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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel my girlfriend is cheating on me... With her ex husband's new wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

29 December 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, we'll call her "S", for about 11 months. She has a 4 year old son, I have no children. She's divorced, and it was rough. He was an abusive, meth-head a-hole. I've never been married, but I've been cheated on ...

Having a hard time getting over my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2558 days ago

25 December 2017 (M) - I’m all alone this X-Mas season, thinking about my ex a lot. She’s my first love and since we broke up my life has been a mess. I’m in uni right now but it’ll take me awhile to graduate. My best semester was when we were dating. Now I feel so ...

I feel I shouldn't move in til he sorts his children's visitation issue.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 2 years now. we live separately for the moment he has his home and I have mine. He has asked me to move in his home but, I have declined at the moment for this story I will tell. he has 3 children 9,10 and 18. I have ...

I'm crushing on my ex's brother, his partner is my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I no this might sound really bad. But I am so confused right now!! I split with my ex over 3 years ago we have a child together. I have stayed close with his brother and with The brothers current partner. Me and the brother have always been flirty ...

Still mising him two years on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - What is making me cling to memories of my ex? He dumped me two years ago. He abruptly ended the relationship (after months of dating he broke up over text) basically I didn’t fit his schedule and needs anymore and he disregarded me. Obviou...

Did this Married Man forget his former mistress already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I dated a Married Man (MM) for a year and a half. We both worked at my dad’s office. He got caught by his wife 3 times but never left me. The 3rd time he got caught things got pretty bad. He started going to counseling and distanced himself from me. ...

21 year old currently lost in the world, any help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Hello all, Lately, I have grown incredibly depressed. It seems like last year, I had everything I could of wanted at the time. I had a boyfriend, I lived in a nice house, I had a great and fun job, I had a good relationship with my co-...

Should I go and see my ex and offer my condolences because his father died?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - I received a text message from my ex boyfriend this morning saying that his dad passed away last Thursday. I hadn't heard from him for two months before that and haven't seen him for three months. We broke up ten months ago . Strangely enough, I ...

I feel lost in life, how do I find my path and carry on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - Please note I'm not feeling suicidal and have no plans to go down that route, I am simply feeling lost and confused. Ever since my first and only girlfriend broke up with me not 11 months ago I've been effectively listing through life without a p...

Signs he is a compulsive liar? what the heck is that attitude after breakup?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - Hey everyone, So I broke up with my bf about 1 month and a half ago. I am 22, he is 25. We had been together for 1 year and a half. We met as international students (in Australia, I was exchange student and he was studying engineering ther...

My ex is living with his partner but confessing to love me. Is he playing games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

16 December 2017 (F) - I split with my partner two years ago. He gets in contact every few months to say he misses me etc. Not long after we split (he ended the relationship) he met someone else. He’s confessed it was a rebound. Last month he told me that I’m the only ...

Her kids and mine are cousins, is it okay to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

16 December 2017 (M) - So I have started to date or have been with and seen, my ex wife’s brothers ex wife I have a son with my ex and she has two kids with her ex who is my ex wife’s brother. Our kids are cousins but we both want no more kids. We both feel this could be ...

I love him and want to be his but I don't want to get hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

15 December 2017 (F) - So I started dating this guy I never though I’d be with and fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. We had the best relationship. Well he joined the military a year after dating and I decided I was going to support him, that my love for ...

Will I never be with my soulmate? It seems fate is keeping us apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - I met the love of my life when I was 14, we fell in love so deep. The world was our oyster, growing together year after year, experiencing every 1st thing together. Bad and good. Both our life’s were tragically twisted and I made a mistake when I w...

How do I get the power back in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I started an affair with a guy from work around 1 year ago, who actively pursued me. The relationship I was in was physically and dometically abusive and around 5 months ago after police involvement I left him and moved out on my own, which was ...

How do I deal with his ex and his family during Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

9 December 2017 (F) - I have met the most wonderful guy ever. I have totally fallen for him after years of rubbish relationships and I love him wholeheartedly. He has a young daughter with his ex and he never gets to see her despite trying over and over to be civil wi...

Are they together or is she now his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

8 December 2017 (F) - I went on my first date with a guy. I asked him if he's married and he said no. He is semi-famous and has all his life online basically. I did some research and found out that it's possible he has a girlfriend or wife or some sort. On her IG,...

I want her back but she doesn't want a relationship. How can she just walk away?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

6 December 2017 (M) - So, there was this girl I met two years ago and I am in love with her (we dated and were pretty serious) . I am in the military and I was stationed in Alaska.( Where I met her, I am originally from Florida). But I hurt her and she well I left ...

How do I let go of these obsessive thoughts about his past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2579 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - I have met my boyfriend last year and Im so happy with him. The only thing that bothers me is that I keep digging up the past - one day I woke up and wondered, did he really was with me and only me from day one of us knowing each other? This s...

My ex isn't apologetic about his behavior and its starting to turn me off

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2576 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - I broke things off with him because he kept gaslighting me. Anytime I wanted to talk to him about something he’d call me a drama queen, sensitive, emotional. I got so drained trying to salvage things. The last straw was when he told me to shut up as ...

My ex's actions make me feel like I was never worth fighting for

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - Hi guys, So this is an ongoing problem with my ex bf that has left me feeling confused, angry, resentful, but mostly hurt, and I need advice on how to deal with the situation. So earlier this year, I posted on this website about whether or no...