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Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband cheated and left me and now he wants to talk. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi, I was married for 30 years. My husband left me three years ago and went off with another woman who he met through as. He has been sober now for six months and I got the first text today from him saying he was sorry for all the hurt he caused and ...

Is he cheating? He changed passwords without telling me and has been gone long hours!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - My husband works as a sales rep, he went out yesterday 6am got back in 920pm at night. He rang at 5 pm to ask what me and our son wanted for tea and said he wouldn't be home until 830pm. He thought i would be ok with him when he got home ...

No matter what I do, the face of this other guy keeps on intruding into my thoughts. How can I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I choose to figure out what went wrong with my marriage that had led me to have an emotional affair with this guy, other than the fact that my husband and I are incompatible. I'd like to believe that I had actually loved him and that I still ca...

Why did I cheat on the perfect husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Why did I cheat on the perfect husband? I have been married for 4 years with a man I love dearly, but I cheated on him for about 1/2 a year with a former co-worker. I only did it for the attention so I changed jobs. I love my husband and now ...

My lady friend couldn't accept that my wife was in my life and ended things. I miss her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

24 October 2015 (M) - Hi People I am married but separated and live alone. My wife and I continue to be friends and I spend a lot of time with her and our 2 girls. Sometimes we share vacations. We go back a long way and I cannot imagine not having her in my life. 6 y...

I'm having separation anxiety with my husband travelling so much and I don't know how to make things better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Please, please can you give me some advice, I'm at my wits end, I don't know what else to do :-( 18 months ago my husband got a promotion at work- we were both delighted as he worked really hard and deserved it. The only issue I have is the amou...

How do I fix that I cheated on my wife and then kept lying about it?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - Over 2 years ago I broke and destroyed my wife's heart by having an affair, at a time when we should have been at our happiest expecting our first child through IVF. On revelation of what happened I cowardly hid the truth in order to save our rela...

Could our marriage be fixed? We have both cheated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married for two years. We have only ever been with each other and both have a very strong religious upbringing. Shortly after we were married we moved across the country and both made major career changes. We agreed to put ...

Am I being played? I've me a wonderful girl, but she's unhappily married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - I met a wonderful girl at the end of june, and i have fallen so in love with her. and she said she feels the same way too. But she is married and unhappy. so now nearly 4 months in to this crazyness im feeling like im being played. we meet u...

Is the wife really accident prone or trying to assault the husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - Wife hits me 3 times in groin with point-point accuracy but says they're all accidents. 1. Wife wakes up and tries to get blanket from husband who's weight prevents her from getting blanket. Wife then does an open-palm strike through the blan...

My husband has cheated on me and I'm not sure if I should have children or even stay in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - My husband and I got married 5 years ago. We rushed into marriage after a year of LDR, during which I found out he had a 3 year old kid with somebody else. I believed him telling me he had no relationship with the mother of his child (Ana). A couple ...

Advice and Help or shall I give up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

19 October 2015 (M) - have recently separated from My wife and I did not want this she did. Due to a number of issues. Which are 1.A family member causing a Rift and I was not there for her properly during the 1st pregnancy 2. Me making silly mistakes 3. Not...

Are my suspicions reasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - Hi, Something is playing on my mind and I need some advice please. I'm too embarrassed to confide in any of my friends or family and I feel sick thinking about this. My husband and I have been together for 14 years and married for 3. I'...

Do I sacrifice the dream of an amazing connection with someone that may never happen or do I stay knowing that will never happen with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - I have been married 20 years and am feeling totally conflicted qs to whether to stay or go out into the world on my own now our Holden are grown My husband is a good man and we get on well. We also have sex that is ok but I would t call it passiona...

Finding another place to live before I tell him the marriage is over seems sensible but also cruel and underhanded. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I am planning on leaving my husband but unsure how to go about it. It was a semi arranged marriage and I have been miserable pretty much since we went through with it, I am miserable and see no future with him. Having said this, he is a kind goo...

I hate my husband for throwing me a suprise party!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

12 October 2015 (F) - My idiot husband threw me a suprise 50th birthday party "knowing full well" that I dispise parties of anykind. I had to lie to everyone and pretend that I was enjoying it, while secretly dispising the whole thing. It has been months and I still have ...

Is my husband remorseful for what he did?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

12 October 2015 (F) - My husband had an affair 3 yrs ago, it's been a very difficult recovery process for me since- I offered forgiveness and he lied and continued communication with her for 3 months after discovery-told many other lies and till this day hasn't given me ...

My daughter thinks my husband and I should date other people but not divorce

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - Had a strange conversation with my daughter and need opinions. A little history: I married very young at 18 because I got pregnant. My husband at the time was 9 years older. We were in love, only had 1 daughter and we made a life together. I ne...

What's the best way out of this situation? I feel like my kind husband doesn't deserve this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - Ok so before I go into my problem I want to start by saying that it's all my fault, I've been selfish and now deeply regretting my decision. I'm a terrible person and I need to know the best way out of my situation. I grew up living in a tiny 2 bed...

Question for men: is it really difficult to leave your wife if you've been having an affair? Or am I right - is he just offering me excuses?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - I have done the unthinkable for the last 8 years of my life. Please don't hammer me. I have been dating married man. No kids. He's much older than me and at first I was just having fun but it turned into love. He's taken me on many trips an...

How do I get him to move into the spare room and take things from there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - I am tired of crying sleepless nights over my marriage. It is loveless, no tenderness and we have tried to keep it together but it seems like a battle going around and around. I'm am quieter than my husband. I have asked him to sleep in the spare ...

Am being impatient? Does he want to reconcile or not? I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

1 October 2015 (F) - After being separated for a few years my husband decided he wants to fix things. He decided this after I told him I don't want him coming up to my home anymore to see the kids. That he can take them to his. At first he agreed, but then the next day ...

My husband only has an open mind for his wants!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

1 October 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been together 9 years, and recently married. Pretty much right up to the point we got married, any purchase on our shared account was discussed and we were both able to get things we needed/wanted. We just moved to a new house ...