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Archived questions from: 2 October, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Found a long black hair in his shower...is he cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - About 2 or 3 weeks ago I found a semi-long black hair in my boyfriends shower. Kinda on the wall stuck from the water. I have very blonde hair and his hair is black but very short. None of his friends have black long hair and neither do any o...

Will she ever give me a second chance after something like this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me one month ago and it absolutely broke my heart. We had been dating for two years and she decided to end it about a week after our two year anniversary. I have taken this hard and she has given me reasons for why ...

Why do I feel guilty for turning him in, as a cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - Why do I feel guilty? This guy my friend is dating is charming and smart. They are in a long distance relationship though, but he sends her presents, texts her everyday and has planned to be with her already at christmas and spring break. However,...

MSN messages from her ex has me concerned!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - i am in a long distance relationship, recently i have found out my gf's ex bf has contacted her saying how sorry he is , he realises now what he lost loosing her. she says she only speaks to him as a friend and that he helped her a lot in the past ...

Do I give in to his threesome request or let him go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - My boyfrend and I have been together for 6 months now. He is recently divorced. He left his wife because of several reasons but one of which was the lack of sex. He says our relationship is not based on sex, and yet he said if ever I start not ...

How can I stop myself hurting over my 'toyboy'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I am married and obsessed with a guy 20 years younger than me. We are both taking a class together a few times a week and up until recently, drove together. We sit at the same table and used to have a lot of fun but that has deminished as well. ...

How can I prepare to live on my own without my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 23 years. Last year he had an affair with a girl that he worked with. I was devestated when I found out. I never even had a clue that this was going on, was hit totally blindsided when I found out. We work...

My hubby's always tired and needs to be left alone. I feel the need to cheat, but I love him, how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5924 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - My hubby works alot, 12 hours a day, 6 days a week. He is always tierd and he wants to be left alone. He tells me he is too tierd to make love to me, but it's now been 3 months and I can't take it anymore. I tryed everything! I am home all day w/ ...

He had sex with another girl during our break up and also asked for sexual favours from another girl when I was on vacation. This upset me, what do you think? Am I too controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do? --- My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. I love our relationship because we have so much fun when were together. The history of our relationship is this: We started dating in March, when after ab...

We can't break social customs - so is it wrong that I adore her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - I am 54 with a cute wife, in spite of that i was allured to a cute widow co-worker with 3 kids who's 42. I feel happy to look at her and talk to her, i have not had an affair but have a sexual fantasy. She is aware i am fond of her, but we cant ...

I think he's having an affair, now it's very awkward, how should I handle this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5925 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I am needing some insight and help here and where better a place to ask..many level headed answers I have noticed. About three months ago I went out for drinks with a man at work to whom I was attracted. Things got a little hot and heavy but, t...