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Archived questions from: October, 2020 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

My former superior made work hellish. I’m out of her oversight now but am wondering if I can stay at the company. Your advice, please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1489 days ago

28 October 2020 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles. Would love to hear your feedback and insights on this one. I have been employed at this company for more than a year now. I was instrumental in launching a major product and major partnership last year thereby generating the ...

What is an open marriage like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1487 days ago

28 October 2020 (M) - I have a problem with my sexlife. Usually it is the other way around but my wife always wants it and I dont feel like it. This has been going on for awhile. I think part of it is the stress from my job and just life in general but my libido is ...

I befriended a co-worker who has many issues and I don’t know how to end the friendship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1488 days ago

27 October 2020 (F) - I need help, I seem to have got myself into a horrible situation. First thing is first I would like to acknowledge my own short coming and my responsibility here. I started a new job with an office of 25-30 women in one big room. I'm not much for...

It’s been an emotional roller coaster for me after the breakup! Any insights would be helpful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1490 days ago

26 October 2020 (F) - A couple of months ago, I broke things off with the first, serious possible partner I’ve ever had. It was fast and intense, with thousands of messages, calls, and video chats. Nothing like any prolonged dating I’d had previously. The first time...

I'm unhappy and not sure how to rebuild my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1489 days ago

26 October 2020 (F) - Dear Uncles and Aunts, I very much need your advice. You don’t have to read everything (I just realized how long it is) , this will do ;) Here’s how I feel at this moment: at 44 I’m married to a husband, whose behavior I don’t like, I ...

My father-in-law’s illness has upended our plans!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1493 days ago

23 October 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid I am married for 3 year and been together with my husband for total 5 years and we have 3 year old daughter. It is a good marriage with some ups and downs. We decided to get house few months back and found a house which we both liked an...

Whats the best way to find a therapist to talk to about depression

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1493 days ago

21 October 2020 (M) - A few weeks ago, one of my friends who I known for over 20 years committed suicide. This week, I found out that my best friends 15 years old daughter's cancer returned (she been in remission for three years). I am very worried about her. I hav...

My new love wants children or child I don't how can I tell him no and still marry him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1499 days ago

18 October 2020 (F) - Afternoon everyone, So I'm back in the dating world and my children disapproves of it especially my son my daughter acts happy but I sense differently.So me and my now love are engaged now we have plans to travel move in together and just living ...

He has ptsd how can we make things work

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1498 days ago

15 October 2020 (F) - Hi. Me and a friend decided to have a relationship 3 years ago. its been a bit rocky from after 2 month of dating things were always on and off with him and after a couple of years he started opening up about his past things I didn't know of and ...

I feel numb and can't get into relationships until they have ended. Am I depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1502 days ago

14 October 2020 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles I’m in a rut in my life and need some help. Bit of a backstory I grew up as a child and in my teens around abusive relationships. My mom and dad divorced when I was young and my dad use to beat my mom. My mom then...

I don't want to be in a relationship where I would be the one serving and then die not knowing what it's like to be cared for... should I just break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1498 days ago

13 October 2020 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I are both in our twenties and have been together for a while now. We both had a discussion last night about how our future. I live with a medical condition and so I want to live a good life because I don't know when I woul...

Advice needed on how not to overthink and possibly ruin the start of a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1505 days ago

12 October 2020 (M) - Hi everyone I apologise in advance if this gets too long. I will try to keep it brief. As a bit of context, I don't seem to have much luck with dating. It's not so much that I never meet anyone, it's just that I often seem to be the plan B. I...

How do I accept that this and stop blaming myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1505 days ago

11 October 2020 (F) - My on and off ex boyfriend of 10 years is engaged 6 months into his new relaionship. Aka 6 months after he ghosted me and dropped me like a hot potato. I am completely heartbroken and having such a hard time moving on from this. I am doing all the ...

Things have changed with my health and now she’s been messaging other guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1506 days ago

11 October 2020 (M) - I have been in a relationship for a few years and recently went through some personal troubles. Things are slowly getting better however I have not been speaking with my gf as much, mostly because I avoid my troubles rather than be vocal. We text ...

Why has this breakup suddenly hit me? Shouldn’t I be okay now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1506 days ago

10 October 2020 (F) - I was with my ex for 9years. We broke up a year ago. When we first broke up it didn't feel real and I was actually OK.. my friends said i was too OK. I went on 3 holidays in a row..went on loads of dates and went out partying most nights. I was fine ...

I think my girlfriend has an eating disorder, but she won't talk about it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1505 days ago

8 October 2020 (M) - I think my girlfriend has an eating disorder, but she won't talk about it. We are currently living separately, although we lived together for three years while in college. For the past year, she's been with her family while I am studying for a ...

My boyfriend is ill with the virus and I haven't heard from him. Should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1508 days ago

5 October 2020 (F) - My boyfriend has covid and is quarantined alone, at first he was asymptomatic but symptoms started to come and hes been feeling really bad. I know hes been sleeping most the day but wevejust been FaceTiming at night. Tuesday we got in a small ...

I thought my fake boobs would be perfect but men are completely turned off by them!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1512 days ago

2 October 2020 (F) - When i was in my 20s i worked in a couple strip clubs where there was quite a bit of chicks with boob jobs. It was something i always thought looked really good and being a small b i was a good candidate for the surgery though my natural small boobs ...

Fed up of always being single

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

1 October 2020 (F) - I'm 25 and I've never had a relationship that lasted more than 4 or 5 months. When I first moved to London I really loved being single and enjoyed dating but slowly over the years, its's lost its appeal. I would really like something more serious ...