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writes:i am in a long distance relationship, recently i have found out my gf's ex bf has contacted her saying how sorry he is , he realises now what he lost loosing her. she says she only speaks to him as a friend and that he helped her a lot in the past with problems. but when me and my gf were speaking on msn i got a message that was about him. i asked her why she sent it, was she talking to him as well same time as me, she said no. she said she was only looking back on past messages from him and accidently pressed on on 2 them, and they appeared on my msn, the message was saying how she thought he looked so good . i asked why read them, she said she was only looking at them. i dont know what to do, what to think, please someone help,
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reader, x-xLuckyx-x  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 I think you should just cool it for a couple of weeks, see wot happens and then go from there, private message me if you have any other problems i can help you with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008): Hey sometimes we know the answer to what we are asking.Its right there in front of us.if you are not able to trust her forget the relationship.At times trust your gut instincts.They are always right.if you feel that she is lying then in all probability she is definitely lying.Now its up to you to decide if three is a crowd?
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (3 October 2008):
 She is more than likely chatting with him and unfortunately you know the truth already. The truth is that she accidentally sent the message to you, instead of him or some other guy. I'm almost 110% sure that there is no way to send a message to you that was merely in her saved messages. So it seems she has lied to you and why would she do that? Because she is hiding something.
You have to find out for sure and not let her make a fool of you and not tolerate this happening.
Good luck sweetie,
Michelle
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