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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

A dear friend turned hostile

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

31 December 2014 (M) - Dear Cupids; Let me start by setting the scene (I'll try to keep it to the point). I was raised in a large, strict and very religious household. I am one of 29 grandchildren (soon to be 30) and the only one who is gay. My family did not rea...

Should I study business jointly with a language? Then where to work and live successfully as a gay man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

30 December 2014 (M) - Since I am completely uncertain of what I should do, I was hoping for someones help. If i succeed in my exams this July I'll hopefully be off for university when summer ends. I have submitted and received offers from all of my university choic...

I am married with 3 kids and secretly sleeping with men

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

29 December 2014 (M) - Hello. I am a 34 year old married man, i have 3 wonderful children, and a wife who loves me very much, the only problem is that I have been secretly sleeping with other men, I do feel guilty about it, but I feel so free and happy when I am with ...

She's been flirting with another girl. What are my options? I don't think I can cope with her actions and threats.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we've lived together for the last year. I pay all the bills as she works part time and i work full time and everything has been going great. Last month she...

I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I'm a 17 year old girl, who is currently dating another girl. I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel and about my sexuality. I feel like I'm denying my happiness by not being open about my relationships and sexuality...help?...

I love her and we've been doing sexual things together. Despite all this she says she doesn't love me sexually. So what am I, to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I've been best friends with a girl for 5 months. She's my daughters uncle's wife. We have been come really close, and doing sexual things with each other. It's happened 3 times now. I'm confused in what to do. I love her to bits, but she sa...

My ex is coming over and says he doesn't want sex. What if I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

21 December 2014 (M) - Dear cupid, My ex is coming over tomorrow to hag out,he says he wants to catch up and watch TV. He says he doesn't want to have sex but what if I want to? I know I'm not gonna pressure him but I don't want to come on too strong. What do I do?...

Is it me? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - So, I'm a 20 year old gay guy and I'm feeling a little lonely and vulnerable right now. I'm already in my 20's and I've never even kissed another man yet alone have one as a boyfriend. And I really wanna know why that is. I mean, I know the fact ...

FWB advice needed. Is she wanting more but isn't being clear, or am I being used and should I should end it now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, So I've got a question regarding my "fwb". I can't tell what she wants and wondering if I should end it before I develop deeper feelings for her. First background so you can get an idea of where I'm coming from: We call it a...

Unrequited love - should I say anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - I live in a remote Scottish isle, as such its not easy being a gay man--even one who isn't 'out' (though I'm fairly certain all those nearest and dearest to me know or at least suspect). There aren't many other men nearby for friendship or fu...

I am a lesbian crushing on my older male co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - I am so confused and lost. I am a woman, and I currently have a girlfriend, we've been together for three years, we met in college, and we've been through hell and back. The problem is, I have a huge crush on my older male co-worker. It's been alm...

Feeling guilty, ashamed and lost. What can I do about my obsession with this 30 year old woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3663 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - Here it goes.. I'm a 20 year old girl, I have a 21 year old boyfriend and the woman in question is 30 years old. I met this woman on holiday, we got drunk together, I'd say a little bit flirty but nothing major. She was at a party the other week and ...

I'm too shy to talk to girls I'm interested in

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3665 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - I'm 21 and came out as gay last year but still have no idea how to talk to girls I fancy. It seems so simple in my head, yet whenever a girl I like actually starts chatting to me, I get too shy to make any form of decent conversation! For insta...

Discreet bi guy needs help urgently

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

3 December 2014 (M) - Okay so, I'm male and secretly bi, I was happy with the bi part being secret and just always having discreet fun with guys when I'm single. So here's the problem. I was on Facebook the other day and see this guy I don't know why but I was just r...

I think I'm bisexual and I hate myself for it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

3 December 2014 (M) - I recently discovered that I am bisexual. I'm a 16 year old male. I feel like I am a straight guy trapped in a bisexual guy's body. I don't think I was meant to be this way and it makes me sad because I don't accept myself at all. I hate myself ...

Can I stop her retro-jealousy? How and what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

1 December 2014 (F) - For starts I'm lesbian. I lost my virginity to my girlfriend 4 years ago. Before we broke up in 2012 I made her aware of her being my first n I'd do anything to save the relationship. The relationship ended in Dec 2012 despite my efforts. So I...