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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I'm mid-thirties and newly single and feel that all my friends have everything I want.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - Hello I'm new to this and am typing this because I feel so down and like life is passing me by and I have no purpose. My relationship has just ended as I didn't think he could make me really happy and I'm mid-thirties and newly single and feel ...

I can’t just be friends because I’ll always want more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 January 2009 (M - My girlfriend split with me 3 months ago because she says I couldn’t talk to her and that made her worry about what future we would have. We’d been together for over a year, been through some hard times with exs and stood by each other no matter ...

End it or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 January 2009 (M - I am in love but the thing is I have suspicions on my girl. I think she goes and sees her ex, you see she did that to one of my close friends but says it was payback for something. I find it hard to trust her at times but at other times my trust ...

Should I call him or his friend???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - So my boyfriend and I broke up on the 28th after a really happy day together full of cuddling, laughing, and watching tv...but that night he said "lets just be friends" I was so confused and upset...he says he still likes me...and I really like hi...

Need real advice, we are on a break from our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We also have lived together for 8 months currently in a one bedroom apartment. Whenever we get into a small argument, he never wants to talk about. He gets up goes to the bedroom and gets ...

He dumped me for another girl and lives next door!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - I have just been dumped after a relationship of 17 months. I met him just as he hit on a very difficult time in his life financially and was very reticent to get involved at first. But i did. i stuck with him through the hard times and fell head ...

The thought of him moving on makes me physically sick...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - I was dating this guy for one year. During the first week or so of that relationship, he cheated on me with his ex. During the last week, I found out he sent a letter to a girl at work telling her he was falling in love with her. She didn't feel the ...

Does my ex love his new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - Does my ex love his new gf if he does not leave me alone after i've told him to? I don't know what to think!!? My ex and i dated for 5 years and were engaged for 2. I called the engagement off this past march because i was so scared and want...

He broke up with me to be single and focus on himself. What do you guys think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - Hey everyone Me and my BF broke up about 4 months ago. I had no idea why. He just came one day and said, he wants to be single and he needs to focuse on himself. I was absolutely devastated. Our relationship was great as well as sex. I loved him...

Painful after painful relationship....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - hi everyone, I have had 3 painful relationships one after another. The first one lasted nearly 2 years, we were thinking to get married, at least i was, but he cheated on me and left me for another girl. after that i could not overcome this situat...

Is she totally over this forbidden love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

2 January 2009 (M - I had a girlfriend and we just broke up a week ago.. Our love was so intimate .. She was younger than me though..She's 16 but she thinks maturely..(I guess).. The reason for our break up was because of her mother... Her mother doesn't like me at al...

How do I get the trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

2 January 2009 (M - I am 28 and been in a serious relationship for the last 2 years, and have been living together for the last year. We have had alot of issues with fighting and i admit i can have a very hot temper. She travels back and forth to see family where she ...

I don't understand him at all... can someone please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

2 January 2009 (F - I'm sorry this is so long but it's a bit of a long story. My bf of two years and I broke up in mid-November and there's been some weirdness between me and my ex. Let's start with episode 1 (I'm sorry it's so long but I can't figure out how to ...

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