyfriend's mother came over and rearranged our bedroom, I can't find anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now and we live together. He is 22 and I’m 20. Let me start off by saying, I think family is super important and I would never want to come between my boyfriend and his family. But it bothers ...

I know I could have an amazing life with mistress but don't want to hurt my wife and children

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

25 September 2017 (M) - Hi. I am really confused and need advice. Here goes with a bit of background and my position. I am an almost 49 year old man and have been married for almost 25 years.we have 3 Kids.one of which has now left home. My wife gave up work 17 years ag...

My boyfriend has a new friend & he seems to care more about their relationship than ours.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship for five years, and cheating has never been something I was concerned about. But about six months ago my boyfriend made a new friend through a club at colleg, and they became close friends real quickly. They talk all the ...

Love triangle, help! Who do you think I love and who should I be with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - I am in a love triangle. I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who happened to be my sitting mate in high school. And had some feelings for each other but didn't confess our love. Until I traveled to Holland(where I am currently living), and he ...

He says he will never marry me because of my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - Hello, My question is...is there any hope for a future with my ex-boyfriend? We dated for six months and he always suffered from retrograde jealousy for me. During this time I foolishly, casually mentioned my exes, not fully grasping what to...

Difficult LDR, I feel I'm becoming close to my ex. Should I isolate myself from all girls so I don't find myself slipping?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

22 September 2017 (M) - Greetings Agony Aunts and Uncles, To give you a bit of background Im in a LDR with mg GF for about a month now and the separation is killing us. We met in college and our both living near our families in different states. Unless one of us is willi...

He was still receiving photos from his ex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - So I found out that my boyfriend of 9 months still received pictures from his ex. He knew that it bothers me everytime she send texts, call or send selfie pictures. However, I do understand that my bf has no control of what his ex is sending him. ...

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another ...

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked fo...

She has bruises and I think she's cheating with the Baby Daddy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

18 September 2017 (M) - My lady gets mad couse I pointed out two bruises on her back she didn't have before last time we had sex was 5 days ago she takes of one morning to school with baby Dady for conference metting regarding son school I find her on find I phone she ...

My girlfriend wanted an open relationship but I can't cope with it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - I'm struggling with the pain and shock involved in starting an open relationship. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months. Recently we agreed to open the relationship and allow each other to have sex with other people. She's the one wh...

I love my boyfriend but am looking elsewhere

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - My situation.. I met my boyfriend a year ago while while I was living overseas, he is from that country. We ended up getting into a relationship quite fast. Our parents met each other and everything was great. A week later or so, he had to g...

I want my husband to share me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - i want my husband to share me. i have had this desire for a long time. it started when my husband told me, during foreplay one night, he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. we talked about it and i said i would like to do it. but afte...

Am I moving on too fast? And how and when do I tell the new guy about my past and the fact that my ex still lives in the same house as me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

13 September 2017 (F) - I have recently split with my partner of 8 years , we have fallen out of love and we both thought it was the best decision to cut it off. He still lives in the same house as me though in seperate rooms and he still helps with shopping/lifts etc - ...

I think I'd be better off just blocking him from my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - I was recently away on a holiday with a load of other people. I am gay and everyone knows this and am 38 yrs old. Whilst we were away a younger 23 yr old was being friendly with me and then hinted he wanted to come up to chat in my room. Anyhow ...

I like girl A but am dating girl B

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - I became really good friends with these two girls who are best friends. I liked them both but had a crush on girl lets say girl A. I never told girl A this. We had different styles and the few convos we did have she always talked about dating this ...

I'm on the verge of having an affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am about to start an affair, I'm 30 year old woman, in along term relationship. I've been married for so many years and we have 2 children. I have a stable life, extremely loving husband, too loving he doesn't get the concept ...

He's the perfect boyfriend .... when his mate isn't around1

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - Ive met this guy. he is amazing and sweet and just perfect in every way. HOWEVER.. he has this best friend who has very loose morals. when they are together they drink far too much and take drugs. when my boyfriend is not with him he never does dr...

She says she will leave him for me, but wont say when!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

8 September 2017 (M) - I need some advice. I know that what I am about to say isn’t the best situation or the moral thing to get involved in, but it just happens. Now i fell in love and I don’t know what to do. There are so many parts to this story and I will try to keep ...

Boy likes girl but girl does drugs and isn't over her ex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

2 September 2017 (M) - To quote "arrested development" ..."I've made a huge mistake" Sooo I'm going to give you the cliff notes version of the last couple months. Boy meets girl. They start sleeping with each other. Boy likes girl way more than he should and falls head ...