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Archived questions from: October, 2017 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex wants me permanently in the background and have a baby mother too!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - Im good frinds with my ex. We are very close. We broke up 5 yrs ago, but during those 5 yrs we have been sleeping with each other. We talked about getting back together and trying for a baby.... But I told him im not ready.He was ok with this...

Am I asking too little of him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - I have posted before and thankfully we solved a little issue in our relationship. This may be hella stupid for me to be resentful of how he treated his ex, but I kind of am. Idk how true this is, I'm only hearing his side of the story, but ...

My ex apologized but she never really said she was at fault

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

27 October 2017 (M) - Hi cupid, my ex apologised to me which is a rare occasion. After 2 years since we broke up, one line she said really triggered me... I read her apology and as soon as i saw the line "i dont want any drama" i snapped. This was a girl i really cared ...

Ex contacted me and we are in touch again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

26 October 2017 (F) - My ex contacted me and we’re in touch again. It has been many years. The last couple of times I ignored him. This time he was grieving and I reached out. He says he’s alone and will never be in a romantic r again. It has been overwhelming hearing a ...

Guys, do you miss the other woman if the affair ends suddenly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2580 days ago

25 October 2017 (F) - Guys, do you miss your mistress when your affair ended suddenly. I just ended my affair with a married man. Without stating the reason why. I know it’s wrong to be in love with him. So please spare me all the nasty comments. I feel kinda ...

Why am I still dreaming about my ex even though I'm in a loving relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2588 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - I went out with a girl for a brief period 9 months ago. Although she ended it only after 3 months of dating I was crushed. I honestly felt deeply in love with her and she admitted early on that she was in love with me too. We didn't have a bad break ...

Should I try to see if he is available? If so how?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2589 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - Ok! Where do I start? I met a boy seven years ago. We were on a summer abroad in Australia and we fell madly in love with each other. When the summer ended we both went back home. But lived in opposite parts of the country and it just wouldn’t have ...

A year after my break up I still haven't been on a date and no one has shown any real interest in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2591 days ago

20 October 2017 (F) - I'm 22 and the only relationship I have ever been In lasted 3 years before he came out gay. It was a very complicated break up with a lot of mixed feelings and we would still spend time together and end up sleeping together for around a year ...

Family problem has just got worse

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2595 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - Hi, I posted previously about a fall out I had with my sister due to her not being able to take responsibility for a flat she shares with me and also that I didn't want her drug addict boyfriend round. Anyway she has taken it to extremes and I ...

She cheated twice! Will her boyfriend ever accept her or trust her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2595 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - There is this girl dating someone she really love this guy and this guy also love her but she later cheat ,she went to have sex with her ex but she no longer love her ex and her current boyfriend found about it he was mad according to him he said ...

My ex, who has a new girlfriend, has just contaced me out of the blue

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2596 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - My ex and I split up a year ago and the other day he contacted me out of the blue to say he was sorry about how things ended between us. He wants to meet up next month so I said ok. He has been talking to me very strange though, he has said that...

Boyfriend brings up his ex girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2596 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - I went to a high school reunion this past summer. While there, I met a man who I really didn't talk to much in high school. We kind of hit it off, and for the past 2 months, we have been dating and getting to know each other. My question is abou...

I want to have sex with the father of my children

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2596 days ago

13 October 2017 (F) - Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children. We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn...

How do I handle this meeting with him after the news that he's trying to reconcile with his ex in Italy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2588 days ago

12 October 2017 (F) - I met an Italian guy recently. We talked on-line for a few weeks. Then he was in Italy for a month. We met when he came back. I was a little suspicious as to why such a long holiday in Italy as he has no children or parents. We met for the...

It was going great and now she has stopped responding ... I guess its over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

11 October 2017 (M) - Hello everyone! A few months ago I started exchanging Facebook messages with a girl I knew in high school about ten years ago. I'm 30 and she's 29. Things went really well and she agreed to meet up as soon as we could (she was moving back to h...

My ex cheated on me, it took me 2 years to get over him and now he wants to try again

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2595 days ago

11 October 2017 (F) - At what point can you be sure you have forgiven someone for hurting you, and take them back? 3 years ago my then boyfriend of nearly 2 years left me for someone else. It took me a long time to get over it, but I did. I never really forgot he...

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to delete his exes from facebook?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2590 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - Why doesnt my boyfriend want to delete his exes from fb? Hes sayin that they r just friends and their break up were amicable but i notice a constant interest of them on his posts and messenger and also hints and subliminal comments One of them ...

How to move on after a bad relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...

I feel I am not good enough and cry everyday

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - I am 25, single and VERY lonely. My now ex bf recently broke up with me because he lost feelings for me. I think it is all my fault, but he says it is not. He says his feelings fizzled out over time and insists there is no new girl. I am scared of ...

How soon is too soon to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

9 October 2017 (M) - Ok I use to give this girl a lift to work and we got on really well and have so much in common. 2 weeks ago she split up with her boyfriend and has moved so I longer have to give her a lift. At work we have been speaking a lot more since she has ...

He found the girl he dumped me for was too costly and wants me to take him back.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - So, this guy and I were dating for almost two years and he proposed to me in May. A few weeks later he tells me hes going on vacation with his old crush/ friend since high school there both 28. But they have been friends forever. So, he breaks off ...

My boyfriend is sad after his ex girlfriend's revelation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Hello, I have a story to tell. This summer my bf and I got together. He had a girlfriend but he cheated on her to be with me. At first we were friends and I knew he had a girlfriend but I was so in love with him and I was trying to resist for so ...

My ex bf new gf texting me how good their relationship is

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2605 days ago

7 October 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now. We've had our ups and downs but we pulled through. We also had lots of arguments. On our last argument we had I went to work, came home and he packed his things and left. My ex bf now, left a ...

Should I suggest to my ex she seek professional help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - I recently went through a bad breakup with a woman I thought was the one. Even though she did it in a cold hearted way I still care deeply for her and have been told that she loves me just not like I love her. The relationship is in the past so I'm ...

Is this a positive sign or is she just being nice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

5 October 2017 (M) - My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I had been working on the things she didnt like about me and I sent her an email updating her on how I have been changing i.e getting better and that I love her and hopefully in future we might cross ...

I don't trust my husband and he thinks I am cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - Are I met my husband 5 years ago back when I was in high school it's been tough throught out these years... I have 2 kids of my own and he has 2 of his own ever since we got engaged and moved in we've been working a lot his baby mommas call him all ...

I constantly feel jealous about his exes!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

2 October 2017 (?) - Any advice on how to get past jealousy. My boyfriend has clearly had other girlfriends as we have been together only a few months. Yesterday he said about going to Italy and when I asked who with and he said his ex girlfriend from 8 years ago I feel ...

I'd like to be spoiled a bit and shown some appreciation too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

2 October 2017 (F) - Hi, how do i deal with ex marital jealousy? My husband and i, we've been married for almost 2 years now and we do love each other and all who know us would say we have the "ideal" relationship and marriage. Most unfortunately, within my h...