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writes:I am needing some insight and help here and where better a place to ask..many level headed answers I have noticed.About three months ago I went out for drinks with a man at work to whom I was attracted. Things got a little hot and heavy but, to his credit he stopped things before we went too far and confessed he was married. I was upset as I liked him but made a clean escape. I had really liked him so there was a bit of a nick on my heart. I am extremely intuitive and I suspect that he IS having an affair with another woman in the office now. I know that some people will say I am jumping to conclusions but I can just tell. I do not plan to blow the whistle but am having difficulty dealing with them. I think both of them suspect I know and I am dealing with pretty odd behaviour from both. This man caused me some grief and like the hallmark card..the gift that keeps giving...he keeps giving grief. I just do not acknowlege him now but she is acting odd as well. I tried to do the right thing by not getting involved but how do I handle the decisions of others...this is awkward.
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reader, candace  +, writes (2 October 2008):
Well, IDK. Leave them be...they deserve eachother---do not lower yourself to that level. You know this type of man... he is on an ego boost... He is obviously loving it and getting his ego quite pumped. If you want to keep pumping his ego-keep paying attention to it...and hers too!
Make a couple new friends and don't allow people like that in your life. You can make that choice!
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