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Archived questions from: October, 2021 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My dad confessed he's been having an affair for 24 years and loves the woman more than my mom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1110 days ago

30 October 2021 (F) - I'm 35, and have lived with my girlfriend for the past 7 years now. Moved from California to The Bronx, I'm originally from Huntington Park. I've changed names here for privacy reasons. But it's not me and my girlfriend's relationship which ...

My partner cannot handle his guilt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1117 days ago

26 October 2021 (F) - My partner and I are so deeply in Love. We fell in love and we left our spouses without having an affair and were honest with them. My marraige had been over for 4ish years although his only 1 year. This was in March (8 months ago) He has so much...

My husband and I are going away for Christmas and its really upsetting my family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1099 days ago

25 October 2021 (F) - I’ve made the decision to go away to Barbados with my husband for Christmas this year and it’s gone down like a lead balloon with my family. But the truth is every year something always kicks off in my family which spoils the whole holiday and I ...

We can't agree on when to have children. She wants to wait

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1121 days ago

24 October 2021 (F) - Me and my fiancee have had serious arguments recently over when to have kids. We've been together for 6 years, met in Vancouver. American expats in Canada, been here a few years now. Not got dual citizenship yet, just permanent residency. Lived...

I am unsure what to do with my longterm partner and daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1122 days ago

23 October 2021 (M) - I care about my partner but Ive felt like I have always carried her, striving for more in our relationship. Fitness, finances, education, her medical issues. She has suffered depression, anxiety, I am suspecting social anxiety now. I have trie...

Am I crazy for thinking this way about my family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1122 days ago

23 October 2021 (M) - Hello, I have had this question on my mind for a long time and I have never really discussed it with anyone. I wanted to see what other people thought. I am a son in a family of five. My relationship with my family is not the best. ...

How do I have sex with my aunt in the bedroom

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1119 days ago

21 October 2021 (M) - my aunt has romantic feelings for me and i feel the same way with her, and she keeps staring at me sexually and it kind of turns me on the way she does that. and i wish that we could make love in the bedroom (with protection of course) and as a teen ...

How do I tell the my brothers/sisters I don't have the money to have them for Christmas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1124 days ago

21 October 2021 (F) - Dear Cupid , I'm a single woman and share a Condo with My Mother in her 60's .. Every Holiday for the past 16 years both My Siblings a Older Brother and a Married Sister with 4 Children have never volentered to have a Holiday at their Home. I ...

My husband wants me to get pregnant by his gay friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1104 days ago

21 October 2021 (F) - I have been with my husband for 3.5 years, but we've been together for 9 years in total. The big issue here is kids, we both want them, yet my husband has other ideas about how and it's caused arguments. He wants me to sleep with his frien...

My difficult mother hasn't spoken to me since our disagreement

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1126 days ago

19 October 2021 (F) - I have a rough relationship with my mother. Growing up, she's been emotionally and verbally abusive, so as soon as i graduated college and found a job, I moved out, despite her objections. (See my previous questions if you want to understand our ...

I want to help my sister and I don't know how

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1129 days ago

16 October 2021 (F) - My sister Brooke (not her real name) Skyped me the other day saying she's feeling depressed after her husband told her he was gay and had only married her to get into the U.S. from Australia. But this isn't one of those "He's only just realized he...

How can I seduce or flirt with my cousins wife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1131 days ago

11 October 2021 (M) - How can I seduce or flirt with my cousins wife. I have caught her looking at my dick while talking to her.. should I make a move or wait until she makes the first move....

Do I want to continue in this marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1136 days ago

9 October 2021 (F) - My husband and I are both 34 and have a 8 year old and a 6 month year old. We had our 8 year old early on in the relationship. I didn’t know how controlling the in laws were going to get. We lived with them. They eventually pushed us out when my ...

Is my daughter wasting her time with a man 17 years older 3 kids never married

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1139 days ago

5 October 2021 (F) - My daughter is nearly 30 and is seeing a man who is 17 years older. He’s never been married but has 3 kids to two different women. He’s told her he doesn’t want anymore kids or get married. There has been a lot of ups and downs between them (more ...

Am I wrong for feeling like its weird that he is secretive about how happy we are?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1140 days ago

4 October 2021 (F) - My partner of 2 year's family has hesitated to get to know me because his ex of 5 years hasnt gotten over him. She still comes around and they seem really loyal to that relationship, despite the part where shes constantly treating my partner like ...

M I wrong to worry about dad and think this could be related to dementia, or is he just being a huge jerk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1142 days ago

2 October 2021 (F) - My mum told me yesterday she's planning to leave dad because of his obsession with "hotwifing", i.e. a woman who has multiple sexual partners with her husband's consent. She's told him he's gone fucking crazy, but he won't accept it, insists "you...

My fiance left and took my twin sons with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1142 days ago

1 October 2021 (M) - I'm a dad to a 9-year-old son and his twin brother, (non-identical twins). My fiancee cheated on me with a transman who's now detransitioning back to female, and took the kids with him. I don't know what the full story is, and it's ambiguous i...