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We were together 4 years. How can she replace me so quickly?

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Question - (8 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *heridan writes:

Dear aunts, I need help bad, I'm sick of feeling hurt all the time, split from a good/bad relationship in november, not had contact or seen my ex at all but my friends and family seen her a few times and they come and tell me that they seen her and she's happy and a friend and my sis even seen her with her new fella, they think it is anyway. We were together nearly 4 years and it seems as if she just didn't care cause how can she just replace me so quickly? Why can't I fall out of love with her and get on with my life because at the moment I'm really finding life hard as I'm facing bankruptcy as well. I wish I could wake up from this nightmare soon cause it's killing me inside. Hope ya can help plz

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A male reader, sheridan United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2009):

sheridan is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hi aunts thanks for advice help me a bit just a small reply to gina no the bankruptcy wasnt the curse of the breakup but the fact i was broke alot didnt seem to bother to be onest she would always help me out with money and i would allways pay her back thanks aunts

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009):

My boyfriend of 4 years replaced me in a month and is still with her 4 years later. Don't dwell on it; it will only ruin you. It took me these last 4 years to get out of depression because I know he meant the world to me and I thought it was mutual, but apparently I was wrong. Just embrace getting the chance to be young and single and please don't torture yourself- It wont bring her back, It'll just hold you back

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A female reader, loveuxoxo United States +, writes (9 January 2009):

loveuxoxo agony auntaw sweetie its gonna be okay! and the truth is she is missing out of an amazing guy who really cared about her. and maybe she is hurt too and is just rebounding right now. and just take your time. and i know its hard to believe right now but time will heal everything. and as days going on you will get better and its gonna hurt for awhile. but you can get through it. and this experence will help you get stronger. things will be okay. just take a deep brethe and when your ready just live your life. but for right now just stay strong and things will get better. i hope this helps.

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