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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I'm obsessed with the man I had a little bit of fun with, 16 years ago!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - This is really weird. So, some 16 years ago, I had a one night stand with this acquaintance - we traveled together to a new city with a group of friends and stayed in the same house. I was relatively sexually inexperienced and socially inept. The ...

I'm tired of trying to avoid him ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

25 November 2017 (F) - Okay so this is a really weird situation. I liked this lad since my first year of high school, we had flirty banta untill he left in 2016. After showing up on the bus on my way to the first day of college a few months ago, it bought old feelings up. ...

I've reconnected with an old boyfriend but don't want to hurt my most recent ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hi I've recently met an old boyfriend from years ago ,we still like each other ,I've been in a relationship over a number of years ,but split 3 years ago but are still friends ,it was a violent relationship that's why it ended but I still have ...

I flirted with another man but I never meant to hurt my boyfriend. How do I convince him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am looking for advice. Before I get into it, I take full responsibility for my own actions, and do not shift any of the blame onto my partner. I am merely stating what got me to the point of my betrayal. Me and my (Ex) boyfriend have b...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

Is it too much to hope that things might work out with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - My ex text me after a week. After breaking up, briefly getting back together, then breaking up again, my ex text me asking how I was. We'd been having difficulties for a while because I just felt that my bf wasn't giving me any of his time. He was...

My boyfriend has hooked up with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - I've been dating this guy, and we are crazy about each other. The only thing I'm a little uncomfortable with is the fact that his best friend is someone he's had strong feelings for and hooked up with in the past. plot twist: she is a lesbian. I ...

Help me sort out my feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure where to start really. I've been in a relationship for 4 years. Basically I felt that he couldn't commit to me. He never asked me to move in or when we'd talk about it he'd come up with so many excuses, he had issues showing h...

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

Difficulty with old and new loyalties

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - Hi. I will try to make this brief but there is a lot going on in my life at the moment. I have been separated 6 years now coming to the end of a divorce although we are amicable my spouse wants still to be friends. We both have new partners alt...

I'm torn between the re-appeared ghosting ex and the lovely but dependent new love interest! Which one do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - I am going through a very tough situation and which is kind of a Love triangle. I've been in a relationship with a girl for about 1 year and I loved her so much . but 6 months back she ditched me for some reason. Everyday we used to go through a lot ...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

Should I tell my ex that I am pregnant with his child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - Hello. I don't know how to say this but I recently found out that I am pregnant with my ex's child. He is 34 and I am 21 turning 22 January. While we were dating he told me he doesn't mind having kids. We dated for 6 months until we started arguing ...

Why didnt he just tell me he didnt want o be with me anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - My ex of 5 years and I have recently broken up. For a couple of months I noticed him being extremely distant. I'd confront him about it and he tells me things at work aren't good and it's not allowing him to spend time with his son like he use to. I ...

I feel keeping me a secret makes me disposable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I am seeing (dating?) a guy, though problem is, he is my ex's friend. I knew the guy first, and my ex knows we spend time together because we've been friends for years, but my ex is somewhat of a ring leader and if he doesn't like something or ...

I'm (21M) receiving ridiculously mixed signals from my best friend (18F)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I met this girl during the summer when she was single and 2 months fresh after her breakup with her 3-year relationship and after two months of just getting to know her, I confessed how I felt but at the time she rejected me because she wasn't ...

I cyber cheated, my fiancé doesn’t want anything to do with me, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

6 November 2017 (M) - Recently my then fiancé found out that I had been having an explicit conversation with an old friend on social media. She found out and we spoke about it and we agreed to move past it and better ourselves because there was a disconnect. Basically ...

My Boyfriend excluded me to his brother's funeral because his ex was going

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am after some opinions please as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset and rejected. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly...

Is this a sign that we are meant to be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - I want to pray to God and ask him if he is the one, but I also know I cannot make anyone love me. He is my ex, but I believe he came back into my life recently for a reason. We took time apart (a whole year) to grow and we now have a stronger ...

My boyfriend loves me, but can't trust me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

1 November 2017 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over two months. Things were going good, until I lied to him. I told him how I was married to my ex but he was helping me with a certain issue. (I cannot disclose, my boyfriend knows). And he was okay with it. I ...