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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Should I sleep with my ex casually?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - My Ex, who I have not seen in about 7 years, recently invited me over to have a drink. He asked me if I wanted to have sex. I was shocked as he married since our breakup but apparently is splitting up. I told him I was looking for a relationship, ...

I consider her a friend, yet she says I'm using her. Any advice on how to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I met this girl at an AA meeting and she was really cute and flirty at first. We started talking, went to a midnight meeting and I took her back to my apartment and we made snacks. She ended up spending the night and we made out and when we got t...

What started as FWB turned into LDR but he's blowing hot and cold

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - So I am not sure what to do in this situation. Met a guy this summer in July. Since I was moving 8 hours away in August, I wanted to try to keep this a friends with benefits arrangement, but per usual, feelings took hold. We hung about 3-4 times a ...

Don't want to miss out on the opportunity but afraid I'll develop feelings for him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Hi, just asking for your opinion. There is this 50's plus amazing guy at work. He is one of those rare types who attract young girls, more than guys their own age! At work, every and I mean literally every girl would do anything to go out with him(I ...

My instincts tell me he's not one for a FWB

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I have recently started what is supposed to be a "friends with benefits" relationship with a guy who's almost 20 years older than me. He's an incredibly attractive man and we've liked each other for a few weeks and we fin...

Looking for help with emotionally unavailable guy.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - I don't know if this is a long shot but I'm looking for some advice and help with dealings I have with a guy. He is emotionally unavailable, he is my fwb ( when he fancies it!!) and I'm not sure if you'd call him a player. Anyway so I'm hoping to...

I always feel I'm annoying my FWB when I text him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - So, it started back in 2010 when I met this boy and we were just friends with benefits.. I started to really like him and he said he didn't want anything more and then he just randomly got a girlfriend with this girl I disliked at the time. So, ...

Don't want drama. Have not talked to FWB since condom broke. So how do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - Soo I feel really stupid here but I don't know what to do.... I was in this FWB things for a couple months we used condoms but had an incident when one broke and 9 weeks later here I am pregnant. Problem is I haven't talked to him since the condom b...

Sex is the best ever but boyfriend is treating me badly! Do I leave or stay for the sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

15 November 2013 (?) - Hello everyone. I am in a really hard situation and it is eating away at me emotionally. I am in a relationship with a guy who I care about very much. The relationship is 6 months old although I had known him for a year before that. He has s...

Divorced in law dating relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - I'm falling in love with this guy. It is an odd situation, he is my x husbands sister's x husband. We maintained a respectful friendship for many years, I admit I was attracted to him for many years but I never flirted and he never did either. Our ...

Defining Friends With Benefits?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - I always thought I knew what Friends With Benefits (FWB) meant. As I'm reading more of these questions/answers, I'm beginning to see how wrong I was and how it affected my relationships. I still have some ideas of what I think those things are but ...

FWB: why hasn't he contacted me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - Do fwb's suddenly go silent? I've been friends with benefits with a guy on and off (mostly on) for nearly a year. He is sexy as hell, I approached him, but at the time was going through a rocky patch with my then-boyfriend. I was open with him ...

Advise on friends with benefits, please. I have no one to talk to about this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

6 November 2013 (F) - So if you read my previous post some months ago a guy I am very interested in gave me his number, I texted him went out a few times and within a week of going out we became physical. But now am totally heart broken because after our first time tog...

He says he's confused about whether he wants to be in a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

3 November 2013 (F) - Ok, so I have this best friend, we were friends for about a year and then we became really close friends for about another year. Then we started dating and we really liked each other. We were going out for like 4 months.. then he went a bit cold and ...

We've been having NSA sex and I'm confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

2 November 2013 (F) - Female, 17. Soooo...there's this guy and we've been having sex on and off (no strings attached) for about a year and some change. I know he's having sex with other people...and I'm not. It kind of makes me jealous that he can just go around having ...

How can I be sure our relationship won't just turn into a FWB?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 November 2013 (F) - I wrote earlier in the week and got some great responses. So thank u.My original post was about a guy ive been seeing for 2 months. We got into a huge fight (started by me) about being more committed. I flipped out on him and he told me it was done. ...

Both of my friends with benefits don't want to see me anymore. What now?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

1 November 2013 (M) - I guess that this doesn't fall under the traditional, or conventional, relationship topics, but I lost two friends with benefits and I'm going to have a tough time getting back into the dating world. The dynamics of our relationship bas...

My friend expects me to do sexual things that I am not ready to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (?) - Okay so my guy friend talks about having oral sex with me and he wants me to squirt on him and I am nervous because I don't want to have sex with him if we are not married. We went out only one time and with my ex- boyfriends they never put that ...