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Archived questions from: 1 October, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

It's been 21 weeks, and I'm still in agony

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Hi, thanks for taking the time to read this..im a 33 year old gal from London, i went through a divorce 4 years ago from the father of my 2 children, until May 27th this year i was living happily with my partner of 3 years. we hit off immediately...

I have a bf but can't forget the other guy. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I've made such an incredible mess. I was with somebody for 3 years (lets call him D) and threw the whole relationship away for someone who I had so much in common with, he made me feel wonderful and he was ever so good looking, my tall dark mystery ...

I really loved him but he's just dumped me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend or now my ex had been together for a year.We got on like a house on fire when we were together and i think we loved each other dearly..well i know i loved him. We were in a ldr and saw each other every other weekend i had plans to move ...

Manager dating an employee?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - My parents own a restaraunt here in town and I moved up here (about an hour away from my hometown) to come up and be the store manager. It has been difficult for me as I am only 21 and didn't know anyone in this town, but I started becoming friends ...

Why does he keep showing up when I'm dating a new guy, and get my hopes up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Me and my ex were together for near 2 years, we broke up about 8 months ago.. Because well, he changed basically.. He wasn't like the guy i fell in love with. I still love him and think i always will, but everytime i get into a new relation...

Are any women actually trustworthy?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - I'm losing faith in humanity in general and myself in particular here. A little more than five weeks ago, my fiancée dumped me. I'm 25, she's 21, and we had been together for over 3 years, engaged for over one year. We were making good progress pl...

My EX boyfriend wants to get me pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - He broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and I ended up moving out. He said he was unhappy and needed space. He said we both had realtionship issues we had to figure out before we could try again. He wrote me a 4 page letter telling me how much he ...

My ex seems to have moved on but I cant get over her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Hi Well Broke up with my GF about 2 months ago. I still see her every day /second day, and we are trying to be friends. She basically told me she isnt interested in sex/kissing with anyone, and yea. Anyway, lately I have been swamped with uni...

I'm really hurting from our break-up, I need to know how to get over it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - My ex split up with me nearly 2 months ago. I have been doing the thing that everyone keeps telling me to in the last few weeks, giving him his space, not talking about the break up etc etc. But deep down im really really hurt. In the first few ...

His female friends seem more suited for him..should I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Hey I've just started going out with this boy who i met through a friend, hes really nice, friendly and polite. He's kinda emoish but likes mainstream music and stuff as well. I'm not really into either of them. He has alot of friends who are girl...

What would you do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Your gf/bf of 1.5 years had sex with his/her ex (multiple times) after a week and a half of being broken up. he/she really regrets it and wants you back. would you take him/her back?...

Was this love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Ok im sure all the adults are going to say the same thing they say to every other kid that askes this question. but im different then other kids my age. i was raised only around men betwean the age of 30-60 so i have the mind of an older person. my ...

He broke up with me, I don't see how it was my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - We were fine , , quite and peace life , sometimes he was ignorant other time he used to be nice .. but we were fine .. until the black Thursday night came without any warns .. I wish the day didn’t come ,but there is something waiting me on the c...

He broke up with me because he was too impatient to wait for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - My ex bf broke up with me and hurt me really bad during the relationship. He broke up with me because he was too impatient to wait for sex. I wouldnt have sex with him because I didnt feel he respected me and I had a feeling in my gut that he was ...