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Sex: Help and advice

How do you get comfortable giving oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2294 days ago

30 July 2018 (F) - Sorry for the rather graphic sex details but I just don't know what to do. Recently started dating for the first time and have started being intimate together these past couple months (also a first). Technically we've "had sex" but it's mostly ...

I had sex with my best friend now I want to be his girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - So I have been best friends with an American man for about 12.5 years now, we met online and started as penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we were going through a tough ...

Lack of sex has made me cheat on my partner. Do I just leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

28 July 2018 (F) - Hi My partner of 6 yrs does not have sex with me at all. He says he just can't be arsed and does not have any interest in sex. I have lived like this for 5 yrs with him. I the first yr he rarely did have sex with me. We are 50 and 51. I have s...

Why does my boyfriend watch porn before having sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1890 days ago

27 July 2018 (F) - Why does my boyfriend watch porn before having sex with me? He gave me a vague response, it was "I just like to be hard already so we can have sex." Then i explained how that could be interpreted wrong, if he didn't try to explain it to me. He then ...

We have slept together on several occasions but now he says he sees us as friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

25 July 2018 (F) - I’d been seeing someone for about 3 months, still obviously early days but I really liked him and I made quite a big step by sleeping with him (due to bad experiences). Anyway about 2 weeks ago he got ill and has been recovering since, he’s okay but ...

I'm too shy to tell my boyfriend that some dominant sex acts are painful to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2300 days ago

24 July 2018 (F) - My boyfriend have always been into dominant sex. Recently, he was asking me to slap him during sex, i found it really odd but i did anyways. We do love each other, however, his dominance in bed is sometimes painful. Im too shy to tell him to calm ...

Our sex life used to be magical until his porn use!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

18 July 2018 (F) - Im 43 and my self confidence and 20 yr relationship is suffering more and more with progressive viewing of porn by my partner. We’ve always enjoyed watching it together every once in awhile and I’m willing to spice up our sex life within reason. But ...

Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2307 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

What does he want? Is there something here or just a sexual relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

14 July 2018 (F) - Going back about 4-5 months ago, I met a guy one night out at a bar. We are 5 years age difference, I'm 22 and he's 27. We immediately slept together that night. We kind of clicked quite well and he got my number, stayed in contact with me and we ...

This confusing guy is sending mixed signals!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

12 July 2018 (M) - So I met this guy off a gay dating app. We had tremendously good sex. As he left my house he told me he "really wanted" to see me again. He lives in a different city and for a hook up from an app, it was brave of him to say that. I asked him when he ...

Is my way of orgasming normal? And was it normal to start so young?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2313 days ago

11 July 2018 (F) - When i was 8 years old, I've literally been having an orgasm and i didn't even knew what orgasm is. I would get it when ever i squeeze my legs together, and i would feel pleasure and relaxed feeling, i also feel pressure down there when i do it. ...

I overheard my wife saying that her ex was the best sex she'd ever had and now my ego is shattered!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2289 days ago

11 July 2018 (M) - So my ego has been devastated and I really don’t know how to handle this. Turns out I’m not the best sex my wife has ever had. Any advice is appreciated. About a week ago my wife had one of her friends at our house for some drinks. After ha...

Is oral sex just this amazing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

7 July 2018 (M) - I have been with my fiancee for 9 years I'm 31 she's 29. Last night she allowed me to go down on her for the first time. It was the first oral experience for both of us, by that I mean her receiving and me giving. My question is, is it normal for me ...

Can someone my age fall in love with a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

7 July 2018 (M) - I had prostate cancer and had my prostate removed making sex imposable now that I am single I am interested in men and women turn me off I am 68 can someone my age fall in love with a guy ...

Sex hurts!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

7 July 2018 (F) - Okay so I started dating this guy a while back and recently we decided to have sex. The first time it was bad, it didn't want to go in, when it went in it didn't go in all the way and it hurt really bad and I ended up bleeding. So we waited a while ...

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and questioning my relationship with my partner because I just found out that he's slept with numerous prostitutes before we met.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

4 July 2018 (F) - Hello. I am 8 weeks pregnant , was so happy with everything and looking forward to the future but now I’m seriously re thinking the whole thing. I have been with my partner a while and we were just discussing the blood tests I am getting for...

My ex has I have slept together too many times!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2318 days ago

4 July 2018 (F) - My ex and I go to the same college. We see each other a lot considering we have many of the same friends. We broke up two months ago because I was stressed out a lot, and he was too about school and things happening with his family. But rece...