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writes:We were fine , , quite and peace life , sometimes he was ignorant other time he used to be nice .. but we were fine .. until the black Thursday night came without any warns .. I wish the day didn’t come ,but there is something waiting me on the corner .In that black night ,, after we finished watching our movie , I came to hug my ex , he pretended that he was sleep , so I went to the room .. I back after 10 minutes I found him watching TV , I said you were sleep , he look s at me with out giving any answer… so I was pissed off . I back to room again He came and he said good night .. I said I don’t believe that you wish me a good nightHe got annoyed and he said enough bullshits, enough, get out of the room I want to sleep , no time for bullshits I went out and he locked the door in my face … Was hard , but I thought its only fight ,like any couples and I was mistaken ,,, but do I deserve it ? is it kind of treatment ,cuz I said I don’t believe you ????and he didn’t see himself when he pretended that he was sleep …. Next day was Friday , he was invited for dinner with his friends , he came home from work , he didn’t talk to me ,running to his shower and started wearing clothes and he looked at me and said You can come ?not the usual way when we go out , I said yes ..Was mistake Went for dinner . while he was driving I asked how was ur day ? …,, he said can we talk later I am driving ( doesn’t mean shut up) In the dinner no one of his friends talked to me … while I was trying to talk but was strange Back to home , Friday night , one of his friends came over to spend the weekend in our place…. Saturday … got up and I offered the coffee , breakfast , and they were talking and talking no one talked to me , I felt myself ignored They started downloading new tv series and watching ,maybe they watch more the 10 episodes in that day I was looking at my ex and smiling , he didn’t give me the attention Talking, no answer s , or few words , yes , no , maybe Went to my room , I sat on the internet , got out of the room didn’t see them , they went out I called my ex , he said we went to drive him I will See you tomorrow , good night !!! was only 7 pmOn Sunday I always work in the morning .. back to home I asked my ex what’s wrong , enough , plz tell me , he said I cant do this anymore , I don’t want you I didn’t believe , I didn’t , why ,,, what was my mistake , I asked him to give me reason , he said you stress me …we were happy just 3 days ago ? weren’t we Stay here as long as you need , we are flatmates !!!! no moreNext day he brought date home ,next day ,,,,, while I was watching ? and I started inspecting places to move Sorry ? guys is it reason to kill this relation ? we haven’t had any fight We haven’t faced any serious problems I don’t want to feel guilty and I am the reason , , I got to talk to his ex gf , the one before me , she told me , this man has no heart , he did the same to me , and I took me 2 years to get over him ( our ex is so beautiful and handsome man) He just want change and he never ever loved me , cuz he hate himself This is my story , was I mistaken ? do I have to feel guilty ? Its been 3 month and I cant get over it Its been 3 month and I cant understand I am addicted to him and i miss him
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2009):
You havne't done anything wrong, so you have nothing to worry about or feel guilty about. This guy wasn't the one for you. Give yourself time to heal, then go and find a better guy will love you to bits. He's out there. Just give yourself time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): You have no reason to feel guilty. He decided it was over, for reasons of his own. You will likely never know those reasons. It's awful, but it happens sometimes.
All you can know is that it is over. There is nothing you can do to make it better, to get back to where you were. There is no point in missing him. The only thing you can do is to move on.
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (1 October 2009):
 No one here can do anything but empathize with you.
Your ex has absolutely no love for you. It may simply be that he never did; and he'd been acting for as long as he could.
Some people will fool you, fool themselves and mislead you. Then one day, they just move on without any hint or clue on your part.
The only thing you can do is heal on your own. Its so sad you've been subjected to something like this because it appears from what you've said, there's nothing you did. He just stopped loving you or didn't love you at all.
In either event, its a terrible thing to love someone and then they disappear from your life. I can only empathize with your situation and hope that you recover eventually and find a man who will love you, adore you and give you his heart as you have so generously done for this guy who walked on you.
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