A
female
age
30-35,
*andinglove
writes:I've made such an incredible mess. I was with somebody for 3 years (lets call him D) and threw the whole relationship away for someone who I had so much in common with, he made me feel wonderful and he was ever so good looking, my tall dark mystery i secretly referred to him as. Now he's left me and the man I was in a 3 year relationship with wants me back, he informs me he's in love with me and some nights I miss him, his backwards hugs and so on. I can't get my tall dark mystery out of my mind, and although I want things to work with D i wonder whether perhaps I just want someone in my life to kiss me when i'm feeling down no matter who it is. I feel as though i have led D on however and would feel so terrible to tell him how i'm feeling. I'm so confused and have no idea what truly would be the right thing to do, I'm finding it so hard to forget my tall dark mystery but what can I do about everything? any suggestions would be wonderful! Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 October 2009):
Sounds like you need to move away from them both. It doens't seem to me like either of these guys is right for you. Try moving on from them both.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009): I agree with the answer below.Try to move forward and just relex.Just give sometime, when time pass you will forget things.Don't be depress.Try to busy.School, work, spend time with your friend or family.Do not contect with them for awhile.You'll feel better by time.Good luck.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009): I've had a tendency to be very needy of love and affection when single too so I know how powerful and uncontrollable that feeling can be. But it sounds like neither of these men are really for you. Your dark mystery has left you so you have to move on. Your old boyfriend you probably love in a friendship kind of way but if you left him for someone else already it doesn't seem like there is any future there really. Also at your age there is a lot of time for you to find and settle down with 'the one'. Try not to worry too much and just move forward and keep looking for the person who really holds your affection and wants to keep holding yours too...
...............................
|
